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Sounds contradictory coach, but dont be trying to attract women, rather keep trying to better yourself.
I went through a bad breakup in my early 20s. Dated a nurse for four years. First girlfriend. She suddenly ghosted me. No warning. No explanation. Nothing.
The only way I could move on was invest in myself. Prove im worth more than that. I took risks. Lived life to its max. Worked tons of long hours and made money. Learned to fly a plane. Bought a house. Bought a plane. Got back into skiing. It was a leap but it was fun. Taught myself music. Made new friends. I developed a new me. And other people wanted it.
Before long, women all over were wanting my time and suddenly became the one being selective. Some were just fun girls to be around. Others were premium. I got married and now my wife and kids are learning flying and skiing. What i built for me is now my legacy
Ironically years later the same nurse girlfriend contacted me thinking I was feeling sad about our breakup. She was. I told her it was the best thing that ever happened to me.
Life is good coach. Treat people kindly. I've learned assuming the best in others will bring out the best in you. Good luck
Are you a Dentist?
Lol, no.
Hitting the weights... DO NOT RELY ON MONEY TO ATTRACT WOMEN. I mean it's great to get your money game up, but hide it and keep it for yourself. Look at all these rich fuckers that end up with trans looking women... and then get divorce raped for more money... that's where the money route will get you. Just being buff you'll get a hottie that just wants you for looks... what's wrong with just that? Do you really need a fancy car when it can't really do more than my police interceptor that still has the car rammer in the front. You still have to drive the speed limit, but at least my car makes people slow down and get the fuck out of my way... every person in front of me thinks I'm about to pull them over. I replaced the stereo with a back up camera screen and a awesome stereo... a fucking Lexus can suck my fucking nutts and get out of my way when I'm coming through. I've digressed on a tangent.
Just be buff... She could be rich and educated and you won't win anything for that... a 18 year old hottie that is broke as shit is more of a win than some trans looking woman that will divorce rape you.
Girls want a guy that respects them and is honest. His morals are more important to him than his relationship with the woman and girls like guys that are caring and sweet. If you choose the relationship over your morals, you will end up with an exploiter, a leech or a control freak. If you choose morals over the girl, she will respect you because she knows you are not intimidated by her enough to bend to her selfish and unreasonable expectations. I've scared bad guys off by showing them I have boundaries and will not protect their reputation if they are abusive in language, meaning they will never get a chance to abuse me with their fists or their money.
Well said, strength and remainng grounded from him as she's more important that locking her down and the 'relationship'
Maintain appearance, women like a pleasant looking man not necessarily a suit and tie. well fitting clothes that are clean, ice smile, and smells pleasant , but not over done. Too much is to much They have glasses to that teach both sexes how the opposite sexes mind work. This helps with communication. Because there are definite differences. Man are more straight to the point and women often beat around the bush if you know what I mean. The handle things differently. So maybe learning some if the differences would help with communication.
Beating around the bush is not being dishonest they deliver the message in smaller prices because being raised to nurture they don't want to hurt ones feelings or embarrass anyone. Men aren't raised to he concerned with such things there supposed to be strong, tuff and have no feelings. But that is changing a lot now. But that's what the class teaches. Also the book men are from Mars women are from Venus bsldo helps explain
Good book if you like to read check it out
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Don't tell them your GAG, username or profile... that's the first step!!!
Seriously, self-reflection my man, it's hard to be objective about yourself, but if you can do it better than others then you will become more successful in life. Starts with honesty really, not with others, but with yourself. You have to be willing seek and find your own flaws, and work on ways and methods in which you can improve upon those things. Somethings you can change, some you can't and others you will not want to and maybe not need to... but know what they are and stive to be the best version of yourself you can every day.
Nothing brings out a person's anxiety more than dating, so know the signs, and take a step back and reflect on yourself before sending that next text.
Love video games less than you love others.
If you're addicted to cannabis you might wanna work on that too.
Broaden your hobbies and learn new things i. e. a language, skill, topics of conversation, etc.
In order to attract better women? Respect yourself by not letting just any woman use you or think it's okay to treat you however they want. Don't tolerate it when a woman doesn't want to respect how you feel or what you need. A true woman with a good sense of humility and understanding will not see you as something to abuse or toss around.
Truth is people are lazy and online avenues, such as dating apps and LDR feeds the laziness. Put that wasted time into local and in person events or situations. It is not difficult except for the expended energy and time required to find a better quality woman. Bars are not the answer but a high profile is.
Projecting a better image and more confidence always help, but so does being discerning. Don't just go for the first woman who gives you the time of day.
Honestly. If someone don’t accept you for who you are. Leave them be.
@Asad1ONE1 thanks
Love how these people disagree with me like I said something wrong. Lol.
