Try to make this short. This guy in the beginning texted "I love u, I wanna be your lover" fast forward 5 months. Secretly we are having sex at work (I know, it's so risky but amazing) plus give him oral too. But there are times he would pull away from me emotionally, like ghosting me. I would delete him, then we would be together at work again, all over each other again (the chemistry is intense). He said he wanted, lover, girlfriend kinda thing. He wouldn't let me into his place to have sex this whole time cos he said it's messy, like EVER. Would only invite me to a hotel which I always rejected. Then I deleted him, cut off all contact, I quit on him. While later he comes back, we talk again, he started chasing up this other woman, who's in a relationship. But they aren't intimate,, I guess. He admits to me he likes her too. But that I am his crush. He said am not his friend... whatever that means. He invites me to his place (at last) and we have really hot sex. He's staring into my eyes during it, kissing me passionately, just amazing sex, then he ghosts me... again. I can't fathom him out. What are we? Just fuck buddies I guess? As trying not to catch the feels, he's so hot n cold... why? He always calls me baby. Said he only calls me that.
I don't understand him... help my fuck buddy is hot and cold?
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