Do men care about girls' weight? (Page 2)

[Mark987]

I don't care about weight? I have been with skinny, average, thick.. and in my opinion... I love a woman that has actual real body... stretch marks and all... they are battle scars... and make them hotter

[CallmeTheKnight]

I know I do. I don't like women that are underweight or obese. Like if I don't date under 130lbs and don't date above 230

[DianaWest]

dude, if a short woman is 130 lbs, in some cases she can be considered overweight and look fat. i for instance look perfectly healthy at 125 lbs.

[CallmeTheKnight]

Uh ok?

[Bricealan]

My present girl friend is about 5'5" and weights 108. So I like thin girls, but have been with women that I thought could be less heavy.

[bingbongbangbung]

That's extremely underweight, possibly even anorexic. Only someone who's 5'1 should weigh 108 pounds.

[marish01]

@bingbongbangbung I'm 5'4. I weigh 102 pounds. Lol

[dustybiker]

@bingbongbangbung Some girls have fast metabolisms. You get sick, you lose your appetite you can drop weight fast. It takes weeks to a couple months to put it back on. Doesn’t always mean anorexia.

[Cherry234]

I'm that height too but I'm way above 108. I'm about 145 lbs closer to 150 lbs. I lost weight and I was 135 lbs but I put back on the pounds thankfully. I'm still slim. Even though I lost weight my family still thought I was too skinny even though 135 lbs is a normal weight for my height

[Bricealan]

@marish01 Well, Bing, you are about the same weight as my girlfriend, since you are close in height, and 6 lbs less. My girlfriend could use some muscle tone, and I don't want to press her to do that although, she would not appear so 'thin'. She used to be VERY heavy and that is what is the driving force for her staying so thin.

[Bricealan]

@bingbongbangbung She eats well, and very nourishing diet, but exercises (walks miles) Afraid of gaining back like she was several years ago

[Bricealan]

@Cherry234 As a man, I am about 5'8 and weigh 135-138. I do HARD YOGA several days a week and eat a good diet. My DR. calls me "slight build"

[Cherry234]

@Bricealan That's good. I find it surprising that there are people who are taller than I am but weigh less than I do. Now I feel fat lol. Jk

[Bricealan]

@bingbongbangbung BTY - I really like your choice of 'screen name" - how did you arrive at that? Very clever.

[Bricealan]

@Cherry234 I think at your height, 135 LBS is not overweight, by any standard. People think I am underweight, buy my BMI is what it should be?

[Bricealan]

@Cherry234 Just looking at your BMI in the Calculator and according to that, even at 150 you would only be slightly on the 'high' end of 'normal' for your age/height/weight

[Bricealan]

@bingbongbangbung Looking at the BMI calculator, my girlfriend should be at a minimum of 115 LBS to qualify as 'normal' weight. I think she should weight at least 120 LBS

[Cherry234]

@Bricealan Yeah I know 135 lbs is not at all overweight. But I lost weight and it wasn't very healthy bc I wasn't eating much. I lost my appetite mostly due to stress and I didn't want to eat. My family was concerned about me because they thought I was underfed and I wasn't getting proper nourishment. My mom even said I would look better if I gained back the weight and I would get my curves back

[Joshua0213]

To an extent but not much unless you are extremely skinny or extremely overweight

[Anonymous]

I am average but my boyfriend loves fat lmao he is always tryna feed me and make me gain weight he says make that ass bigger I don’t mind it cause i love food

[crazysassypaws21]

that not really a guy thing that a people thing, me and ik a lot of guys who dont care too if a has some wight or on the plus size bc not the wight we fall for it her HEART that hooks us

[MLGbreezy]

This is funny because I was just about to make a post on fat people. But yes men care about Womans weight just like woman care about men's weight. And you should care about your own weight too.

[MLGbreezy]

I like all shapes and sizes but I do have a thing for petite girls with fat asses

[nickaboy]

Nah we don't care that much of course we have our maxes and minimums both overall Personality counts

[Paul09]

I like healthy active women, that's that. Every person is built differently. Not too skinny, not too fat. You care for your health and it shows. So does not taking care if yourself. My opinion, not other mens.

[Phoenix98]

It’s not so much the weight but how that weight looks.

[Anonymous]

Yes men dont want fat women just like women dont want at men

[more_than_a_guy]

Yeah, as an athlete, I prefer fit girls, but regular, and a little skinny and a little curvy is good too. Just not too much/low on the weight scale.

