Why won’t he talk to me if I’m his friend?

[hipsterchey3]

I accidentally upset my friend and ever since the incident, he’s been kinda mean, cold and not as caring as before. I apologized to him and tried making him realize that I’m truly sorry. He says he’s not mad and nothing is my fault, but I already know that’s a lie.

Why can’t he just talk to me? I’ve gave him space too, as much as he needed, but I’m thinking about dropping him as a friend cause if he can’t communicate then what’s the point of being friends?

Like, he still calls me his friend but why can’t he speak up about what bothers him if he wanna continue our “friendship”?

[btbc92]

It's best to leave it. If your really his friend, he needs to show that to you. You already apologize. But if you need space you need space. And that space can be a long one. All I can tell you is this, you don't have to answer the person's responses. I would suggest that you figure out what you really want for yourself. You have to find out what made you become his friend and vice versa. You need to ask him what was the point. You know why? Because in the end your getting affected. He needs to handle his anger. He needs to handle his own problems, and he needs to understand why he decided to respond like this. No matter how long it takes, but if he doesn't see how his reactions is effecting you, it is he who may lose you. Not the other way around. Because why call you friends, if he is already acting like your not? He has to see that.

[serious]

The friendship is already over. He just hasn't said it that it is over. Whatever you did, whatever happened is now the past. He doesn't want to communicate with you as now he has a strong dislike towards you although he hasn't admitted that.

Anyways just ensure you don't do that with any other person whom you may have friendships with.

It is better to forget about this friendship now.

[SunnySensei]

Sometimes it becomes hard to forget some mistakes, miss and moving forward from them is hard too, but if he says he still considers you a friend then he might care about you that way.
But, he might still be hurt from what happened between you two.
I don't know what happened between you two and whose fault it was but stay with him and everything might work out.

[SunnySensei]

Thank you for the MHO miss