My boyfriend told me he sees stunning girls out when he’s working as a photographer on night clubs and behind the bars is this why sex is less?

[Anonymous]

When he comes back sometimes we have sex and sometimes we don’t. Is it because he’s seen such “stunning girls.” (Not too sure I believe him)

He tells me I’m definitely up there and easily a 7.

He’s about a 5 himself he’s maybe average or slightly below.

He said the thing about stunning girls in an argument cos some random guy messaged me saying hey.

But is this why he comes back and might not try for sex etc or do guys not think this way?

Doesn’t want sex sees better looking people

Guys don’t think like that

[SphynxUK]

A make messages you, he’s jealous. He’s retaliated by saying how many attractive women he sees everyday. Suggesting that he can cheat just like that.
He’s threatened by you.
And as for rating you a 7? And his opinion means what exactly?
He’s trying to keep you ‘down’ which is a form of control.

[Asker]

He did then say I’m not better looking than him yet always tells me I’m way better. Everyone does. It’s just the fact sometimes he’s comes home from working and doesn’t want sex yet we normally have it everyday

[TheFlak38]

the sex is less because you're a turn off who thinks her man is now locked down and won't pursue other girls. always the same shit with bitches. once your insecurity starts kicking in you consider what you can offer the man in return.

[Asker]

But he should pursue them we are together?

[Surely]

I am assuming that at these clubs there are scantily clad or naked women.
Maybe it is like most things. The more that you see of something the less you desire it.
by the way. You are really a tough grader on looks!

[Asker]

No he photographs bands that play in night clubs in a really rough area

I’m not I’m just paranoid cos he’s made me paranoid I’m ugly and there’s way better out there

[jshm2]

Nah, he's probably not that into you, or suffering personal problems.

[Asker]

Apparently he’s really into me and he says we have loads of sex I just over think this one but a handful of tiems when he’s been back he doesn’t want to.

[Anonymous]

Maybe it's nothing to do with that and he simply is or isn't in the mood that night regardless?

[Asker]

Yeah but do guys do this? If they are around more attractive girls than they have do they not want sex with her?

[LegendaryIcon]

well, you knew what kind of people he'd be dealing with, as a photographer. so i can't really uh, feel bad for you

[lycanthrope3]

Get another guy

[Asker]

Why do you say that

[lycanthrope3]

It sounds like after seeing all those stunning girls, you are a let down

[Asker]

Why not leave me for these girls then?

[lycanthrope3]

Maybe he has tried and thy turned him down

[Asker]

But he still admits I’m stunning and out his league so how I can I be a let down to “other stunning girls”

[Asker]

Cos he’s had me for 6 years it’s boring now?

[lycanthrope3]

Up to you