Why are men so obsessed with how women choose to live their lives? Like worry about your own gender. Why so nosey?

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Heartache0405 · Accepted Answer

Men aren't obsessed with how women choose to live their lives. Men and women are supposed to complete each other. Well... It used to be about completing each other. Now women want to BE men because to them, equality means being exactly like the gender they're not. It's not men who are obsessed with women's lives. It's women who are obsessed with men's lives. Don't believe me? Then why do girls want to be part of the boy scouts when there's already a girl scouts? That's just one example. Let us men be ourselves and we will continue to let you women be yourselves like it's supposed to be. And stop blaming everything you women are doing to yourselves on us men. Then turn it around and claim that were the ones obsessed with you. It's pathetic

ObscuredBeyond · Accepted Answer

Because the choices she makes have consequences. And if he tries to get with her, he inherits them. If you wanted to find a business to partner up with, would you choose one with a long history with the mafia?

Yurrasis · Accepted Answer

In my experience I haven't encountered many men like that. In my personal friend circle, they're all very accepting. I don't wear makeup at all, and none of them have commented about it. There are the few that I've met at my work that shit-talk to their partner, but it's not a familiar sight to behold.

I think it's a common occurrence for everyone though. Society is judgmental. People can nitpick anything.

dumbbuthot · Accepted Answer

insecurity

WhatMeow · Answer

It doesn't pertain to me but I would say that men have traditionally been in control of everything and equality feels like getting less.

Just like most billionaires don't give away their wealth until they die, even if they have enough to live a million lifetimes it feels like losing if they gave a lot away and had even still enough for a thousand lifetimes.

Women have been told what to do for a long time and they have taken it and listened. Now they are standing up to men, some men don't like it. Others think that they should stand up for themselves and have men stand up for them if that is what they want.

NathanDavis · Answer

I don't worry about all other 8 billion people... I have my own life and enough things to take care of... lol

hi_it_is_me123 · Answer

It is just some gag incels who do that. Men in real life and some guys on gag are actually nice and are not like this in my experience.

Joseph3253 · Answer

About random women's, no man cares, but, for example, a really close friend of mine started smoking recently, this makes me feel really worried, there's a lot of things tha she does that i dont agree but all of this is her business and doesn't bother me, but smoking really makes me worried because of a lot of things that rapened in my past bacause of my grandfather habit of smoking for example.

FoxnEagle · Answer

Most men would like to have a woman
It is debatable whether most women would actually like to have a man

A good indicator of future performance is past performance, so yes, men who want women are going to be interested in her past.

DaveJord · Answer

Well i see it form women as wall, so it is not a man issue. Any belief that women are less obsessed is an overtly sexist stance. Now if you said why are people obsessed the opposite gender... then I would consider this a legitimate question.

aquamarine321 · Answer

Well based on the voting you women will realize that men don’t really care, females are the ones who think we care, so women can stop thinking that anything y’all do we care about what you do or have

Anonymous · Answer

Because those choices effect others. Why wouldn't men who care about women... care about women? Seems obvious.

JosyJosy · Answer

On GAG I see the occasional obsessed guy hating on women, but that's about it. The majority doesn't care or respects our choice

annabananna · Answer

I dont think most guys reAlly care that much if a girl wears makeup or not. He is just weird.

standardguy · Answer

Well perhaps they feel instinctive that women were created for men. God made Eve because Adam felt lonely. So women should accept that they are independent but also their destiny is to make a man happy. They were not created to make thrmselves happy.
Analoguely a man must be grateful for women to exist. He must never talk arrogantly or aggressive towards a woman because she is a gift from God.

HazyDaze63 · Answer

We get criticized for not understanding women. It's a topic that gets talked about seriously and comically. Perhaps we are not being nosey and simply trying to get a better understanding?

Anonymous · Answer

Cause they're obsessed by women (always wanting to get laid or have a girlfriend) it seem as if it's their only goal. Those who don't put women as their first priority usually don't care much.

peteerepans11 · Answer

Actually it's the women who are obsessed with men are doing.
Men had clubs, women want to get in. Men wearing tie, women want to wear a tie. Men going to strip clubs, women want to go to strip clubs.

But guess what, most married women. So all women should marry other women too and leave men in their peace. Problem solved.

Chthou95 · Answer

I have a feeling you're referring to women being premuscious and men telling them how they should live. You can do whatever you want but remember, there are consequences for your actions. Maybe not now. But maybe later on in life. And those consequences can effect the people around you

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Do I look worried? :P No I'm not obsessed. In fact, I'm a firm believer in not giving advice or help unless asked to do so. Things work better that way.

Citizenkirk · Answer

I'm a man and I do not have this issue so I would suggest that not all men are like that and the ones that are? Who knows?

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't say make up is catfishing, i actually love make up on girls.

I've seen some Asian girls who can completely change how their face looks. It's still not catfishing, but more like a bit disturbing the lengths they are willing to go with their make up. It's still cool tho what they can achive with make up.

demonics · Answer

Women can vote.  and why men care:

msc545 · Answer

I don't care what women do so long as it doesn't affect my well-being. Do what you want.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

When you don't have nothing going for yourself, you tend to worry about stupid stuff and what other people are doing.

AnthonyJ01 · Answer

Hell my ex expected me to live hiw she demanded. She did not want me to even have my own opinion. Everything and to be what and how she said.

driven159 · Answer

so many people can't control their own life they try to control others

TheSpartan · Answer

People worry about things when it's in their self interest to do so.

Jintendo18 · Answer

You can wear all the makeup you want, and it wouldn’t change my life one bit.

Anonymous · Answer

Tell me all about it. I'm a man and I don't understand these men either. Well, I do but I absolutely don't like their ways.

GlassTop · Answer

How did you know they are men? Did you ask their pronouns before assuming they are men?

Sincerly_KittyCat · Answer

Yep, its dusty behaviour.

awkward_author · Answer

We really don't care as much as you think we do. Some guys are just bitches who will complain about anything.

Anonymous · Answer

Why do you care if it's not affecting you? Are you like those women in that post?

Mediterraneansoul · Answer

It's just how you feel. We're don't even care about who we're with like thag let along your baaatty

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

Those type of men come from a place of insecurity.

StickStickity13 · Answer

Most men actually don't care.

DonkeyDan · Answer

Personally I couldn't give a fuck.

Anonymous · Answer

The irony in this question😥

Jay3344 · Answer

Don’t forget to say “some” men in the question.

Snakeyes7 · Answer

I am not sure what you are referring to.

KatherineJ · Answer

“They hate us because they ain’t us”.

AndrésC64 · Answer

Don't know what you're talkin about.

Jouth · Answer

because women is poopy

TallAnon · Answer

Begging the question, I don't care.

fjb2021 · Answer

Sounds like libtardism.

My-lover · Answer

Because same is true for vice versa

IssacGray · Answer

Hey are you perhaps the oddball in your family?

SecretGardenBlood65 · Answer

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