@Asad1ONE1 EXACTLY
u the opposite of that...
he should better himself for HIMSELF, first and foremost... and for his own wellbeing, not with the idea of becoming attractive to women
the first is genuine care and leads to genuine growth
the other is a trap that way more often than not leads you nowhere good
sounds like a cliché but it is ultimately true... if you don't care for yourself first, others will not care that much for you, but genuine self-esteem very often leads you and builds you up and then it is these things that eventually make the other things easier to come across, as a result
All good points.
worked for me, anyway... twelve years of continuous work, effort and progress... and then a lifetime of keeping up with it, being consistent and truly with oneself
everything else, just followed up, eventually
im not going to give that "be yourself" crap (or fake it untill you make it)
1. dont lie. or at least tell the truth as much as you can.
2. dont fake anything. people will see through that faster than politicians promise.
3. never be a brown nosing kiss up. or a wet blanket (nobody likes them and neither should you) you get more respect if it isn't demanded.
4. unlike FB: not everyone of your friends is backstabbing you. dont be afraid to ask them for asdvice if you need it.
Better mindset, less hateful, more modern and respectful towards men and women. Good behavior and manners. Honesty, open communication and no fragile ego.
Other then that personal hygiene is really important! And clean clothes and fitting clothes (doesn't have to be expensive or brand stuff, just decent good looking clothes that fits his personal style)
These are the basics in my eyes, every man with those simple things can get a woman fitting to him personally.
Oh yeah working on confidence is always a good thing!
I wonder who disagreed or disliked your answer 😂
@UniquelyBasic The same person who dislikes all my content.
@coachTanthony She didn't even say anything outrageous too
@UniquelyBasic They don't have too they are after me.
@UniquelyBasic guys with a fragile ego and unrealistic views on life and well women and who claim that all women want a rich guy driving a porsche lol
Take care of yourself maturely. That means better nutrition, physical activity, satisfying income, no overdoing alcohol or weed, being responsible, calm, kind, good rational thinker and having stamina for sex. Go to places you like going and do things you like doing, basically take yourself out on dates and be the best version of yourself. I met my partner on a comedy standup event (we both went solo), never anything serious happened with any man I met in a bar or club, so I suggest avoiding it.
- Work on yourself which could include better grooming/hygiene or doing better in your career or life
- have an admirable personality and know how to socialize with people. Some guys act like they've never left their computer the last 20 years and people usually don't like boring people.
- learn how guys and girls view the dating market because they don't view it the same way. It won't be fair or nice in a lot of ways..
@Asad1ONE1 ?
@Asad1ONE1 that's fair, but wouldn't it help to have some general understanding than not? Or what's a better approach?
Hygiene and grooming, try to be physically fit, have personal goals (realistic ones), normal or nice clothes, good posture, eye contact wo staring, confident voice and appearance of confidence, and if you like a girl talk to her. I know all of that sounds obvious but it must not be!
Sometimes physically fit is harder for some than others.
Strong morals good social skills stay healthy and be caring. Thinking about others is important. Too many people (including women) think about themselves I’m social interaction but think about the other person and making them comfortable and show interest in them. This will set you apart from many men.
Plastic surgery to improve appearance, leg surgery to add height if he is under 6' tall, OR the accumulation of large amounts of money, in which case the surgeries are still desirable but not necessary, OR move to Southeast Asia if he is reasonable looking and under 6' and has at least some money.
Are you in South Asia?
Ouch what a cesspool nothing personal. I do like their hot dogs.
I know those parts well. I was in zuma beach for a while.
One simply thing: don't be a dick. Now every women finds attractive something else. Here's what works for me: being a gentleman, having good manners and knowing the etiquette, elegant style, taking care of yourself (no it's not girly), being physically active.
Keep your weight off.
Few or no tattoos.
No piercings.
Use polite English at all times. Take a class of needed.
Conservative hair style (not too long but not a Marine brush cut, either) and (if necessary) facial hair.
Dress conservatively.
Be cognizant of hygiene.
Have an interest in something that really matters, beyond her.
I'm no fun at all.
Self care is a simple way to start. Take extra care with your hygiene and care for your skin a bit.
Make sure you have reasonably nice clothes that fit you well. A lot of skinny and chubby guys just make due with ill fitting clothes that only serve to accentuate their flaws.
Sort your shit out, if needed. That means different things to different people. Maybe you've got to settle some debt, get a car, hit the gym, whatever it is, chances are you already know what's out of balance in your life. Tackle the small things first and create and stick to a plan to chip away at the big obstacles.
Learn how to communicate, by practicing chatting with new people regularly. If you can't think of how, try Toastmasters.
Learn how to say no early to women you don't want or who try to bench you. Emotional vampires man, watch out!
Stay positive (at least outwardly), have a plan and get shit done. People love to be around a man with a plan.
Honesty, integrity, emotional intelligence, self control and discipline, healthy ambition, communication, respect, trust, problem solving, confidence, and understanding
Go to the gym
Work on his finances
Have a job and save up
Dont be living with parents
Have your own car
Work on your social skills through practice and experiences
Being confident
Dont be afraid to be honest
Want to feel in awe of a concept you likely don’t fully understand?
Every manner in which a man attracts “better women”, he also attracts trash.
Therein lies the defect of “women’s liberation”.
For men, the key that too few people want to discuss is their own self respect and standards. Know your worth and expect women to recognize it. Otherwise you are doomed to suffer the trash that most women would have you believe only women suffer.
