Skin colour is nothing---at least not for people who are searching for serious long-term relationships; after all, real love is colour blind. Your problem might be simply that you do not have what the men want who are around you; and if your skin colour, with which you were born and over which you have absolutely no control, is a turnoff for these men, why would you want to be with one of them anyway?
It has nothing to do with your skin color. You have gorgeous skin. It’s probably just that men aren’t trying anymore to have relationships. I’m not trying at all.
You are a very beautiful woman, Mr Right will come around. Don't get in to big of a rush and get someone that will treat you bad. Be patient and things will work out for you. Hang in there and good luck!
You're just a young little philly. I'm twice your age. You have plenty of time to achieve your goals. Have fun while you're young. You're very beautiful and things will turn out perfectly for you. Have faith and be positive.
I couldn't say for sure how much of this applies to you but certain details paint you as a poor taste woman that guys enjoy hooking up with but would never start a family with, and those apply no matter the color, they are: Hair extension / wigs Fake nails Fake lashes A combo of these 3 means the woman has an astronomical body count and it's a hard pass for most guys especially guys with options.
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It is possible it has some effect, there is unconscious race discrimination going on in society for sure.. but that does not mean it is impossible, hell you did even have a boyfriend before :D. It is kinda like short guys who attract less women, but thing is that there is just a smaller number in the pool.. the pool of potentials you can make bigger by meeting more guys.
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It's unlikely that is the reason. Many unsuccessful people like to blame the things they have no control over and can't change. Men blame height or dick size, never their personality or hygiene or whatever. You're blaming your skin but you could just as easily be blaming height or boob size or something.
Your skin is beautiful you have the flawless look we all strive for. Sounds like your just meeting really crappy guys. Deliberately try to date the next guy who does not match the type that you usually go for. This might help
Not sure about the U. K but in the United States nerd guys would be happy to have a girl as hot as you regardless of race,
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I think that it’s because of the way you present yourself.
With every question you post they all involve pictures showing off your appearance. That’s probably how you are in real life too, reliant on your looks to attract a man.
When you make that your main thing, that’s the reason guys will come to you. It they’re only attracted to you based on your looks and nothing else, all they’ll want is sex.
You might be. Can't really say as I have no experiance. However my fiance is black and I like to think I treat her better than past girlfriends. Such things are entirely situational. by the way, have you asked your White friends what they do for their boyfriends? There may be a difference there as well.
Stupid seems to fill the bill for those people. It is apparent that they never got to know you [ or any person of color] or are even interested in YOU. These are shallow people and as such do not deserve the the time you spend on them. Please keep on tying I am sure you will find the love of your life no matter who it may be.
wow I didn’t expect the UK to be this conservative when it comes to dating other ethnicities but you are so pretty I don’t understand why men would ignore you. Perhaps they feel intimidated by you I really don’t know.
It's more how you go about yourself and your personality. If you come off as easy they'll only use you for sex. If you come off as wifey material then you'll get treated with more respect.
I was the only white guy in my highschool, you look fantastic. If I was still on the market I'd have dated you. If they don't like you they don't, I wouldn't read to much into it.
Meh lol. Get off IG. Everyone’s life on there is so fake. Better to be single than in a toxic relationship. What are your hobbies? You need to share a common interest or binding set of values to have quality dates.
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Skin colour is nothing---at least not for people who are searching for serious long-term relationships; after all, real love is colour blind. Your problem might be simply that you do not have what the men want who are around you; and if your skin colour, with which you were born and over which you have absolutely no control, is a turnoff for these men, why would you want to be with one of them anyway?
It has nothing to do with your skin color. You have gorgeous skin. It’s probably just that men aren’t trying anymore to have relationships. I’m not trying at all.
Faggot
^ and that's why we don't ask girls out anymore.
@Lost_in_the_Woods nobody wants faggots to ask us out.
