If a guy likes you and they're interested, will they will message you?

[AlongCameCindy]

so say you met a guy and guy says he will see you next week, but never contacted you again does that mean he's not interested?

[jsincal]

Could be many things:

-Nervous and thinks he’s not good enough
-not sure if you’re attracted to him
-doesn’t want to experience rejection
-May think you’re not interested
-Has a girlfriend
-Has a boyfriend.
-Herpes outbreak
-busy with work
-a narcissist that just wanted attention

etc...

Word of advice: if he calls... ok. If he doesn’t call... ok. Either way you never put your life on hold.

[ArchivalMars2]

Oh yes, I can tell you right now a guy will definitely text a girl that he likes. When I like a girl I try to make time to text her, and when she especially texts me too I can't help but want to text her back. In fact, it's hard to not text her back when she texts me first.

[DizzyDesii]

You should contact him at least once. If he doesn't reply then he's not as interested as he made it seem. I need someone who puts in effort too

[patrick677]

Exactly, forget stereotypes and write him at least you will know. And if he like you he might be really glad you did

[DizzyDesii]

@patrick677 yes i never understood people thinking you shouldn't reach out after a date for days to a week. Its just silly. They could be on a new date by then lol

[patrick677]

Too many standard of today, and people act how to be themself

[I-C3_ME]

are you texting him? Because when a girl doesn't message me first or seek my attention that much, I just feel like I'm bothering her and reduce the amount of texting I do to only arrange a date. However he could also just busy and forgetting to reply. Then again he could also just be not interested.

Quick tip, ask him about the hangout. Like what you'll go do and the things he might want to go eat then. It puts a general plan down and that can be a relief if you're not entirely sure if they're interested (trust me, I get it! Been there).

I do hope this helps and wish you a truly amazing day!

[CampingFerret]

This is great advice. I get just like that if I don't hear that much from her I feel the same

[Neilbud]

Yes and no. Their is no absolutes in life. He could be busy or thought about texting calling multiple times but afraid of saying the wrong thing. He could be avoiding you or he could be a player. I would send a quick message and see how he responds. One step at a time.

[Finchie40]

Yes but it goes both ways , if you reach out to him first and he doesn’t respond with in a reasonable amount of time , then don’t waste your time

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Guys/Girls who ghost people are a bad sign, Sure if they are interested I would hope they would contact the person again, and again I don't ghost girls or leave they hang on

[ohshee]

When a guy is being 100% honest and he likes you he can't wait to get back ahold of you he's not going to wait a week he doesn't even want to wait a day
He wants you to know as soon as possible that he likes you and he would call you everyday

[TheBootyChest]

Maybe he doesn't know how to contact you, or if it's okay to contact you. Maybe he thinks he waited to long to reach out to you because he forgot, and now you aren't interested anymore.

[Seangreen]

You could always try doing like a follow up and see how he responds but usually guys these days are pretty thirsty so if he thought he had a chance and was interested he should have been sweating you by now

[Louis-1]

NONONONONO
well it could be, but most of the time that guy just didn't realize, I wish I could go back in time and caught the signals I missed, either give really clear signals or ask him

[Wester1967]

No. I was taught not to harass women. You are gonna have to harass me. Otherwise the human race will go extinct. Thanks for your consideration.

[Adogdog]

It depends, sometimes we are too shy to message. I probably would if I had her number.

[sensible27]

Maybe, they're shy and don't know if they should contact you..

[grimreaper13]

Speaker for myself if I'm in to you I'm deaf I'm gonna be texting you calling you or I'm gonna ask what I'm gonna be over your house all the time trying to get to get with you one way or the other you're gonna hear from me at least once A-day

[cmarrott]

Often not unless they think you are interested. To many games in courting. Better to just reach out yourself if you are interested.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Didn't find a place for you on the current schedule, it's a negative sign mostly but it can be also due to rough events he's going through

[RHK36]

Probably not interested. Your actions also say you're probably not interested if you waited for him to reach out.

[RealMarek]

If he didn’t contact you the next week he is probably not interested.

[Luopio27]

Both men and women should say what they mean and mean what they say, at all times, places and situations.

[noohair]

It is anti-social media. It has normalized bad behavior.
In the olden days when phones were attached to wall,
it was, I'll call you.

[Dear_Panda]

If they have your number, they will definitely text you. Male sure you make it accessible for them.

[LegendaryIcon]

Just remember, he is chasing you. he likes the chase more than the catch

[TrillXHippy]

Yes a guy will text a girl that he likes and is interested in

[Nigjt]

No he could just be nervous or afraid.
God Bless

[OddBeMe]

We’re also highly sensitive. So try texting him. If he feels cold, drop him.

[msc545]

It can mean many things. Not everything is about you.

[ChefPapiChulo]

Would be hard to be interested in someone like you tbh.

[Anonymous]

Only if she messages me first. I don't chase. Thank you!

[Blaine999]

Depends on the guy, could be he forgot or is nervous.

[blueazure]

Maybe he is busy with something. Or with someone. Or could be something else.

[loveslongnails]

Sometimes. Depends how confident he is.

[Iron_Man]

Yes of course he will

[Yourfriend2021]

I think you're right.

[emperor90]

Probably they have moved on to someone else

[Anonymous]

Maybe, maybe not.
Initiate something.

[Slim57]

I'd message back for sure if I was interested

[bean2k21]

yeah pretty much

[boobliker]

not all ways

[Joker_]

No..