[FilmGuy93]

Not really much at all...

[Jlegacy]

The only thing that matters to me is a woman's love for God. If she has this and she is meant for me, every other thing would be perfect for me.

[Wester1967]

Don’t care about the weight but do care about the BMI. Normal is best.

[Kingofkings1992]

Men have different preferences, just like women. Some are attracted to petite bodies, some are attracted to curvy bodies, just depends on the guy.

[anylolone]

In general healthy weight toned women. Just like women like most buff but more to the skinny side guys. But there are other types that are basically almost as desirable.

[will34]

I don’t know but my sister is overweight and still get a date like no problem looks doesn’t mean anything

[m33lad]

Because most men will F anything. Even if we don’t like the girl. That’s why doesn’t in a relationship. Just smash her and ignore her afterwards

[will34]

That’s what it seems like though people are just weird as fuck

[m33lad]

Men aren’t women. Sex for a men is like pissing. Your sister is not attractive men will sleep with her because most of them can’t get anything better. Or the guy hasn’t got laid in a long time.

[will34]

Kinda pisses me off how some obese people think they are hot and shit

[m33lad]

They actually don’t think that that’s called fronting which means they’re trying to prove something they know they don’t have.

[will34]

I’m not trying to judge people but still I notice how girls with weight problems get offended really easy like say if you don’t like them and stuff

[m33lad]

Tough! If being fat is bad? Then they would change it. Calling someone tall ain’t offensive. Why being fat calling someone fat is offensive?

[will34]

No I was talking about how obese girls try to say omg I think this guy like me that’s what I meant

[m33lad]

He must be blind hah

[will34]

I don’t know what to say maybe he’s just using her for sex lol people are just fucked

[will34]

But still men fucks everything that walks

[m33lad]

Yes but I also want to see those men I promise you their sense of fashion is horrible their income is low they’re out of shape they don’t look good a lot of other problems I want to see how your sister will get a Dick from a hot looking wealthy guy. Those men that you talk about have no manly skills they cannot pick a better hotter girl so they have no choice but to have sex with anything that’s willing to sleep with them

[Twalli]

It's definitely important to a degree, at least as far as attraction goes. I have several friends who are on the heavier side. Their weight is a contributing factor in how attractive I find them.

[Anonymous]

Of course we do. It's one of the most important qualities determining their physical attractiveness.

[Andres77]

Only when she's sitting on my face.
I have a really strong neck but there are limits.

[Anonymous]

Most men find skinny girls more attractive according to studies. Depends where you're located, average in America is overweight.

[Protein_mate]

Yeah, I want a healthy woman who looks after herself. that being said if my girl is unhealthy and working towards a goal and trying I commend that too

[DianaWest]

lol, if she is 3 lbs overweight does not necessarily make her unhealthy. i know people who look like supermodels but eat cheeseburgers everyday, or survive off of protein shakes and lettuce. the exterior does not always match the interior. but of course, if you are talking obese or very underweight, then i can understand your perspective.

[Protein_mate]

@DianaWest slightly overweight doesn't bother me really, I'd just want to be with a woman who looks after herself at least physically and is active/productive you know

[Anonymous]

Quality men don't care too much, and the rest are not worth dating anyway.

[InkRat_]

Quality men care about partners health, and they dont tend to date overweight girls. They tend to date fit ones.

[TruthBringer]

Quality men don't care much? Sorry love, but a quality man isn't someone who doesn't stick up to his ideals and sugarcoats your bad lifestyle. A quality man is a man who has standards and happens to uphold these standards. A man who doesn't care about your health and shape is a man who cares more about not losing you out of fear rather than having concerns for your health. But by all means, stick to your wishful thinking.

[Bricealan]

@TruthBringer I agree with you

[Bricealan]

@TruthBringer I want her to live a long life and enjoy health during that time. I do care about that also

[TruthBringer]

@Bricealan Exactly. And let's be honest, if you're someone who is in shape and takes your own health seriously, then you have every right to have a standard to want a woman who is also in shape and does the same thing. It's usually out of shape women who bash men for having such standard. And that has everything to do with them not being able to keep up to that standard. I've never seen an in-shape woman have an issue with an in-shape man who expresses his standards for a woman who is also in-shape. It's always the feminists and body positivity movement freaks who start to dictate whether someone is a "real man" or not

[Bricealan]

@TruthBringer That attitude irritates me also

[BoredGuy12345]

Just carry your weight well and not breathing hard while you do it.

