I'm being ghosted by the same guy twice, help?

[Anonymous]

So i met this guy on tinder at the start of the year. It was going ok but it was obvious i liked him more. He would then become distant with me, eventually i unfollowed him on instagram and blocked him. It really upset me because i was trying and he would just ignore msgs.

Its now this week and im back on tinder because of lockdpwn, i found him on there, and swiped yes again (i know stupid) but then we matched. So i msged him and he again has ignored me.

I feel so worthless, any advice wpuld be great right now because im spiralling :(

[SnakeBoop]

learn it was stupid to think he would change and move on. its just a form of rejection and doesn't change who you are, or how seem to others. its just a dick move on his part instead of "thanks for the match, not interested". his fault for matching too i guess...

[Anonymous]

It's weird to me that you'd match again with him if he ignored you the first time. Are you sure his "distant with me" was personal? Like maybe it wasn't you, but just him and his life? Maybe he's not on there much? My thoughts are if it was intentional, you wouldn't have matched the second time (ie he wouldn't have also swiped right again).

[Opinion Owner]

But if it's affecting you this much, I say unmatch him and even block his profile if need be so you don't see him again. Either way he's not going to communicate with you like you want him to, so he's not your match.

[Asker]

It's been 2 days and he didn't even respond to me when I said hi but I just saw his instagram and he is adding other girls. I just think his playing games with me just like the first time.

[Asker]

I dont understand it either. Why would he match with me if he saw my profile again?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah some people are weird lol. Unless it was quick or accidental? Maybe he just swipes right on everyone? I guess some do that.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Lol relax. Pm me if u want to talk.

[In_Trance]

serves you right