He says he wants to move in just as friends why can't ever get the real thing with a guy?

[Anonymous]

[Caramalkisses23]

Honestly, don’t beat yourself up because a man just want to be friends. Just keep your options open, continue dating. Take your time to see what you want / don’t want.
You shouldn’t be hurt if a man wants different. Maybe what you want is different form what he wants. Think about it- you go on a date with a man, he likes you and already is thinking about marriage. Maybe you feel like he’s moving to quickly. It’s not to say that he’s not a good guy, it’s just that what he wants in a relationship is not in the time frame or what you may want.
Now I’m not saying that’s what’s going on in your situation- however, if someone doesn’t want the same thing- maybe it’s sign to search for your perfect person. That’s sounds cliche but seriously. Don’t be hard on you.

[Loveydove]

Probably because you let them move in without any sort of ring or title. You get played because you allow them to play you unintentionally of course. Before you give out your heart ask yourself

is this man pursuing me. Making it known his intentions, taking me out etc or am i pursuing Him?
is he interested in me?

[Staximus]

Does he know you want "the real thing"?

[Wise4myage]

Why not move in together and see how it goes?

[Toldol2]

Don’t let him