Should you improve yourself just for the sake of trying to attract women? (Page 2)

[Relux47]

If I can’t attract women with how I am now then I am certainly not about to change to do that 🤷‍♂️

[Paulychicago10]

Why change? If they can't accept you for who you are, then the relationship is not going to last.

[KrakenAttackin]

No! Improve yourself for your own sense of self worth and personal journey of discovery.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

If attracting women is a goal you have sure, why not?

[BareNecessary]

Well you'll attract women if ypu imptove yourself either way so yeah I mean its a part of the deal

[Noone555]

No you should be you and they will like you it is really your choice but I think you shouldn’t have to change for anyone

[Better_off_here]

that depends on if being yourself has not worked too well i say.

[Iliterallyhavenoidea]

No, i don't think you should.
You should never try to change yourself for others, that's very depressing.
Do whatever you want, if you want it.

[Andreatheflyer]

Why? I'm sweet and romantic and that's all needed. I'm not going to adapt to people.

[RawIronhide]

If you want, why not?

[Uptowngirl88]

No , you should improve yourself for yourself

[Sam_The_Savage]

Not for attracting woman..
But for myself.

[aquamarine321]

No, you should improve yourself for you

[EssenceOfLight]

Do it for yourself and your own happiness.

[he-takes-a-part]

You just improve. Rest happens

[OddBeMe]

Freud would say we’re already wired to do so.

[CreamySeed]

Thats the main reason why men do this

[Fuentes]

If u want coochie yup

[JosyJosy]

No, improve for yourself first

[Asker]

I need some kind of motivation. Ill use women

[JosyJosy]

You can. I just don't think it's healthy to change for someone else. We should look after ourselves first, for us, not for them

[Asker]

We change for other people and to fit in or be accepted

[JosyJosy]

Well I don't. I change to be me

[Asker]

Exceptions disprove the rule?

[JosyJosy]

I just want to be happy, that's all.

[ToastyOats]

Im always confused by this. Do women realize that 99 percent of all men will just goof off if they are devoting their life to a wife and children. I honestly always suspect that this opinion is held by women who never want to grow up themselves.

[JosyJosy]

@ToastyOats I just feel like you should be the best version of yourself and be proud of who you are before looking to attract a partner, that's all. And if the relationship doesn't work out, your lifestyle isn't gone, those improvements you made, those new habits stay

[ToastyOats]

You can never be the best version of yourself until you have become a lover a parent and an elder of your people.

[JosyJosy]

@ToastyOats What if being a lover or parent isn't something they are striving to be?

[ToastyOats]

Well they are just probably more interested in themselves than others.

[Asianguy123]

If you looking to hook up

[Hanmakevy]

For sex yes it’s worth it

[Bebress]

Primordial instinct

[Anonymous]

No, improve for yourself first and foremost.

[Wester1967]

Yes.

[backdoorman]

Yes, you should.

[Jakekk7634]

no not really

[Anonymous]

You should for the sake of improving yourself

[Anonymous]

if thats what you want go for it

[Luopio27]

Why not?

[HighBoi]

Yes.

[Anonymous]

No, just no

[Anonymous]

Why not?

[Julious0202]

Why not?

[Slim57]

Never

[Anonymous]

Ofc NO