You are a very beautiful woman, Mr Right will come around. Don't get in to big of a rush and get someone that will treat you bad. Be patient and things will work out for you. Hang in there and good luck!
I’m 25, getting old
You're just a young little philly. I'm twice your age. You have plenty of time to achieve your goals. Have fun while you're young. You're very beautiful and things will turn out perfectly for you. Have faith and be positive.
I couldn't say for sure how much of this applies to you but certain details paint you as a poor taste woman that guys enjoy hooking up with but would never start a family with, and those apply no matter the color, they are:
Hair extension / wigs
Fake nails
Fake lashes
A combo of these 3 means the woman has an astronomical body count and it's a hard pass for most guys especially guys with options.
It is possible it has some effect, there is unconscious race discrimination going on in society for sure.. but that does not mean it is impossible, hell you did even have a boyfriend before :D.
It is kinda like short guys who attract less women, but thing is that there is just a smaller number in the pool.. the pool of potentials you can make bigger by meeting more guys.
It's unlikely that is the reason. Many unsuccessful people like to blame the things they have no control over and can't change. Men blame height or dick size, never their personality or hygiene or whatever. You're blaming your skin but you could just as easily be blaming height or boob size or something.
Your skin is beautiful you have the flawless look we all strive for. Sounds like your just meeting really crappy guys. Deliberately try to date the next guy who does not match the type that you usually go for. This might help
Thanks. It’s funny you say that because even the ugly guys ghost me 😩 they’ll show interest and then just fuck off
Law of attraction. Google it, it’s a real eye opener. Invest in your education or work and the right guy will find you. Law of attraction for life ❤️
Not sure about the U. K but in the United States nerd guys would be happy to have a girl as hot as you regardless of race,
I think that it’s because of the way you present yourself.
With every question you post they all involve pictures showing off your appearance. That’s probably how you are in real life too, reliant on your looks to attract a man.
When you make that your main thing, that’s the reason guys will come to you. It they’re only attracted to you based on your looks and nothing else, all they’ll want is sex.
You might be. Can't really say as I have no experiance. However my fiance is black and I like to think I treat her better than past girlfriends. Such things are entirely situational. by the way, have you asked your White friends what they do for their boyfriends? There may be a difference there as well.
Stupid seems to fill the bill for those people. It is apparent that they never got to know you [ or any person of color] or are even interested in YOU. These are shallow people and as such do not deserve the the time you spend on them. Please keep on tying I am sure you will find the love of your life no matter who it may be.
wow I didn’t expect the UK to be this conservative when it comes to dating other ethnicities but you are so pretty I don’t understand why men would ignore you. Perhaps they feel intimidated by you I really don’t know.
I highly doubt it... beautiful is beautiful. Some people aren't open to dating outside their race but there are tons of guys who don't care.
It's more how you go about yourself and your personality. If you come off as easy they'll only use you for sex. If you come off as wifey material then you'll get treated with more respect.
You are beautiful and any dude that passes over you because of your skin color is not worthy of you
Your clothes are just very revealing.
Also white guys in the UK are faqs anyway.
I wouldn’t get too hung up on them since there’s better guys to date anyway
I was the only white guy in my highschool, you look fantastic. If I was still on the market I'd have dated you. If they don't like you they don't, I wouldn't read to much into it.
It’s common for most girls your age. Really nothing to do with you being black. We live in a hyper sexualized culture.
So many girls have boyfriends tho 😭 all I see on Instagram is couples
Meh lol. Get off IG. Everyone’s life on there is so fake. Better to be single than in a toxic relationship. What are your hobbies? You need to share a common interest or binding set of values to have quality dates.
White girls get pumped and dumbed from their white mates every 4 hours too so pls stop this nonsense it’s because you haven’t found your prince yet
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I won't be anything to do with skin colour. You just haven't met the right person
Do some guys not care about skin colour?
No some don't. I don't care what colour skin she is. Some dark skin girls are very attractive like yourself 😘