Honest opinion: do guys feel also bad after a failed talking stage?

[Anonymous]

Lets say you’re talking to a girl for a month or two months and been calling each other , maybe even going on a few dates. And let’s say it ended for some reason. Do you guys feel bad about it after a while? Do you guys miss the person sometimes?

[ShadezMcgee]

To an extent when that happened, yes. Just stopping out of nowhere when everything was going well with talking and dates to only be shafted can be jarring.

Usually the best option is to drop it and let it go as a man. If there was no talk and a straight up ghosting, she isn't worth it. There is a good chance she may have found someone who really fits her desire more like a new guy she could be seeing or even an ex. Either way, you have to believe as a man it was for the best and that she wasn't worth it when that happened.

Incest energy in yourself and women that want to spend time with you. Not ones that will do that bush league shit.

[ShadezMcgee]

Invest* goddamn auto correct

[jshm2]

No.

But then I usually only tended to date for a couple on weeks or a month at most anyway. In fact I still speak to them now and then when I come across them.

[Honesttguy]

You invest time and effort so then losing it is automatically gonna feel bad. But we just learn to move on cus these things will happen a lot.

[CharlesScene]

Every person is different, for me personally I just move on and that's that and don't really think much of it. It just takes me a really long time to get attached to someone like that, especially if we were not in a relationship.

[Anonymous]

Depends on the girl if I have real feeling then I would ask why if she give no explanation then I walk away. Also depends on the guy himself if he has back bone and other options then he will jump to another girl it's like that. The hookup culture ruined the show and women brought war tactics to dating. It's 2021 Its hard to have something real

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

If we liked her yes we will miss her and feel bad things didn't worked out.

[exitseven]

It depends. If I really liked the girl I feel bad but if I really didn;t care about her I just moved on.

[FilmGuy93]

Sure... it's time and emotional investment into someone that didn't ultimately work out.

[Ailaw22]

Yeah we do ofcrs thinking what if things workout currently in that stage

[spartan55]

No, not at all.

[noohair]

Depends on the guy.

[Slim57]

Yep for sure