Why dont guys reply fast and only reply after 3 or more weeks?

[Anonymous]

[boggboss]

Guys don't do this lol for the most part yes guys don't respond as fast as women but thats because guys equally don't really live on there phones looking at messages there are always exceptions to this but meh if a guy is taking weeks to reply its because he dont care to reply sooner

[Seangreen]

Because fast to you might be different than fast to somebody else plus people have work and other things that they're doing we're instead of you picking up the phone making a call you got to play around with texting and then overanalyze it will how long and what they say and how many words and all this pick up the phone and Reach Out And Touch Somebody don't sit there and play stupid text we invented the phone so we can talk to people if you want to text write him a letter

[Gochogirl]

Yeah a few hours or sometimes a day isn't that bad but weeks? Nah he doesn't give a fuck.

[Anonymous]

I think 3 weeks is really too much.
It’s as though you sent him snail mail

[Jay3344]

I reply fast and actually find that most people don’t reply quickly. I used to be slow about it but I had a job that made me much more phone dependent and so now I am quick with it. I find that most people are slow about returning texts.

[lonestar_01]

He only replies to your texts after 3 or more weeks? Girl, please, move on. He has no sexual or romantic interest in you at all by the sound of it

[LegendaryIcon]

the girl i like, i had last heard from before tonight, 2 weeks ago. i tried her this past Wednesday, and i hadn't tried her since that Sunday 2 weeks ago, but, she did just get back to me tonight, about what i said Wednesday

she's on vaca.

[Stoney1684]

That's because instead of showing interest, they hold off on calling/texting so they don't look desperate. While they are doing that they lose the chance to be with the girl they wanted, the pride and ego get in the way.. Class A Dumbassery lmfao

[Waldoe]

not all guys, just shy or busy or uninterested guys

[soccerchick4eva]

If it takes him a few weeks, then its a nooooooo

[Avicenna]

Presumably they’re talking to multiple women

[Kareem_z21]

He isn't interested at all

[Jcrummy98]

I reply fucking fast within 2 minutes.

[LegendaryIcon]

suggestion... don't

while the qa looks like the guy she's in to prob. isn't very interested in her back, it's not a good idea to reply that quickly. you wanna show her you have a life, and that you're not waiting on her hand and foot. the girl i like, texted me at 8 pm tonight. I happened to be sleeping but, im going to probably text her either tomorrow, or Tuesday, when she said she was coming home from Thanksgiving. shows her i have a life outside of her

[Jcrummy98]

@LegendaryIcon well I heard lots of girls hate slow responder. If you gave time to respond it quick than don't be fake bro just fucking reply. Your text won't determine that you have a life or some bullshit. My company CEO reply my text quick and he is fucking busy. It's not how you think and your perspective don't matter sometimes. Just fucking reply if you have time and don't be fake.

[LegendaryIcon]

"if you have time"

that means you have too much time

[boredguy007]

Not one of those guys here lol.

[melanieeeB]

No interest

[In_Trance]

they're busy

[TheAfrikan]

That is our thing

[Anonymous]

lol why