Guys, I think I fucked up. How do I get him to talk to me again?

[Anonymous]

So my friend and I hung out Friday into Saturday. We had fun the first day. The second day it was awkward. We barely spoke to each other. I tried to fill the silence by asking him questions - but he was really short with me. He didn't really ask or say much to me. We were both exhausted though.

He didn't make any moves on me, so I don't know if he was expecting sex or what. I would have if he'd made a move. But he was very respectful the first day, he was pleasant the second.

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This was the first time we hung out for more than one day

[Lionman95]

How do you know you destroyed the situation. Maybe he was just tired and just enjoyed being around with you in silence. Because guys can enjoy hanging out with people without talking much or talking at all. So I don´t see where you´ve messed something up.

[Asker]

He just hasn't spoken to me much. He did text me this morning to see how I was, but that's it. Just a bit worried.

[Lionman95]

Maybe he isn´t a communicative person, just give yourself some time. If he has texted you this morning (two days after the incedent) it´s a positive sign because that shows that he´s interested in keeping things going between the two of you.

[Asker]

You're right. I sometimes let my anxiety get the best of me.

[Asker]

Update: He has texted me every day since then, so we are okay:)

[Lionman95]

Thanks for the update, glad to here everything is good between the two of you.

[anylolone]

Why didn't you make a move if you wanted to fuck him instead of feeling that everything went wrong because he didn't?

[Asker]

It's not that.
It's that we couldn't keep the conversation alive on day 2

[anylolone]

Is it though? Why the second part?
If you both were exhausted, wouldn't that full explain things enough to give you peace of mind?

So, I'm sorry, it does seem to be that.

[In_Trance]

you don't. you move on