[Johnagain]

I can speak for myself only. I like girls with skinny, but in shape (like a gymnast) body.

[Justme1290]

Generally no, but i won't like a girl who weighs more than me thats the only thing i guess

[Renegade_Sailor]

Very much so, your face/body are 100% our initial attraction to you.

[clampfan101]

I’m personally fine with anything healthy. She doesn’t need a perfectly sized and shaped body.

[KrakenAttackin]

Most people don't like extremes or skin-and-bones or obese.

[Jamie05rhs]

No, we don't care about your weight. We only care about how you look.

[clampfan101]

Weight effects that, though.

[Jamie05rhs]

@clampfan101 Well, then, I would advise people not to get fat. 🤷

[VanillaSalt]

Weight matters period.

[MrJMM]

I would only care if the person's weight was a toxic subject to talk about then I would try to help them but truthfully I don't care at all.

[LinkxPeach]

I hoped men know that if they prefer fat women. They’re putting fat women they prefer to date some health problems as they get older.

[Open2It]

Only when she's sitting on my face... 😆

Seriously though, I love women, big or small. Love 'em athletic, slim or curvy.

[DianaWest]

please define curvy, because for men, that is a very wide spectrum. does curvy mean the body of Victoria Secret model, or an extra 10 lbs on the derriere?

[K-I-S-S]

More than women care about a guys height 🤫

[Asker]

i seeeee

[Surely]

I would prefer slim and toned. But there isn’t enough of them to go around!

[Jamie05rhs]

There can be more. Fitness is a choice.

[Fearlessegale]

It really depends on how the guy thinks of the woman.

[007kingifrit]

yes a huge amount. its the most important physical atribute

[DianaWest]

isn't their face the most important physical attribute, so you can have cute babies?

[007kingifrit]

@DianaWest nahhhhh skinny is more important. i can do a skinny girl even if she's not that pretty but fat girls are upsetting to look at

[DianaWest]

@007kingifrit how fat? 5-10 lbs is too fat? or fatter than that?

[007kingifrit]

@DianaWest 160 to 180 is fine i think. its not a weight number though as people carry their fat differently

[DianaWest]

woah. 180 is pretty fat for most women dude. i'm a little chunky at 130. even tall women should probably not be much more than 150 or 160.

[007kingifrit]

@DianaWest maybe you're right im probably thinking man numbers. its not like i weigh women regularly lol

[jamster3030]

everybodys attracted too different girls and different weight types, me personally if im attracted too them, then im happy

[Zygum]

Definitely, people like light weight girls, easy to lift and take them on bed and pin them on the wall

[waa2100]

I personally don’t, look changes with time.
The most important thing is the soul.

[Deserter]

Not particularly, so long as your body carries the weight well. If you're a jiggly mess it's a no go

[pink_and_inlove]

a lot of men do honestly

[bamesjond0069]

Skinny girls are best. But honestly as long as you weight a solid 50lbs less than me im ok.

[Typhon_]

Healthy, that's the "weight" range I care about, not a part of the "love yourself" bs.

[noohair]

I am sure women care more. It is a consumer culture thing.

[Dinklex3]

Depends on the man.
They're not all the same.

[CBrigante]

No but I love chubby, fat or curvy girls. They are very attractive 👅👅👅

[Coffee420]

This dude knows what I’m talking about

[kingykringy]

When I ask a girl about her weight, I do it to assess how easy it’ll be to carry her in my arms

[SuicidalGuy1]

We do, and it's not body shaming it's that we care about people who take care of their bodies

[Avicenna]

Most men do to at least some extent

[TobyMercury1]

Yeah, they do. No guy will want an overweight woman

[Asianguy123]

They do but when they are hungry, they will have sex with all types.

[mattissebfan5]

yes in terms of what each is attracted too

[Medhat-M]

I'm pretty slim so I like girls on the slim side

[Assi2k]

Guys don’t have any standards. For anything

[TruthBringer]

Correction: Desperate guys don't have any standards. For anything

[OnTheLevel]

I prefer average. Not obese and not frail.

[IncognitoBandito]

I don't mind a little meat

[Anonymous]

Her personality matters the most.

[serious]

Yes of course we care.