I friendzoned a guy I like and he stopped talking to me?

[Anonymous]

I thought you start a relationship by being friends and getting to know each other better. Because my ex completely destroyed me and I’m not looking my best for him. I’m extremely depressed and have trust issues. This guy is actually 10 times better looking than the guy who destroyed me and I was afraid he might do the same thing because of his beauty he’s kinda arrogant. He was treating me like a girlfriend and told me that he wanted a serious relationship but he had a few red flags like criticizing women by the way they look. Then a few days ago I asked him to stopped talking to me for 2 months because I’m falling in love with him and he kinda called me but then stopped. I don’t want to text him anymore because I feel like he moved on and even though it hurts I wish he finds a good woman 😭

[Anonymous]

It's understandable that you may have reservations about entering into a relationship after being hurt in the past, and that you may want to take things slow and get to know someone before becoming romantically involved. However, it's important to communicate your feelings and intentions clearly with the person you're interested in, so that they understand where you're coming from and can make an informed decision about whether or not they want to pursue a relationship with you.

In this case, it sounds like you may have sent mixed signals to the guy you friendzoned. On the one hand, you were treating him like a boyfriend and talking about a serious relationship, but on the other hand, you asked him to stop talking to you for two months because you were falling in love with him. This may have been confusing for him and may have led him to feel rejected or hurt.

It's important to remember that everyone has their own boundaries and needs when it comes to relationships, and it's okay if someone's boundaries don't match up with yours. If this guy has stopped talking to you, it's possible that he may have felt hurt or rejected by your request, or that he may have simply decided that he's not interested in pursuing a relationship with you.

It's important to respect his decision, as it's his right to choose who he wants to be in a relationship with. If you still have feelings for him, you could consider reaching out to him and having an honest conversation about your intentions and feelings. However, it's important to be prepared for the possibility that he may not feel the same way or may not be interested in pursuing a relationship with you at this time.

[MementoMori777]

It used to be that way, things changed tho, now getting friendzoned usually means you are wasting your time and you will be stuck in the friendzone, guys avoid the friendzone now, people nowadays go on a date and see how it goes to see if they want to continue it

[SeriouslyFunny00]

You asked him to stop talking to you and he stopped. What's the problem?

[Sour-rose]

Well, what did you expect? Anything else the problem?

[coachTanthony]

As he should. If you friend zoned him then his intentions were more then just being friends so good for him for moving on.

[Avicenna]

Because he wants a girlfriend and you told him you just wanted to be a friend

[megabamse]

Hi hi hi... hi. never ever play games. We all HATE games, no matter the gender just stop with the games. Just thhhss stop. Don't test, don't play around. Be genuine, take things in your own tempo, trust your gutt feeling. And one more thing, life never comes with guarantees, and everything is a bit of a risk. To play every thing safe will often get you left behind. Take a risk, be honest about what you want. Of things don't go your way then just get up and move on.

[serious]

Yes it seems he has moved on and of course if a man has feelings for the woman they don't like being friend zoned.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Oh well. You fucked up. Keep that in mind for the future and don't pull that shit again.

[Anonymous]

You played the stupid female game and lost.

men don’t want games and childish bullshit. He doesn’t need or want you as a “friend”.

you fucked up.

[Anonymous]

You friend zoned a guy you like and now you're confused about why isn't interested in you anymore? WTF!

[Rocknerd2]

You slamming the door in his face. He walked away. The friends thing only works when you're already friends and somethings happens.

[Anonymous]

And your question is? Because all you've done is tell a story.

[Luckycharms12]

He got tired being a friend

[KrakenAttackin]

He was right to dump you from his life.

[Anonymous]

You should of explained that to him.

[In_Trance]

you're wrong