What’s up with this guy I don’t understand his behaviour tbh?

[Anonymous]

He is very odd, like this morning he came up to me to have a small talk and saying ohh good job, I said did mean it from the bottom of your heart? He was like yea than it’s just little stuff he be commenting on, like later on the day I was working he calls me out loudly and says ohh Diana is finally working, than before that comment and commented good job again, not sure if he being genuine with me he did greet good morning to me early in the morning today and than when we was all supposed to leaving soon he comes by and says oh I thought she already left referring to me and just stuff like that why is he being like that?

[spartan55]

Like what? Sounds like normal workplace interaction.

[Asker]

No bc no one else interacts like that

[spartan55]

How would you know that?

[spartan55]

Who is 'he' since you never said.

[Asker]

A guy I encounter with on a daily basis

[spartan55]

Okay, is he your boss?

[Asker]

Heck no

[Asker]

He wished to become one

[spartan55]

Shit it's the orange juice guy? Why do you keep posting about him? IGNORE HIM.

[spartan55]

Why are you letting that guy bother you? Tell him to fuck off. It seems you like him, which figures since he sounds like a total ass.

[Asker]

Absolutely not when he asked me for that orange juice I didn’t bring him it

[Asker]

Wym which figures I can’t help it that he bothers me constantly

[spartan55]

Do you not know how to ignore someone. Or blow them off? Look up gray rocking, that should work.

[Asker]

How do you blow them off

[spartan55]

By greyrocking them. It's really simple, Google it. From the way you describe that guy it makes me want to punch him. I can't imagine having to deal with him in person.

[Decoded93]

He’s interested you and teasing/flirting lightly

[Asker]

I doubt it

[Decoded93]

Well he is teasing by saying that comment about you actually working, are you interested in him?

[Asker]

Heck no and what’s his problem

[Decoded93]

He likes you, if I were you I’d gossip to him about a made up guy you went on a date with and he should get the hint, just mega friendzone

[Asker]

How u know it’s not the opposite

[Decoded93]

That he’s being mean to you? Most men won’t waste energy on women they’re not interested in, usually they distance themselves, also there’s a chance he doesn’t know he’s attracted to you but that he is subconsciously

[Asker]

I don’t know what’s his problem for real like it’s to the point where I am confused than a day before he has asked me to bring him juice form the snack machine like helllo

[Decoded93]

Tease him over text with innuendos and see what he does, I am CERTAIN he is into you! Are you attracted to him at all?

[Asker]

He is a unavailable man does that change your mind

[Decoded93]

I can be an unavailable man lol you just gotta break though

Unless you mean he has a girlfriend?

[Asker]

Yea he has wifey

[Asker]

Now what does it sound like

[Decoded93]

It sounds like he isn’t a very good guy and you should avoid him lol

[Asker]

Umm yeaaaa, so is he just being annoying or what

[Decoded93]

I still think he’s into you and he’s annoying you through that

[Asker]

Do you think it can be the opposite

[Asker]

Like he might dislike me

[Decoded93]

I doubt it cause then he’d ignore you most likely, and wouldn’t ask for favors

[Asker]

Nah I think he dislikes me

[Decoded93]

Hmm why not ask him?

[Decoded93]

Do you have his number? If he shared that he’s into you

[Asker]

Well one time I didn’t want to give out my number so after that he never asked for it

[Asker]

But it’s bc he wanted to send me money through phone number

[Decoded93]

He is so into you

[Asker]

I don't know that boy is hecka confusing

[Decoded93]

Why did he want to send money?

[Asker]

One day he will go completely ignoring me other days he will tease and try getting my attention like today so confused

[Decoded93]

Lmao why money though?

[Asker]

He owned me cash

[Decoded93]

Test him by teasing him back just to see what happens

[Decoded93]

Tease him and see what happens!

[Asker]

I don't know lately I’ve been completely cold to him bc his weird personality

[Decoded93]

Do you wanna find out what he really thinks?

[Asker]

I’m afraid no

[Decoded93]

Afraid of what?

[Asker]

I don’t want to know I think he dislikes me and that’s y picks on me tbh

[Decoded93]

What do you think he dislikes about you?

[Asker]

Just in general

[Decoded93]

I think most guys would like you, don’t worry he probably adores you

[Decoded93]

Thanks for the mho! :)