Meaning when a guy gives you a high five and holds your hand after that (interlocking fingers)?

[Anonymous]

So there is this guy that I work with sometimes. I only worked with him just a couple of times. But I already feel kinda a tension between us that don't know how to explain. I feel like blushing whenever I with him and a certain warm feeling I can't explain.

So last week I was working with him again and he had a longer shift and I had a really short shift. So I could leave earlier. I said I was going home and he raised his hand and wanted to give me a highfive and gave it back, but then he hold my hond. Like interlocking fingers after that highfive. When I got home I just realized what actually happened. I don't know if that was some sort of message or he just wanted to be nice.

[DaveJord]

Well you are saying that you two have some sense of chemistry... I am how did it make you feel? Good, bad, uncomfortable?

Chances are if you are blushing around him and feeling a certain way... then he might be feeling the same type of things. Sound like you might have some underlying sexual tension... but you do not want to assume too much. But if you are feeling that then be honest with yourself about it and then decide if you want to act on it.

If he is available then ask him out, chances are he will not make a move on a co worker unless you give me a clear indication that you would be interested is seeing him outside of work.

[bean2k21]

I'm having a hard time visualizing this
But if he interlocked your fingers over your head
during the high five I would say that takes talent
and creativity so I would pursue a double high five
while laying on your back if I were you

[Leonharted]

I don't know. That seems weird. I've been in tons of friendships and gone on a bunch of dates, and never done that.

[Citizenkirk]

Maybe both, maybe something else entirely 🤔
You could ask him if he has any sort of feelings for you 🧐🥰🎭

[spartan55]

It means he was offering a high five under false pretense and should be beaten senseless.

[Wise4myage]

I say its just being friendly.

[Avicenna]

He likes you