Why would he block me after admitting that he has low stamina and cums fast?

[Chachaslide0988]

I was talking to this guy and we finally hooked up. We had sex and it lasted around 2 minutes. I didn’t say anything to hurt him, hell I barely knew what to say. He didn’t contact me for 10 days. And then we began chatting again and hooked up for a second time. This time he told me he had low stamina and doesn’t last long in the bed. He told me it would always be a few minutes etc. We had sex and he came very quickly again. I didn’t say anything to hurt him again. I later found I was blocked on phone calls and text messages. Not social media pages for some reason. I don't know what to make of this. Any ideas?

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+1 y

So since that time he has unblocked me, and then blocked me back again. I am not going to dwell on his actions. His behavior seems strange. Maybe one day he will talk like an adult and we can carry a conversation.

[AmandaYVR]

He's going around fucking different women, hoping it will be different each time, but it isn't, because he's not getting to the root of his problem, and then when he gets called on it (not aggressively or insultingly, but as something to talk about), he gets embarrassed and ends contact. He can't face his problem, or the girl.

But he's addicted to social media and likes to have the numbers following him.
And/or he wants to keep scoping you out, lurking at your accounts, from a distance.

He's so lame.

[LinaDaGoddess]

He’s super embarrassed from the sounds of it. Lmaooo he was extreme blocking you however… I’m sure with enough practice and more experiences he would eventually increase his stamina and last longer… unless, of course, he’s lying and or he has some sort of mental disorder going on which causes him to ejaculate prematurely.

[BeMuse]

Sounds to me like he was just using you to get off a few times and then onto the next girl. He’s sexually selfish and just wanted to bust a nut and run. He didn’t care if you got anything out of it. He threw that self defamatory comment out there with a it’s not you it’s me break up vibe where you just want to get rid of someone, but not get in an argument.

[Chachaslide0988]

Wow I didn’t see that perspective but I do appreciate this. Thank you.

[hahahmm]

Reminds me of an opposite experience I had once... Went for 30 minutes. At the end she was practically yelling, "why didn't you cum! why! Is there something wrong with me? You don't like me do you? WHY-WHY-WHY-WHY DIDN'T YOU? OMG!!!"
I survived that and worse. This guy needs to nut up and stop being so sensitive.

[Brokenheartedx]

I knew a man who couldnt cum, i thought it was me and he blamed me too.. Took along time for me to get over it. Him and his new girlfriend were ribbing me on the phone etc.

[hahahmm]

@Brokenheartedx Them calling you is messed up. So is him blaming you.

[Jayplays900]

Ugh, yeah. Embarrassing yourself in bed is literally soul-crushing.

I don't blame him for becoming overwhelmed and blocking you. Was it the right decision? Depends on what you wanted from him.

But damn, someone needs to get this guy a self-confidence booster before he starts hating himself. It happens, you get stuck inside your own head and it sucks maaan.

[Kaneki05]

He seems a bit silly. Why block a girl who is caring and nice in this manner of not making an issue out it.
He's either embarrassed that made him make a dumb choice, or he is just playing some sorta game.

[Carolus]

Because there is another issue but you want to make it the main issue because you aren’t happy about it but portraying you aren’t for the sake of this question. If this is the main issue, you definitely or mostly have talked or portrayed your ideal partner in bed in a previous conversation directly or indirectly to make him insecure. There is no sex school to perfect sex, some people have health issues, some non experts, to others, sex is a non issue. You need to move on, psychologically and physically you will never be satisfied with him in bed because you need more.

[Chachaslide0988]

No. I actually liked him and I did not say anything to hurt him. He asked me for head because HE was embarrassed to have sex. I told him it was okay and that was that.

[Anonymous]

The question is why the time you last in bed so important? For guys and girls too. Why is this a big deal? Like does that makes him less than a man? Please people share your opinions, reply under this comment. I want to know. (I might ask this as an independent question later on)(always have been curious about this one)

[spartan55]

A guy who only lasts a few minutes isn't going to get the woman off.

[horatiohornblower]

It's false expectations of desirability and manhood. Thinking to be a real man he needs to satisfy a woman a long time. It's along the same fears of penis size.

That no woman will want him for being less of a man or that a woman won't continue wanting sex from him because he can't satisfy her. Not being man enough to get the job done well.

Rather than accepting there's other ways to please a woman. That there's medications which can help. Plus that with a willing partner he can work on behavioral therapy exercises to reduce and control his excitement.

[Chachaslide0988]

I don’t know. I liked the guy and was willing to continue talking to him. I actually felt a little upset that he blocked me.

[Opinion Owner]

@horatiohornblower I'm so tired of sexual myths 😐. Some are so toxic and the two you mentioned are no exceptions. and the fact that people believe in those

[LegendaryIcon]

He likely feels bad about it and or he "got what he wanted"

Guys can work on their stamina. There are certain things you can do to improve it. Also, did you do foreplay beforehand. It helps the woman a LOT to do foreplay and lots of it, before sex.

[PrettyPriya]

Sounds like he is embarrassed and went overboard by completely blocking you.

[Brokenheartedx]

he's embarrassed, you might not even realise you done it but maybe you pulled a face and he noticed and was ashamed.
He was honest, but if he wants to keep blocking and ignoring you everytime you have sex then he isn't the one for you.

[Interstate]

Yeah, read my MyTake entitled, "It's Time to Start Acting More Responsibility". It is about using COMMONSENSE.

[Chachaslide0988]

I’m sorry what?

[Jackblue]

I think he will contact you again saying something along the lines that he felt ashamed. And maybe he is telling the truth, but maybe not also. Men imagine pity is an aphrodisiac for you ladies. And for some of you I suspect it is.

[Chachaslide0988]

I’m not sure. I really liked him regardless, seems he was too blind to see it. I don't know what to say so I’ll leave it alone

[boxxie2002]

Maybe he was just up for a couple of hook ups.

Keep you on social media means he can still contact you but it's less personal than texting or calling. Maybe he doesn't want you to contact him. but he's happy to contact you?

[Chachaslide0988]

I don't know. Everything seemed ok but then it wasn’t. I am okay now though

[noohair]

Antisocial media and tell him to jerk off before sex and it will last longer.

[Yourfriend2021]

Maybe he was just too embarrassed to talk to you anymore.

[spartan55]

Captain Quickdraw is embarrassed.

[Wise4myage]

He felt ashamed for admitting that to you.

[Anonymous]

He sounds embarrassed and it has nothing to do with you.

[Flower7]

He’s probably embarrassed.

[Jmmmfi4]

he's really embarrassed... trust me

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he's embarrassed.