Do men love and like marry trash unstable women like me?

[Isrbrnnd]

How do I deal with realizing. Im the most instable mentally emotionally person I know? Im a woman. I am CRAZY for real. Even though I rarely physically hurt others. I am embarassed because I thought I was such a good girl but I am truly a trash human

[ohshee]

So for me this is very in this interesting question. I know I don't know you and you don't know me but I can read your words and I can feel your words and there's a few things missing did I don't understand but I would love to chat with you about this because I've never seen or heard a question like this before and with the manner that you project yourself and the way that you said it it just doesn't make sense to me but I would love to chat with you if you would send me a message I'm just curious about a lot of things if that's okay

[MrOracle]

I don't know you and don't know your story, but if you feel this way about yourself, it's likely there's some truth in there. You are 24 and all is not lost, but you need to get some therapy, and you need to be brutally honest with your therapist and you need to accept that the process of therapy is going to require hard work, leaving your comfort zone, and a good deal of time - but you can change these things about yourself and become the type of woman who can get a great husband. Even if we set aside getting a man, it will improve your life in a major way all on its own.

There's no reason to feel any shame for needing help - it's no different than if you broke your leg and needed help. It's the reason these professionals exist. So, please, get the help you need and make changes for the better. You will be so much happier if you do.

[SnakeBoop]

Watch a jeremy kyle episode. trash seems to get more dating oppourtunities than not.

[Isrbrnnd]

Im not trashy lile that. Get a grip. What a ridiclous answer. I am classy and i have morala.

[SnakeBoop]

XD suuuuuuuuure girl.

[Isrbrnnd]

Yes. Hun

[Shizunk]

My main question is, can you keep promises? Do you want a serious future? Strong emotions and some volatility I can handle. As long as I can rely on you not cheating, betraying me or breaking promises, it could be workable.

[Isrbrnnd]

Yes i am into keeping my word. I take that seriously. And want others to do the same. So yeah. I want marriage lifelong and kids and be a STAHM and wife

[Shizunk]

I am starting to get curious. I have to go now, but I would like to message you later if you don't mind.

[Isrbrnnd]

Sure:)

[NewgodX]

I think that's not a question for others but more yourself
If you have had marriage and love then you already know the answer
But still getting back to your question people don't usually like unstable unpredictable things are different unstable is different and more than that point I believe the real answer to this question lies wirh the answer to this question
Would a women love and marry a unstable guy,, if the answer is yes then it's Same for you

[Guardian45]

I have NO IDEA what you are talking about. You're going to have to elaborate if you want an answer that makes sense.

[Isrbrnnd]

I am getting a lot of ridiculous answers. But is hard to elaborate especially briefly enough to ensnare many attentions

[Guardian45]

So you have already encountered the problem.

[Isrbrnnd]

Nice eye pal.

[Guardian45]

🤣👌😎👍

[Morgador]

Well you just did. You admitted you have a problem and you want help. Take a angry management class would be a solid start. Understanding when it comes to emotions we all have the ability to go from a alter boy to a serial killer in a nanosecond. You need to understand yourself and how to control your emotions. Good luck

[AstroBlu]

Knowing you have an issue & being able to admit it are already signs you're not a trash person. It may be hard but you'll have to find someone thats willing to work with you & be patient. Everyone is capable of loving & being loved but you have to work for it if you truly want that.

[Miristheiss]

If the girl is really messed up... I'd say messed up guys will date them.
Mature, healthy, stable guys I doubt would. They would avoid her or bail as soon as they became aware she is messed up.

[Isrbrnnd]

Whatever. I need a real man not a whimp.

[Miristheiss]

What is "messed up" with you?
What are your issues and past traumas?

[MCheetah]

Seek out legitimate professional mental help and become a better person.

But to answer your question, yes, men (whether they should or not) end up marrying unstable trashy women, all the time. Some of them aren't even feminists!

[horatiohornblower]

Some guys love crazy women. Other guys have a savior complex. So, there are guys out there who want that.

[Ironic_Method]

They do... but you probably want someone a bit more stable. Work on you, but just because you're crazy doesn't mean you can't have a relationship.

[Isrbrnnd]

Not too "stable" whatever that means. They dont value my traits.

[Ironic_Method]

It's certainly possible that they take certain traits for granted.

[Isrbrnnd]

Did you find someone?

[Ironic_Method]

I've had all great relationships, but it wasn't until this last girl (now wife) that I was satisfied. I've been head over heels for her for 6 years now and it still feels fresh and amazing.

[Kaamraj]

Marriage should not be your first priority, get therapy and get well. Best of luck.

[exitseven]

I'm sure you have some redeeming qualities

[Isrbrnnd]

Yes. Moral and etc.

[Shizunk]

That is interesting. I have never seen a woman mention her morality as her main asset. How weird is that? I think I would put up with a lot if I could have someone who agrees with me on most questions of morality and big life priorities and is conscious and serious about it. I wish more women at least gave it some thought and were willing to articulate their position on things.

[Isrbrnnd]

@Shizunk it is very important. Probably why I feel OK admitting I'm other wise a nutball. What do you care about?

[humanearth]

I used to. I thought I could fix them.

[Isrbrnnd]

You can't. Nobody can. I am Christian and I believe Jesus Christ can do it only. But i KNOW myself nobody can fix me.

[humanearth]

I know that, but when your young. You think you can fix people

[Isrbrnnd]

I did too with an ex boyfriend who was a tranny. Moreso i thought he would outgrow wantinf to dress as a woman.

[Mangospacho]

Nope. I’d rather be with someone with average looks who is non-crazy.

[EaterPeter]

I was married with someone for 12 years then they left.

[Anonymous]

I just embrace the crazy, cause don't give a shit

[Yahall0]

How do you come to that conclusion?

[Isrbrnnd]

Because ilmy emotions and mind change all the fucking time im a freaking unoredictable.

[Yahall0]

You need understand your inner self and learn about other define them define yourself and see what work for you best by others and your own openion

[Isrbrnnd]

Im always defining and redefining
That may be why im unpredictable?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I smell possible troll? 🤷‍♂️

[Anonymous]

Why do you think that you are trash?

[Isrbrnnd]

Cause i am very internally emotional and my mind/emoitons are unpredictable to me and change often. They often are dramatic too. Its like one week I have my mind made up about someone or something and the next I am totally different.

I'm unpredictable. Lol

[Opinion Owner]

That doesn't make you trash. You just experience your emotions more strongly than others. Nothing wrong with that. I am actually the opposite. Maybe you just need someone like me in your life.

[Isrbrnnd]

Well thanks i hope im. not trash then. I knew someone more stable but i think he prefers a more normal reliable person.

[Opinion Owner]

You never know. Opposites tend to attract.

[Anonymous]

Seek professional help?

[Andres77]

... therapy...