Do guys even care if a girl ghosts them?

[Anonymous]

Like if its a girl you found interesting, and you both have this weird vibe, were you can talk about anything random things. Its different from how you usually connect with people.

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+1 y

wouldn't you make excuses and think maybe she took a break for a bit?

[ArchivalMars2]

Some do, I wouldn't care if we were only talking for a short time, and then she suddenly stops. If it were for a long time like for a few months I might feel disappointed at most but that's it.

I can tell you now that for the guys who do care more about it they feel hurt and discarded. This kind of thing can make a lot of men bitter towards women in general and make them want to have less to do with them period. Seen and met a number of guys like this in person and on social media especially.

[Seangreen]

Look nobody wants to be ghosted okay. It's the ultimate form of disrespect. That's a new phenomenon to cuz that didn't happen before or at least if it did not like it does now because now people meet online and have no mutual friends or any other way that don't run into each other but in the past used to have to be a person and talk to somebody to end it because you're going to run into them or people they know I don't like that the one downside of the internet is it destroys human-to-human bonds

[hsshannah96]

Haha. Nope. We care more so sadly, when douchecanoes ghost us, there isn’t really any way to obtain any revenge or justice. Move on because those guys care about NOTHING and have respect for NOBODY but themselves

[LZPanzer]

Yes it is very damaging.

It leads many of us to rationalize it as we did something wrong to chase the girl off. But because there is no feedback we don't know what to alter or change about ourselves or our approach. When it happens too much they start to question even fundamental things about themselves, such as passions, core beliefs, personality.

[OnKoing]

Depends very much on the type of relationship we're into. At the end of the day you realise that the earth will not stop moving because she's pissed off , bored, going in another direction or moved out of town. Karma says it was always going to happen this way anyway, so just accepting things for what they are helps lots in situations like these

[Vikkrram]

It really hurts when anyone suddenly ghosts... whom you find anything special... or feel a bond wid anyone.

[Vikkrram]

If a girl thinks so then probably Maybe she is not serious... and she is just playin games...

[Dragonpurple]

It would bother me, but nothing I can do about it. I just move on and go from there, starting fresh.

[mark000h]

I would not like this. It's cold and cruel. Why not tell someone you don't like them personally.

[jerdanro]

No. Being ghosted sucks. Especially after several conversations.

[Anonymous]

If we have been texting and talking on the phone for 2-3 months then it suddenly happens then yes it sucks.

[Aurora1010]

No one likes to be ghosted, it's rude

[Luopio27]

Why would anyone want being ghosted?

[Fuentes]

Some do care personally me its whatever

[gamothen]

Of course they do

[Still-alive]

yes it fucking hurts