Why do people say a guys value increases as he ages and he becomes more attractive? (Page 2)
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Age is only a number. There’s handsome young men and more handsome mature men. I won’t limit myself with age thnx
you're 91
considering you're 91 the options for you are slim pickings. they're either on respiratory oxygen tanks or can't get it up anymore not even with viagra or in hospice or in a cemetary in a grave
@Rob17792 thanks for the laugh
but hey nothing beats finding one with a good 4 legged walker then you can hop right on and get free rides anywhere without having to pay for uber. the only downside is it would take you a lot longer to get to places and he might die of a heart attack before you get there but hey you get what you pay for
@Buttonss I WON’T limit myself!!!😂
I’m just playing. It’s only soul that’s 91 here bestie
@Rob17792 🤤🤤 4 legged walkers get me so wet🥵
well i guess you won't be needing any nurses aids to give you spongebaths then if you're already wet from 4 legged walkers
When guys get older they have more skills and can maintain a home and fix a car. Their income is usually greater and they are more confident. Probably after 50 the phenomenon starts to wane especially if the guy doesn't take care of himself.
Gold-diggers say it mostly as most older men are richer. Some may also be attracted to a more mature personality. I prefer a young man in his late 20s who is tall with a handsome face who is fun to be with over a boring and serious man.
I doubt you’ll think the same think when you are 30 or 40, but I hope you do
I like men 4 to 10 years older but I'd still continue to believe that men in their 20s look the best. Look at any celebrity. They were all so much hotter in their 20s. Darker eyebrows, younger skin, fuller lips and no receding hairline.
Older than me*
Well I prefer older women, always have…
Because you have more money when your older. Women are like men with cash. This is why you see 35 year old men with 18 year olds
As an older male I'm not sure. Yes I was more hansome when younger. I kept most of my good looks fortunately as I got older. Age on men and women I've always felt if you had it when you were younger you'll have it when you're older
Well, there's some females who looked great in their teens and still look amazing at 50. But the vast majority of women age like milk regardless of what they looked like when they were young. If they bother to really exercise & take care of themselves they can fight that tho. I've always felt that if you start exercising young (late teens/early 20s) it is WAY easier to stay in shape later in life.
@hahahmm
aging has most to do with genes , not lifestyle. Most guys look like crap by their late 30s. It only gets worse after 40.
@Ayanna240 It's a combination of genes and exercise. The difference is that guys don't need looks as much as women do - or to put it another way, men care more about looks than women do in the long run even for guys who place a high value on personality.
But then that's why women would be wise to find a lifelong partner before they get old
@hahahmm
If you’re trying to go for a young woman, you would need looks. Because reality is, a young woman had tons of tall handsome Young men around her. She doesn’t need to date a wrinkly fat man with bald spots. She’s not gonna marry you just cus you have a house and car either.
An older woman is more likely to settle for an ugly old man , not a young woman
@hahahmm
Men assume that women like old guys. No we don’t. Most men look like crap by the time they hit 35.
@Ayanna240 "If you’re trying to go for a young woman, you would need looks" -- Not really. There's old fugly guys getting young women every day. Of course those older guys usually just want sex. It's not like they actually take her seriously. But yeah, in some cases they get married. Like Princess Diana's niece who is 20s and married some guy in his late 60s recently.
I can't believe so much has been added to my post. I think its the genes that has a lot to do with it yes. Just let me say that in past ten years I've dated 20 somethings,30's and forty year olds. I go out with women my own age and get the why is that young guy going out with the older woman. I have all my hair and don't have wrinkles. I'm not sure if it's genes or dove soap I tell people. Now even my son asks do you think I'll look young all my life like you?
@hahahmm
its true that most old guys in their 40s-50s usually only go for hot 20 yr olds for sex. Over 90% of the time, they do not have romantic intentions. This is because they know they would have absolutely nothing in common with someone around their daughter's age. If an old man is looking for love, he would be dating an older woman, not someone around his daughter's age.
