Do you ever hit on other people while in a relationship?

[SammieUnicorn369]

I am dealing with this very flirty guy at work, he's really hot. Its a huge confidence booster. Through creeping on social media I saw that he has a girlfriend.

Why would he be flirting with/hitting on me?

[h0rnyassbjtch]

If you notice things are getting flirty ask him if he has a girlfriend, and that you want to respect her. If he says that he doesn't then you should contact his girlfriend on social media but have proof that he's actually hitting on you. You don't want to seem crazy afterall. If he says he does, but he doesn't care then that's just a garbage man. He cheated on his last girlfriend, so who is to say he won't do it to you? On the other hand, if he has a really good reason for cheating on his girlfriend like she's very abusive and he doesn't know how to end things. Then it's ok if your with him in my opinion. Just don't get too attached because it could have been a lie.

[FreyaRed]

I have a talent to bring guys down and I use it if I'm 'out of order' for them alias in relationship I enjoy.
In your case I think it's a guy who runs behind every skirt he finds on his way. Your ego might suffer a bit if you observe a little bit more his behavior and you notice he does it with every girl in your workplace.

[SammieUnicorn369]

Fair enough. I work on a team of married or in a long term relationship guys. I'm the only straight female, and he doesn't hit on her because everyone knows she gay. I kinda wanted to legeverage this to get a different guy. Mean I know, butttt jealousy is a motivator.

[rjroy3]

Clear a few things up. It is clearly stated on his social media 'in a relationship with X" or some version of that?

Or did you go scrolling and see a pic of him and a girl that he was likely dating, but could just be a photo with an ex he hasn't taken down.

Because I've had girls think I was in a relationship because I still has pics of me with an ex girlfriend months prior, while I was single.

Also, in what way was he hitting on you?

To answer your question. No, but I've flirted

[humpbackjack]

First off no I don’t flirt at work even if I wasn’t married I don’t shit where I eat. As far as why is he hitting on you is to hook up and if he ditches his girlfriend for you then there’s a big chance he’ll do the same thing to you. So flat out it’s a bad ideal you should just avoid him

[Anonymous]

Like you said, flirting can be a confidence boost. When you're in a relationship for a while, having others flirt with you can be flattering. Flirting can be fun too. The problem would be if he starts to take it too far with you. But I think harmless flirting is a fun social dance to do, single or not

[Uptowngirl88]

He's using you to boost his ego. He knows you're a fangirl and takes advantage of that. Stop being so easily impressed. Is he interested? No, he just does this because his girlfriend probably gets hit on multiple times a day so he wants to come home with bragging rights too.

[Zer0Ghost]

Because it's been allowed within the boundaries of his relationship, he actively doesn't care about his relationship, or he's been misled to think that if he's not dunking his manhood elsewhere it can't be cheating so he does everything but

[Azrael02]

I mean, im super flirty. Its just my personality. doesn't mean i would stray, just the way i talk and who i am i guess.

[Nikki6t6]

Nope… what goes around comes around… I’m loyal until someone gives me a reason not to be… + I don’t want any surprises my way knowing I had it coming

[DonkeyDan]

Not intentionally but I'm a friendly guy and I had girls mistake my fun personality and chat as flirting which has led to some awkward moments.

[hahahmm]

No. At least not intentionally & as I got older I eliminated the unintentional stuff too.

He's probably sleeping with many different women.

[Angel_123]

he's a cheater and a player and a player plays their victim and preys

Just play the game like he is 😏

[LonewolfMeme]

No. Thing with me is that I remain loyal until it’s discussed otherwise.

[SphynxUK]

He’s a flirt.
Or, he’s super friendly and you’re reading it wrong.

[Prideful]

I imagine I can but it's my responsibility to be committed to the relationship. You don't see that enough these days.

[Sakiyamoon]

Nope can't say I do. If I'm taken my vibe says it all. Too loyal in my opinion.

[rienna888]

Because he’s a piece of shit and his girlfriend needs to know before she loses most of her youth to this sack of crap

[Anonymous]

Because he is a shitty boyfriend. I would suggest steering clear off a guy like that. If he's doing that with his girlfriend imagine what he would do to you..

[Unicorn_lover_2002]

there's nothing wrong with flirting in my opinion as long as you dont act on it

[pink_and_inlove]

No that is wrong besides I am very shy natured and wouldn’t even think about doing that

[ThatNoUVAtYourEyes]

It isn't a confidence booster. You are a cheating whore.

[Brizzybrez]

You can find people attractive, it’s human nature. It’s if you act on it or not.

[mackiewishbone]

Because you allow it! You’re gonna hook up with him thus enabling his poor behavior.

[888theGreat]

Because guys think they are so it that they deserve 20 women

[R4zor]

No they can so they do

[nogirfrienknowlove]

WTF thats bad not only are you risking two timing but if your partner finds out they will definitely leave you.

[slatyb]

I don't because I don't want to waste their time.

[Turtleneck22]

Maybe he is just being nice and perhaps that’s his personality

[Anonymous]

there's a difference between flirting and just talking. Are you sure you aren't getting the two mixed up

[mvpverona]

He is pure trash do not entertain him.

[Jlegacy]

It won't yield any desirable result.

[NicoleNatZZ]

Yes lol it buys you drinks

[ItsTheNephilim]

Smh no.

[dudeinohio]

I do not

[daddy_issues_69]

Not really I'm not that kind of person yk

[Fuentes]

Nah i do not

[Slim57]

Hell no

[Sketti2021]

Never. Cheaters suck

[Iron_Man]

No way Jose

[In_Trance]

never

[Twalli]

He's a flirt.