Is it gas lighting that he used to say if I really liked him I’d get him out of his debts?

[anonbrunette99]

[ChiTown33]

No it's funny though. You just need to be quick on the comeback. You needed to have said
"A real man would be embarrassed by the notion of his lady digging himself out of debt. Tell him You wouldn't think of doing that as it would be robbing him of his pride". This I a being a man 101

If a guy does NOT understand this he's NOT a man I'm sorry.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, that is horrible for a guy to ask a girl to get him out of debt and he's using this as a phrase saying if you really like him, you get him out of debt so sad to think a guy does these things to girls, he is what they call a moocher, I'm on low income and would never do that stuff to a girl?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks For MHO :)

[lilyanony1]

Are you his mum?
You don't owe him anything unless you causes the debt.

[lilyanony1]

Thanks for mho x

[JadedGent]

That’s not gaslighting, but that seriously stupid. And manipulative. Do not give him any money. Cut your losses. I’ve done this, and it failed miserably. Some of the worst mistakes I’ve made to this day. It took me SO LONG to get out of the debt I was in from that girl. Then she ditched me when she found someone and something better, or that’s what I gather she was thinking. Via text. At a time when my life was crashing down all around me.

[Kaneki05]

Yes because it makes you feel like your own feelings aren't true towards him otherwise you would help him like he said. So he is trying to manipulate your perspective therefore gaslighting

[Spookydood]

I don't know if it's gaslighting, it might be a joke. Might be a lazy way of trying to get you to pay for his shit. Hard to say without knowing anything else about y'all.

[Anonymous]

No, gas lighting is telling you that things that happened didn't happen or happened which didn't happen etc.

What you are describing is called emotional blackmail, its toxic as fuck so just dump him and move on.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, i said the happened didn't happen thing the same way around both times, oops. No doubt you took my meaning though.

[Bdsmaster]

Never fall for that luv, money should never come in between the relationships.

[spartan55]

Spending your time with high class guys again I see.

[Waldoe]

its what a pathetic loser would say, a man would deal with his own business and not try to get help from anyone else

[anylolone]

Technically not gaslighting, that's emotional manipulation.

[Anonymous]

Yes. If he really liked you he wouldn't be asking for money.

[Anonymous]

You need to look up what gaslighting means.

[Guardian45]

DONT DO IT! And LOSE that mofo!

[Slim57]

What does gaslighting mean?