American play babies of the American playground. Just wipe his nose good n send him on home to mama, perhaps she'll brush his hair.
Because bullying is fought in the thought of simply saying please don't do that, that's not nice. Everybody be shiny & happy. Each one of you is sumpm special, you deserve what makes you happy. Next thing ya know it's grown to be expected to then become entitlement, then it is demanded.
Only one way since always can & always does and has stopped the bully being the day one turns to face him and rattle his chops. There comes a time in life when faces must be punched and examples made. Even if he thumps you and stuffs you upside down in the trash can, from that day it will stop and often a solid friendship arises because respect has been established, it isn't given, can be earned in the right context but for most part respect is achieved. It must be maintained by examples. Once it begins to slip, it will landslide quick if not held. Not extorting it through exploiting it by being the baddest ass , but doing what's right. But no, now they don't even wish to be men now. I would smack one down open handed and put lipstick on em but thought... they might like it and probly won't catch him off the game anyhow. Respect is best achieved by honor, taking the bullet for his girl without hesitation , taking one for self and for one in danger. But no, now they roll on ya in a second to preserve their own hide... I don't know why, it's yellow.
If you don't whine once in a while, then you're probably dead. If you work for a living, and pay bills, and have to keep a marriage or a relationship going, and maintain good health as well as a sound mind, and put up with government intrusion and bullshit from the news and bullshit from people and bullshit from everything else, then you're gonna complain once in a while. What fucking world do you live in lady where a man should never complain once in a while to let off a little stress? Cause it ain't this one.
I think there are better ways to communicate frustration without being childish in my opinion. I think everyone understands how big of a turn off it is for anyone to do. Pms or not, whining is annoying and unnecessary. You can’t start excusing whining from women bc of pms and then expect men not to blame our whining on pms as well. I hate when men or anyone does this so pls do not encourage it 😪
Okay? Who cares if it’s PMS. If you find whining unattractive in men they have every right to find it unattractive in women. PMS is just an influx in hormones, that doesn’t mean you can’t control your behavior.
yea cause whining would imply talking and sense we don't like to hear that then whining is adding more suck to suck. Don't worry though we've learned to totally tune most frequencies out completely except the ones that don't bombard us with static blah blah like bass and espn and happiness so we nod and agree and interject a "dang" or "crazy" responce after every 100th word or so.
Yep honestly I think that's one of my best features when I lose or fail I just might put my head down for a bit then just walk away and depending on the situation like a competition I'll still shake the winners hand. It's funny seeing both genders whine to be honest I do take humor in seeing people whine though even though its also a turn off at the same time. Call me dark but its just funny seeing people throw a fit and having a complete meltdown.
Yep and I think if you truly wanna excel in certain things like martial arts you need to learn how to lose gracefully and that in turn allows you absorb more information learning from your mistakes. When I was doing ji-jitsu I would purposely grabbled with people more experienced than me. I cared way less about winning and more about learning. You being an experienced judo practitioner I think you know where I am coming from. And honestly if you are competing with somebody and you are truly showing being humble. That person who just beat you, will even teach you techniques you didn't know. I learned so much from this one guy who was a purple belt and way better than me in grappling. I am still just a white belt but its amazing how much you can improve from losing.
Oh I get that. My wife rarely does it unless she really wants something, then she finds, how I will never know, to be cute and make it impossible for me to say no.
Life can throw you into a river of shit. You drowned whining or you can fight your way out. That pretty much sums up how I feel about whining. Does not matter if its a man or woman doing it.
Emotion is one of the gifts of femininity. Emotions should not control you but they are not a bad thing to have in themselves, they show that shockingly, we’re human with feelings.
That's called just being annoying and wanting everyone around to feel sympathy for you, guess what lady I never feel for that trap and often teach other boys not to do the same.
@WowwGirl we both have that in common because you post whiny questions everyday due to you being single and I whine about having Asperger’s syndrome which is keeping me single. My problem is more legitimate because I struggle with a real illness and you’re a drama queen.
Other than that Happy Mental Health awareness month.
I mean I have a little bit of a whine in me but it's usually used to describe the ineptitude of the football team I support! lol... In normal life I'm pretty much a laid back guy lol
I mean, at what point those whining become reasonable?
Obviously, death is a reasonable place to 'whine'. Though it's more like grieving. Having your Ice Cream taken away won't make ya cry, but more pissed off than anything.
It's a blurry line, and everyone has their own definition. Just gotta find the right guy or girl who has the right balance for you.
Miriam Webster, Oxford, Cambridge, and McMillan don't have that definition for the word. so that seems to be your personal definition (which is of course what I asked for). Personally I define it as complaining to someone who does not care, is annoyed, or unable to sympathize. As to whether or not a person is annoyed is very subjective. Some people will be find complaining irritating, others don't. My advice to people who have complaints is to take them to people who can help and are willing to help and to ignore people such as yourself.
By your definition, virtually the entire Declaration of Independence is whining. And Jesus was whining when he complained the money lenders were turning his father's temple into a den of thieves. And Patton was whining when he bitterly grumbled about not having the fuel to cut off the Germans in the Fallaise Pocket. And Dr. King *and* Macom X whined an awful lot. And Churchill was whining to Parliament about the German reoccupation of the Rhine.
I Think the better question is " do I care"? No I do not. Thank you for asking. I'm going to be me. If you find that acceptable cool. If you d I not cool. What women find to be a turn on or turn off changes with the proverbial breeze. 🤪😁
I hope they do. I don’t wine. My lady can, vouch for that. I had the summer flu. And she never knew it. I just wouldn’t let her come near me. But I didn’t whine about it. I just said I had a bad cough. Lol
It is awfully damn annoying for me to hear whining/whimpering. It’s nails on a chalk board. In knowing women, it’s a damn turnoff for them. Dries their waterworks.
LOL that first pic made me think of my cousin, who as a kid would scrunch up his face incredibly when he cried. My uncles used to try to get him to cry just to see it.
Anytime a guy mentions himself he better be expressing his gratefulness or a moral to his story. Otherwise shut up and deal with your own negativity, dude
@designer1 OP just sounded like girls have an excuse to whine due to PMS while guys don't, so guys can't whine while girls can for about a week every month.
Pms “Symptoms include mood swings,…, fatigue, irritability, and depression.” This doesn’t mean that whining at others should be seen as not annoying. Whining is whining. It’s unattractive no matter what the reason is.
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