Are guys different in a relationship vs a friendship?

[Anonymous]

i kinda like this guy, but i can't imagine hwo it would be if i was in a relationship with him. like he doesn't seem like the person who would want to do cute stuff together or in a way do some of the tiktok trends with me.

[ohshee]

We'll see here's the thing you don't start out in a relationship you start out as a friendship become the guys friend first see who he really is just because you see him anyway does it mean that he's that way that's the one thing I hate about guys and girls is they try to be on their best behavior and it's not really who they are so become a friend before you become anything else

[DukeDango]

If you do go out with him, don't make him do that stuff he's not into. He might even agree to do it if you were going out, if he's trying to be nice, but he might harbor feelings that it's lame if that's his personality.

This is one of those cases where the golden rule needs a tweak; don't treat people the way you want to be treated, treat people the way THEY want to be treated.

[boggboss]

Some things change others don't cute stuff its possible if he dont really do the tik tok stuff outside he most likely won't do it with a partner

[boggboss]

Why would u need him to do that type off stuff tho how can that be a essential part of a relationship following what others are doing for the sake of it

[Asker]

i mean it isn't essential, like its for fun, or to be goofy

[boggboss]

Fair enough

[Jamie05rhs]

YES; we're VERY different! My "relationship" self is a whole other animal!

Very good question, by the way. Thanks for asking it.

[Avicenna]

Yeah, they usually are different because a romantic relationship is quite different.

[BattleToadBC]

yeah he will be more open with u and more sensitive after some time while with him obviously not a different person just more sensitive with you

[Jay3344]

Yes, one is platonic and the other romantic

[In_Trance]

Yes, just like girls are

[Iron_Man]

Yes they sure are

[Asker]

like how?

[Iron_Man]

They are much sweeter gentle and kind and they spent money on you