Do you believe doing 50/50?

[Anonymous]

Never go 50/50 with a man. 50/50 is for the birds, a man would never go 50/50 with his dream girl. He’s just using you while he’s saving up for the woman he really wants.

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+1 y

I got it from a forum, so they aren’t my words. You agree or disagree. That’s up to you.

[Avcfhcic]

I am in favour of a completely equal and fair relationship expenditure. Whether that go 50/50 all the time or take turns in paying then yeah I agree.
Why would it be fair for 1, usually the guy, to pay for everything in a relationship made of 2 people.
The non payer can't expect to just be gifted everything in life, the payee is using hard earned money to be with them. Surely both should invest equally into it. Therefore if the worst happens and they break up, a 50/50 would mean they haven't splashed loads, it's an equal investment that just didn't turn out well.
It's a bad way to look at things but money is important these days and if a girl expects the man to pay, the forget about it

[iBeowulf]

Guys, statistically speaking the sex dries up after commitment. Men get in relationships for sex and women for money. Commitment is a trap. Don't be her golden parachute. Marriage, cohabitation, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows and women file 80-90% of divorces and get custody and alimony in 90% of cases.

[kyleelyn199723]

Ehhh I disagree your answer. Not every guy has it right away and I think essentially if you are letting a man pay every single time, I think you become more of a chore especially when you are making your own income. I’d rather not be considered a chore. Me and my man go half and half once in a while but then there’s times where he will pay for everything, and then I’ll take my turn and pay for everything. A man paying for everything is very outdated

[Asker]

They are not my words, I got it from a forum. And my feelings are I neither agree or disagree…I am neutral.

[kyleelyn199723]

Ahhh well I am glad you updated your answer to explain it’s from a forum because without that , it sounds like your own words

[Avcfhcic]

We need more like you these days 🤗🤗

[Anonymous]

It depend if we have same income or I earn more than I don't see how it won't be fair at least I would offer to pay for my part or for both of us if he earn more than I guess maybe he should pay or we should go 50/50 . and in marriage we should have joint account

[iBeowulf]

Notice how you skipped over you paying for him, because women are greedy. Men, don't be her goldmine.

[Opinion Owner]

@iBeowulf didn't I said for both of us? It mean pay for him and me

[iBeowulf]

When that happens she's 25% more likely to break up or file for divorce.

[Opinion Owner]

@iBeowulf so we can't win

[iBeowulf]

You're a woman. You get Affirmative Action, you don't register for Selective Service, men are expected to provide for you... it's men who lose everything when women decide the relationship is over.

[Opinion Owner]

@iBeowulf well maybe I am not from USA but from Europe or Asia and we don't get affirmative action and Selective Service are not mandatory? and men are only expected to provide because women income decrease after kid's and in many countries both work

[iBeowulf]

It's called other things, that's all. Women are hypocrites the world over, that's the short version. Commitment is a trap, fellas.

[TheFlak38]

->Im a strong independent woman
->never go 50/50

women are the epitome of contradiction and hypocrisy

[Hiitsme23]

😭🤣🤣 you have a good point

[iBeowulf]

[Smash and dash intensifies]

[Jamie05rhs]

Wow- you are so misguided.

[Asker]

Reread the post, their not my words.

[Jamie05rhs]

I read it the first time before you added the update.
Next time use quotes.