@bulletbob555
Its not common for young people to date someone 15-20 years older. Sure it may happen but only on pretty rare occasions. Most couples are 0-8 years apart.
Woman's beuaty takes a battering from the ravages of child birth, husband putting up with and rasing kids.
To an extent. There are some women on here who have expressed that they don't find older men the slightest bit attractive.
I don't know about values but I do believe quite a few get sexier 😈
For one thing wealth. Having that security is attractive to those that need it.
There is also confidence. They've been there done that seen things they don't really care who knows it.
Even hardcore feminist worth millions prefer a guy who can give her more than he gets from her BUT a lot of women have to settle for less than their wishes because the best catches are selective.
@hahahmm I didn't have millionaire match maker in mind, but it's true that the general population isn't looking to "take care" of another person.
It's also true that a lot of women have extremely high standards, which makes it impossible to find someone because that person they want doesn't exist lol.
@hahahmm
You don’t think There won’t be poor guys going after a rich woman? You would have to be dumb as hell to believe that.
@Ayanna240 Not the point. The point is that women want a dude who gives them things because if nothing else it makes her feel good. Although many want it for the protection/stability of it. I know low income guys who married rich women. In every case I know of it's because she couldn't get a better catch to take her seriously so she basically bought a guy who doesn't even have any deep feeling for her. Not a great way to go.
@hahahmm
What makes you think a woman gold digger must have feelings for her rich old man husband?
A relationship without any physical attraction is a sham. she doesn’t even want to have sex with you, she’s just doing it so that she can get paid
It's bullshit. There are young losers and old losers. And young winners and old winners. Stop falling for that dumb shit
Genes? Healthy diet? Exercise? Skin care? Hair care? Same thing with older women.
Except men want women for sex and children. Both are better and easier form younger women…
@VanillaSalt
except younger women prefer young men that are still strong, young and fast with a full head of hair. Not some old wrinkly fat uncle with a huge bald spot
Not if the old guy has a sexy wallet… which the number of sugars are.
@VanillaSalt A relationship without any kind of physical attraction is a sham. Let's see your fat wallet disappears and see if there will still be any gold diggers around?
Yep gotta keep the money coming in.. but I got a point to make on your your attraction comment. Most men arnt see as attractive. So you know 79% of men are seen as below average. Your basically telling these men kick rocks because you’ll never be loved. It don’t matter how great a man you are if your not hot. Anywho I just wanted to point out the difference not looking to deal with some dumbass argument your gonna throw out to defend why your offended about older men getting younger women…
However I am curious why you even bother answering this question. Your obviously very set in your belief and feel strongly about it. Why does it matter?
@VanillaSalt
The reality is, younger women do not tend to date much older men. Most women are dating men less than ten years older than them. What I have a problem with is your delusional belief that women are attracted to men 10-30 years older than them. OR your delusional belief that men get more attracted as they approach 40. Bald spots, white hairs, wrinkles, weight gain, dull skin is never attractive. I don't care about what your desperate ass has to say, but I will never ever find that attractive nor would the overwhelming majority of women.
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OR your delusional belief that men get more attractive*** as they approach 40.
Careful your getting defensive.
@VanillaSalt
i don't think im getting defensesive for not being attracted to 40 yr old men. I've never been attracted to them.
I prefer guys within my age range. This will not change even when I grow up.
Mens value is intrinsically tied to his income. Generally speaking you make more money as you get older.
Because he more likely has his shit together and his life on track.
Cause they have matured and grown the fuck up. No more energy and interest in the game anymore. Gentlemen and not charmers anymore. Huge difference between the two.
I do not the think that’s true because erectile dysfunction is a thing remember? Lol
Its bull. The increase value is only in his bank account if he has money otherwise he's a old rag needed for nothing.
Have you looked at an average 35 year old recently? Do and get your answer. They are nothing like the ones showed on tv and movies.
Some do actually become better looking simply because they take good care of themselves
They make more money.
More money usually means more experience and more privileges and sometimes also less anxiety.
Women love that, don't you think?