Feelings aren't always indicators of the truth. Guys are not like girls in our communication. For the most part we don't speak in round about ways and for the most part what we say is what we mean at face value.
Examples of girls talking in round about ways:
It's getting late (while on a date) - means we're not having sex tonight, possibly ever.
Maybe - means no.
Take your time/don't rush - means it's ain't going to happen.
I'm fine - means I'm not fine.
Where is this relationship going - means are we going to be in a committed relationship/are you going to marry me.
Guys generally don't have hidden meanings or round about ways of saying things as in the examples I cited above. Guys tend to be direct and as I stated say exactly what they mean.
What you're trying to do with your boyfriend is: A. Take his comments like a girl would say them and B. Read between the lines where there are no lines to read between.
What he means is exactly this and I will be overboard to illustrate my point: you're not a stick figure of a girl, you got nice tits, ass, and thick thighs I want my face in between all night. You're not fat your thick, thick meaning not a twig.
I don't care for twiggy little girls, I like thick girls Because I dig the curves. No chicken legs, pancake asses or breasts that go inward as if someone dropped a dumbbell on them. Being called curvy from a guy is a compliment.
Ask yourself this: If you were fat, would he be with you? Well there's different strokes for different folks, but do you know him to be a man of low starndards in this area? I doubt it.
Girls use the word curvy for example when setting up their gal pal for a blind date. They don't want to say "she's fat" so they say "she's curvy" instead. What you're boyfriend said and meant is not that. I get the media portrays that only girls who weigh 110 lbs and look like their starving are hot. I can tell you for certain at least 50% of guys like thick girls. To me thick girls are hotter because they have those curves I do so adore and they look like women, not pre pubescent girls. I do not find fat girls attractive, but do find thick girls attractive and there's a definite difference.
As it's been said: "You wouldn't want a stake that was nothing but bone, why would you want your girl the same way?"
If he didn't say fat, he doesn't mean fat. Guys dont use underhanded sneaky words with different meanings and interpretations... what we say is what we mean.
if we say "im fine"... we probably are...
😒 unlike another gender.
Relax. He obviously loves you very much, and does find you attractive. Accept the compliment and be curvy. I am actually trying to be curvy—so are a lot of other girls.
Skinny girls look good on magazine covers, but curvy girls are the best to snuggle with ;)
When a guy calls you curvy, it means you look more like this
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Not this
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And definitely not this
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No that is a good thing, there is a different from being curvy then being fat. An apple and a hour glass are not the same thing. If was like people now he would have said bad bitch or something like that.
No he did not. Future advice though, don't ask or press on questions or subjects that you know you won't like the answer to.
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No, he did not call you fat. Here's what I think of when I hear these terms:
Skinny = Thin, small or almost no boobs. Sometimes sickly. Olive Oil from Popeye. Can be affected by wardrobe selection to a small degree.
Curvy = Prominent hips and boobs. Proportionally smaller waist, but not too thin. Hourglass figure. Very attractive in my opinion. Marilyn Monroe type. Can be affected by wardrobe selection. Judging by your description, I would assume this is what he was meaning.
Stocky or stout = More of a masculine build. Relatively broad shoulders and somewhat muscular. Boobs can be large or small. Waist and hips close to same size, usually with a flat butt. (Can't think of a famous woman right off that fits this category.) Can be affected by wardrobe selection.
Fat = Large all over. Generally large boobs, large butt, thick neck and no defined ankles. If wearing pants, midsection spills out all the way around. Wardrobe choice can not hide this.
He didn't fucking call you fat. Why are you girls all obsessed with being twig skinny? It means you have curves. Is your waist to hip ratio closer to 0.7 or 1? Do you have tits or are you flat-chested? Do you have a butt and thick thighs or do you have a pancake ass and chicken legs? Unless you've got some sort of hardcore muffin top going, you're not fat. Jeeeeeeeesus.
LOL you need to chill.. So what if he called u curvy or a little thicker than skinny.. Being thicker than skinny is optimal.. Im 99.9% sure he finds you smoking hot.. Fat is different.. I still dont get what obsession girls have with being skinny.. Its like the biggest misconception..
Well what are your height and measurements? If you have a jelly belly then that's fat to me. Curvy = nice smooth bubble butt and nice boobs, flat stomach. Fat = curves on the curves (ie your panties look like a bag of marbles) Skinny = no boobs or butt worth noticing (most Asians). It is true curvy is sometimes a code word for fat (mostly women's own fault on Craigslist, calling themselves curvy when they are in fact fat/bbw). Maybe he meant actual curvy, dunno without a pic.
I see girls are paranoid about this fact of curvy , damn ladies get a doctor soon !
Uh oh.
Rookie mistake.
Your boyfriend is doomed =/
Stop twisting your boyfriends words like so many women do and don't ask questions you don't want the answer to.
Well a lot of guys call girls curvy that I would find skinny so I'm not sure what you look like to say. To be curvy is a girl with a pretty big butt and boobs and a lot of definition in her waist thus making her hips appear wider, or a girl that's not fat but could be a bit " chubby " but not overweight. Girls that just have normal sized boobs and a regular healthy looking body to me look skinny. I don't relate skinny with being underweight or bones showing. That is anorerxia
He didn't call you fat. You need to look up the difference between curvy and fat.
No no no sweetie he was complementing you! When he says "you have curves in all the right places" he's saying he loves your body!
Uuhhh... No? He called you curvy which means you have just the right amount of curve to your figure, meaning you're not a rail. And he loves it if he's saying that. So he's not insulting you, he's giving you a compliment.
Not at all. Just plain skinny is boring. You're curvy, not fat. Now chill out, if you press someone you might not get something you like. But curvy is the best body type. Now chill out
Yep, he tried to make it sound less offensive, but yeah, 'thick' is just diplomatic talk for 'fat.'
So what?
If you think he called you fat, then start losing some weigh. I hope you didn't go all wild and mad at him for that. He might dumb you if he loses his physical interest towards you. In another words, you may not be attractive to him anymore.
At least he put it in nicer words.. im pretty blunt about things so..
These guys people call fat women curvy. If he's lighter than you than your definetly fat.
Curvy in all the right places is perfect lol he didn't call you fat at all.
Not at all. I think he was being honest and complimenting you
Lol that is not fat. Please do not misunderstand the difference between fat and curvy.
he didn't mean it as in fat
fat girls use that word to describe themselves but not guys, from a guy it's a compliment actually
He's your SO, don't dwell on it. He obviously doesn't have an issue with it. No worries:)
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