Guys would you spoon with a girl you have no romantic interest in?

[Anonymous]

On multiple occasions but no kissing involved

Yes

No

Yes if I was just looking for sex

[DaveJord]

I think the guys that said yes would do it for the sex... I never spooned a girl I would not have sex with... friends or not. Just friends don't spoon.

The guys that said no are probably being honest... but I say C because I might consider it for the sex even if I wasn't interested in her romantically... but that depends on the girl and circumstances.

[Asker]

Think your answer makes the most sense. Iv never spooned with a guy friend I only had platonic feelings for and wouldn't even consider it with my truly platonic friends. It's probably worth mentioning that me and this male friend have hooked up once in the past

[DaveJord]

Exactly you have been romantic, so yeah if it was me... I would spoon with you if I thought it could happen again. But if I spooned you I probably make a move if we had already been together before... Given your history then he probably knows/thinks you may not be into it with him, but he's probably thinking you might change your mind or he might get lucky.

[Asker]

So do you think he's just looking for a hook up again? Would a guy risk a friendship for sex like that?
And if I have feelings for him how can I show that because I don't just want to sleep with him

[DaveJord]

Yes guys would risk a friendship for sex. It's why people cheat all the time. Would "every" guy risk a friendship... no not every but 75% or more would.

Of you're inyerthen you have yell him that enjoyed being together, and that you value the relationship, bit you want something more than friendship, or hooking up.

[DaveJord]

Sorry for typos.. * if your interested. *then tell him... not yell him.

[Jay_Chaser]

I am quite comfortable showing physical affection without it being sexual. If it's something they exclusively do with you then either you have a very special relationship or I'd question their intentions.

I had a friend group and after hanging out at the house we'd all crash on a double bed. At the time it was platonic... however one of my female friends and I starting a sexual relationship shortly afterwards and I wonder how much that spooning led into it.

[Anonymous]

Yes, just as if we were both serotonin dealers. No sex involved is ok. Just cuddling a friend. It happens. Just not male friends though...

[Anonymous]

If I'm single, and we both like the company, sure, it would even be cute.

[Anonymous]

Yes but I would still have a sexual reaction and probably get an erection.

[Zenpanda]

Yes, cuddling is nice 😄

[Nahid1707]

Are you two dating? i am a little confused

[Asker]

No! We hooked up once a couple years ago. He's my best guy friend, we hang out all the time and often end up staying over at our friends house and sharing a bed. I don't know if he has feelings or not because he doesn't act on it outside of the spooning

[Nahid1707]

That’s sweet he is your guy best friend

[Luckycharms12]

I'm sure some guys would I wouldn't personally

[Asker]

Okay yeah I though it was a pretty strange thing to do too, not sure what to make of his behaviour at all

[Luckycharms12]

Clearly comfortable and confident with you

[Asker]

Is that what it indicates? I have feelings for him so I feel like it's going to hurt me more doing this if he doesn't have them back

[Luckycharms12]

If not having sex together guess you are friends

[cuzimbored21]

No I wouldn't unless I was looking to get it on

[Joshua0213]

Used to but wouldn't now no.

[Wise4myage]

No way.

[LegendaryIcon]

Would you?

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Hmmmm…. Likely