A man has to know when it's time to be funny and when to remain serious. If he doesn't know when is the right time for specific behavior, he will appear boyish and this is a repellent for most girls.
Be confident
Care about yourself and those around you
Be driven to solve problems, not to point out problems.
Being fit and emotionally healthy is important, so is taking time to take care of your possessions and wear properly fitted clothing. Work on conversational skills, storytelling, joke telling, and have fun hobbies.
Besides getting in good physical shape I would try to have some amazing adventures. You don't have to travel the world. You will be amazed at how many things you can do on a tank full of gas. That will make you a more engaged and interesting person.
A man does NOT improve himself to attract a female. A man works on being the best he can be FOR HIM! Then when the time is right said man gets the added benefit of a good woman. I'm sorry, but men under 30 should NOT be putting women first in their life. This is not MGTOW or any of that crap. It's about perspectives and keeping them in the proper place.
I think men can always improve themselves for themselves. Women should be an afterthought. Do it for you and women will come. lol no pun intended
1) Leave the sex driven ego at home.
2) Be honest and open.
3) Demonstrate you have genuine feelings
4) Be realistic look past the girls physic and go for the personality.
5) Be confident
Ignore women
women love exclusive men approach women with the arrogance of a king being addressed by a cleaning wench
Ignore women? Lol okay
Where is the photo lol 👀 sorry I’m not bored… but to reply to the question, I’d say just being yourself, keep improving healthy etc
Work out
Earn more money
Be more confident
Be more in control of your own emotions and behaviors
Not masterbate or look at porn
Have goals
Have good friend group
Have a good lifestyle
If you are improving yourself just to get "better" women, you are a fool.
You should never do that it’s terrible advice
Stop being jealous, clingy and thinking with your dick.
Be healthy, a healthy weight. Dress well, have some pride in your appearance. Good grooming. Be passionate about some hobby or passtime. Be outgoing. Be respectful.
Be a successful dating coach, best-selling author and entrepreneur that makes 6 figures a year lol 😂
Could be 7 this year but yeah you're on the right track.
In your dreams sure 😂
You mean your dreams. My dreams came true a long time ago. Thanks for the comments. Just know you are appreciated here on GAG.
I'm sure they did 😂 that's why you're on this site
This site is a multimillion dollar company for a reason.
I am not a believer in 'women' but in just one.
It is illegal to marry (sex proper) without announcing it to the marriages registry, so that cheating (bigamy) can be entirely avoided.
Believing you can improve is the most important thing you can do. If you say things like it doesn't matter or it won't matter then you have already failed my man.
What does a better woman mean to you? What does better mean to you?
Regardless of what that means, be better and do better yourself.
Be a better man and don't compromise your standards. And don't feel sorry for yourself and don't blame anyone for your place in life.
If a women hasn’t even meet the guy yet, then for him to improve himself would essentially go unnoticed. Women go off of instincts and vibes when they’re around someone. If a women goes off looks or money, the women is clearly still not ready for a healthy relationship.
So for a man to impress a women he’s not met is ultimately strange to compare.
It would not go unnoticed. He would know.
Ok then to attract a woman, is irrelevant if it’s simply to better himself.
You can better yourself without worrying about attracting women yes. In the end if you improve yourself it may not attract a woman but give you the confidence to go talk to one.
This is another reminder that I believe and feel or just my mindset is, it's only men who need to know or learn how to attract a woman, a woman doesn't need to know or learn how to attract a man, building or sparking or igniting the attraction is the man's role it seems.
You could try some cologne
You should know. You’re the alleged dating coach. Or is that just a front?
if you don't know then buy my book.
Go outside, go places and enjoy himself. F*** trying to attract women. Just be a solid dude and the RIGHT women will come. The worst thing a guy can do is worry about what attracts women.
They can quit crying about the me too movement for one. How about just man up and stop whining.
They can try being themselves other than impress with better stories.
You want to attract "the one". Not the wrong women (I meant wrong for you). Be yourself and groom to your preference.
Treat people well. Build a reputation being reliable. Not a push over, just being solid. When respected you become more attractive.
I'm good, I prefer to keep that look a mystery. If I do find the post, I won't like it because it came from a troll. But for your question, they should just try to be the ultimate Them. Whatever that may be is different for all of us.
Watching videos of Andrew Tate.
what specifically would that do?
watch on youtube "farfromweak" and good luck.
Find God. Chase money, life purpose and financial freedom. Don't chase women and ignore 99% of dating advice from them.
I think its all useless you are what you are and you're either attractive or not
Men can do many things to improve themselves which will attract women in the end. I think many men have too high of standards so they don't even try.
I dont try because trying hard is frowned upon
True if you care what other's think you shouldn't do it for sure.
Plllleeeaaaassssseeeee tell me.
Many good comment here. Don't mind those dislikes they are for me not you.
Just be a nicer better human bean
Hit the gym, eat healthy, be chivalrous
By growing a pair
Become financially independent
Yes, its called an ass load of money.
Build up his savings account.
Really - try it.
Make more money
Win the lottery
Be a blessed man
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