So for me this is very in this interesting question. I know I don't know you and you don't know me but I can read your words and I can feel your words and there's a few things missing did I don't understand but I would love to chat with you about this because I've never seen or heard a question like this before and with the manner that you project yourself and the way that you said it it just doesn't make sense to me but I would love to chat with you if you would send me a message I'm just curious about a lot of things if that's okay
I don't know you and don't know your story, but if you feel this way about yourself, it's likely there's some truth in there. You are 24 and all is not lost, but you need to get some therapy, and you need to be brutally honest with your therapist and you need to accept that the process of therapy is going to require hard work, leaving your comfort zone, and a good deal of time - but you can change these things about yourself and become the type of woman who can get a great husband. Even if we set aside getting a man, it will improve your life in a major way all on its own.
There's no reason to feel any shame for needing help - it's no different than if you broke your leg and needed help. It's the reason these professionals exist. So, please, get the help you need and make changes for the better. You will be so much happier if you do.
Watch a jeremy kyle episode. trash seems to get more dating oppourtunities than not.
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My main question is, can you keep promises? Do you want a serious future? Strong emotions and some volatility I can handle. As long as I can rely on you not cheating, betraying me or breaking promises, it could be workable.
I think that's not a question for others but more yourself
If you have had marriage and love then you already know the answer
But still getting back to your question people don't usually like unstable unpredictable things are different unstable is different and more than that point I believe the real answer to this question lies wirh the answer to this question
Would a women love and marry a unstable guy,, if the answer is yes then it's Same for you
I have NO IDEA what you are talking about. You're going to have to elaborate if you want an answer that makes sense.
Well you just did. You admitted you have a problem and you want help. Take a angry management class would be a solid start. Understanding when it comes to emotions we all have the ability to go from a alter boy to a serial killer in a nanosecond. You need to understand yourself and how to control your emotions. Good luck
Knowing you have an issue & being able to admit it are already signs you're not a trash person. It may be hard but you'll have to find someone thats willing to work with you & be patient. Everyone is capable of loving & being loved but you have to work for it if you truly want that.
If the girl is really messed up... I'd say messed up guys will date them.
Mature, healthy, stable guys I doubt would. They would avoid her or bail as soon as they became aware she is messed up.
Seek out legitimate professional mental help and become a better person.
But to answer your question, yes, men (whether they should or not) end up marrying unstable trashy women, all the time. Some of them aren't even feminists!
Some guys love crazy women. Other guys have a savior complex. So, there are guys out there who want that.
They do... but you probably want someone a bit more stable. Work on you, but just because you're crazy doesn't mean you can't have a relationship.
Marriage should not be your first priority, get therapy and get well. Best of luck.
I'm sure you have some redeeming qualities
I used to. I thought I could fix them.
Nope. Iād rather be with someone with average looks who is non-crazy.
I was married with someone for 12 years then they left.
I just embrace the crazy, cause don't give a shit
How do you come to that conclusion?
I smell possible troll? 🤷āāļø
Why do you think that you are trash?
Seek professional help?
... therapy...
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