Is he worth investing time on?

[tonamimargaux]

This guy I met on an online platform keeps telling me that he wants to talk to me more. But never really initiates any voice calls. Prefers talking only in the voice rooms. But randomly keeps texting & showing his steaks and meals from time to time though. I don't understand, he's even asking me to come down to the Philippines to one of our mutual friend's place. Should I stop overthinking and not take him too seriously?

[Smoothing]

The question is, how do you feel about him? And how well havevyou gotten to know him?

All the other questions you are asking are irrelevant and pointless without asking those two above.

[tonamimargaux]

I don’t know anything about him yet. Haven’t had any 1:1 conversation in private. Whatever little inform he sold me was in the VR amongst our friends. Also it’s too early maybe even he is skeptical or just playing

[Smoothing]

Well, the fact that you haven't met yet, means that you should not take much seriously. I will let you in on a secret.

Men, never truly make up their mind about a woman unless they have met in person.

We don't even care about the conversations we have online. A man only believes he is now getting to know a woman, from the first moment they meet in person.

[tonamimargaux]

Okay got your point. Maybe he just wants to meet in person first. No harms either he will like me or he will just friend zone me. And I need to think for myself because I don’t wanna travel that far to get friend or sista zoned!!

[Anonymous]

Definitely stop overthinking.

[tonamimargaux]

He’s weird he keeps texting me while we are in the VR’s & already talking.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, and that's a long way to travel to see someone.

[tonamimargaux]

What would it make of me if I went there? As I was anyway going to go to Palawan

[Opinion Owner]

It would show interest in him.

[tonamimargaux]

Shite!

[Alex8736]

he's a scammer catfishing you block him

[tonamimargaux]

What? Really?

[Alex8736]

have you ever heard his voice?

[tonamimargaux]

Yup like I have been hearing his voice for a week now

[Alex8736]

sounds like he is using a burner phone

[tonamimargaux]

Wow what made you say that?

[Alex8736]

when you mentioned the Philippines

[tonamimargaux]

Lol no he is not I’m sure of that