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Guys, how to talk to guy again after I friendzoned him?

I really like this guy and he likes me too. We had so much in common and talked for hours during our first date there was definitely a lot of chemistry. I was scared that he'd hurt me because he was very flirtatious and touchy and I thought he wanted just a fling. I pulled away from his kiss and told him I didn't want to kiss him because i like to take things slow but that i do like him. He got upset and later told me he was hurt by me not wanting to kiss him but he never apologized to me.. he never mentioned his ex by name but said that he's pretty messed up from a past relationship that ended a year ago and that he's not looking for a relationship. Yet at the same time he said he's not like the other guys who I've met who only want sex and he said he won't mess with me like that. I said judging by the way he acted it seemed like all he wanted was sex which was why I was hesitant to kiss him and that I'd be happy to be friends. He hasn't replied.. I'm not sure if he hasn't replied because






1) he is looking for sex and knows i won't put out OR
2) i somewhat friendzoned him

I'm not sure which one it is but I do want to date this guy for the possibility of a committed relationship and want to talk to him again. what do you guys think? And if you think i should message him what should i say



Guys, how to talk to guy again after I friendzoned him?
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