What should I do if he is waiting for me hopelessly and not moving on with another girl after I broke his heart but he disrespected me a lot in past?

[Anonymous]

So this guy disrespected me a lot when I friendzoned him and he called me as a characterless girl as I did not commit to him. But he never proposed me so I didn't commit to him. And he was jealous as I'm spending time with others a lot and not with him. I broke his heart with some very hard words since he called me as a characterless girl and since then he stopped talking with me and blocked me out of all his social medias. I regret being brutally speaking with him instead of understanding his feelings. His friend told me that he's still waiting for me to apologise with him so he will get back with me. But I am not willing to apologise to him since he called me as a characterless girl. I want to get back with him but I don't want to apologise to him. Should I go back to him and apologize to him now? I do not want to lose him

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Stop wasting time and move on, seriously. He sounds immature, you don't owe him any apologize and likewise, you have no business in his life anymore.
He wants to wait? Let him wait, and wait and wait; until he gets the gist and move on. You two as people are done with each other, time to move on.

[Asker]

You mean he doesn't love me anymore? Or he doesn't deserve me anymore?

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

No, I mean that for your and his sake you both should move on. Why would even want him to love you anymore if you "broke his heart"?
And he's shown himself to be immature and childish. Definitely not a good match.

[Asker]

Why can't I give him a chance for him? And why can't I make him learn how to be mature? Won't this work?

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

I'm afraid I doubt it.

[Asker]

What bad can happen if I go back to him?

[Changiis07]

Well if you are going to apologize it has to come from a genuine heart. Don't just apologize to get back with him, do it because you are truly sorry and want to move forward with the relationship. Communicate always

[Asker]

But he should apologise to me first because he said me first as a characterless girl. Why can't he apologize to me instead? And why do I need to apologise to him for a fault that I didn't even make?