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He currently has both of you. Don’t waste your time and energy on a person who needs to choose between you and another. You’re giving him too much authority in your life, and rebounding has a high rate of failure.
You deserve better.
He probably won't. You are just his side hack that he uses for sex. The only way he might is if you tell his girlfriend that he is sleeping with you too. But that will also piss him off so he will not talk to you anymore.15
He won’t. If he wanted to do that, he would have done it already.21
What Girls & Guys Said
If he's willing to leave his girlfriend for you, he'll be willing to leave you for another person.22
signs can mean anything, you will think about it and you may have the wrong idea.
he will tell you, if he will leave his girlfriend for you. be careful, keep your hopes up way to high, he will dump his girlfriend and he doesn't that will hurt you a lot.0
If he does it to her for you then when you are together wouldn’t you think he’d do it to you?31
Have you had sex with him yet? If so then he should of already left his girlfriend for you , If you had sex with him and he is still with his girlfriend then you are just wasting your time , he is just using you as a side piece0
This doesn't sound like it started well, so more info please.
He met you while he has a girlfriend and starting seeing you on the side?
How did you get close enough to him while he has this girlfriend, to think he even wants to?0
Only if you're hotter than she is would he consider it.
Send me a DM with her pic and yours and I'll be brutally honest about who he would choose in looks.0
Spends more time with you, etc. AND - then when he is yours, he will soon leave you for the next woman. Count on that.11
If he dumps her for you, he’ll dump you for the next one40
If he was any decent man he already would have fessed up to the girlfriend and done it. Anyone taking someone’s boyfriend deserves them. I would worry how long before they cheat on you too though.0
There aren't any "signs" for something like this. It's one of those, "You have to see it to believe it," kind of things. He either will or he won't.10
If he did, would you trust him not to leave you for the next one?20
He’ll actually just do it36
no but you do realize that he is cheating her with you and most times that means he either is or will cheat on you with someone else.0
Why do you want to be with someone who has a girlfriend?10
I don't think you should be with someone who already has a girlfriend... Plus, what makes you think he wouldn't cheat on you with another girl? Sure, he may seem nice and all, but once a cheater, always a cheater.20
Sorry, if he wanted to leave his girlfriend for you. He would have done it from the start.10
You don't need any signs oh, dump him. If he will cheat on her he will cheat on you.0
be careful, if he dumps her for you, he would dump you for someone else20
How bout not
How bout actually not being a bitch, AND LEAVE HIM ALONE0
I personally dont even know if there is signs.10
First and for most you would not be the first person to crush on a someone already in a relationship. So your are not a bad person and there is nothing wrong with crushing on a guy. Honestly all you can do from there, is sit back and wait and see. Try to maintain the friendship and do not take any active role or actions to interferer with his relationship. So the signs you need to look for is the signs that his current relationship is in trouble and lay and wait while being support and a "Good Friend" while doing nothing else.
Secondly, any guy that would cheat on or break up with a girlfriend for another women is not the type of guy you should want to pursue. Honestly, if you told this guy that you would date him if he dumped his girlfriend, or he cheats on his current girlfriends with you... do you really think he would not cheat on you, or leave you later for another women?
And like most other guys here have already said, if you play the role of villain here and cause them to break up... well good people do not do that. Chances are if you were successful at doing it, that the guy would know and eventually if you did hook up he would resent it over time especially when your relationship hit its first bump in the road. Seriously ever relationship hits a few road blocks along the way... and this guy will always question if he made the right choice in leaving his current girlfriend for you. Over time feelings of doubt and resentment may come into play and kill the relationship.