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If I can’t attract women with how I am now then I am certainly not about to change to do that 🤷♂️
Why change? If they can't accept you for who you are, then the relationship is not going to last.
No! Improve yourself for your own sense of self worth and personal journey of discovery.
If attracting women is a goal you have sure, why not?
Well you'll attract women if ypu imptove yourself either way so yeah I mean its a part of the deal
No you should be you and they will like you it is really your choice but I think you shouldn’t have to change for anyone
that depends on if being yourself has not worked too well i say.
No, i don't think you should.
You should never try to change yourself for others, that's very depressing.
Do whatever you want, if you want it.
Why? I'm sweet and romantic and that's all needed. I'm not going to adapt to people.
If you want, why not?
No , you should improve yourself for yourself
Not for attracting woman..
But for myself.
No, you should improve yourself for you
Do it for yourself and your own happiness.
You just improve. Rest happens
Freud would say we’re already wired to do so.
Thats the main reason why men do this
If u want coochie yup
No, improve for yourself first
I need some kind of motivation. Ill use women
You can. I just don't think it's healthy to change for someone else. We should look after ourselves first, for us, not for them
We change for other people and to fit in or be accepted
Well I don't. I change to be me
Exceptions disprove the rule?
I just want to be happy, that's all.
Im always confused by this. Do women realize that 99 percent of all men will just goof off if they are devoting their life to a wife and children. I honestly always suspect that this opinion is held by women who never want to grow up themselves.
@ToastyOats I just feel like you should be the best version of yourself and be proud of who you are before looking to attract a partner, that's all. And if the relationship doesn't work out, your lifestyle isn't gone, those improvements you made, those new habits stay
You can never be the best version of yourself until you have become a lover a parent and an elder of your people.
@ToastyOats What if being a lover or parent isn't something they are striving to be?
Well they are just probably more interested in themselves than others.
If you looking to hook up
For sex yes it’s worth it
Primordial instinct
No, improve for yourself first and foremost.
Yes.
Yes, you should.
no not really
You should for the sake of improving yourself
if thats what you want go for it
Why not?
Yes.
No, just no
Why not?
Why not?
Never
Ofc NO