How should one react if my boyfriends friend said I’m “way thicker” than what he likes?

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I mean all his his ex’s are very petite / thin. He told me he likes me bc he hasn’t been with a woman who didn’t have small breasts and he always wanted to try something different
when I asked him “would you have preferred if I was thinner” he said “well not really I met you how you are and I’m obviously attracted and after everything we’ve been through you not being tiny isn’t a deal breaker”
I’m 5”9 and 182lbs his ex’s are like 5”1 115lbs to 130lbs and he’s 6”1 and 140lbs himself

ohshee · Accepted Answer

Okay first of all this is about you and him nobody else don't even bring the x's in it if that's what he wants to do that's totally wrong and they when your relationship started it's only about you 2 not well my old girlfriend or my old boyfriend were this way and that way you don't compare new girl friends with old ones are old boyfriends with new ones if you're going to do that they might as well go back to them start of a relationship is a start of a relationship nobody else is involved I'm an empath and I can feel your energy through your words and I can tell you right now you're a beautiful girl with very beautiful heart caring giving loving lot of passion lots of Desire. If he has a problem with your weight but he needs to do is grab your hand it's a come on and go walk for 30 minutes every night at a fast pace for 30 days and you are the hottest sexiest butt legs body ever or if that's what you want to do that's what you should do you don't start going out with somebody and then start trying to change them to me that's controlling are going to feel a Chien and it's bullshit if you're going to be a couple you're going to be a team then you have to be that and not talk about things do them if you want change the only way it's going to change is for somebody to change it and that starts with ourselves

Mangospacho · Accepted Answer

Sometimes we’ll just date anyone who is willing to date us so it could be that he was mildly attracted to the girls from before and now he’s really attracted to you. I dated short girls before I met my wife, who is tall and I never went back to dating short girls after her.

kyleelyn199723 · Accepted Answer

I think you should stop listening to his friend since friends are not always a good source to go to and maybe get fit for yourself.

Anonymous · Answer

He sounds very skinny but it seems like he likes you for you

Anonymous · Answer

if i was overweight i would try to lose weight

How should one react if my boyfriends friend said I’m “way thicker” than what he likes?

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