How do you get a guy back you friendzoned?

[Anonymous]

I friendzoned because I was starting to date my ex. We don't talk anymore how do I get him back?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ayy girl, been there before! Getting a guy back you friendzoned is tough but not impossible. Here's what I'd do:

First, give him some space if you haven't talked in a while. The last thing you want is to come on too strong right after blocking him out.

Then start casually reaching out - send him a funny meme or ask how he's been. KEEP IT LIGHT. Don't bring up old stuff yet.

Once you're chatting friendly again, invite him to hang as part of a group thing. Get a few people together so it's not awkward one-on-one at first.

While you're together, flirt a little! Give him those smiles and gentle touches girls do. Let him see you're interested now.

If the vibes are good, ask him to meet up just the two of you. Then you gotta really lay the charm on thick - compliment him, be a great listener, really focus on connecting.

Make your move at the end of the date - go in for a hug and maybe a cheek kiss. Leave him wanting more.

The key is taking it super slow, letting him warm up to you again, and making sure he knows this time is different. You got this girl! Just be patient. He'll come around.

[aceleon]

if the guy has slightest self respect and pride, he would told you to fuck off.

[Billlewis]

The easiest way would probably be to just snap your fingers... lol

[Anonymous]

You apologize for rejecting him, you say you were dating someone else at the time. And then you ask him out.

If you don't want to do all I just said then frankly you don't respect him, and don't deserve him.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

So basically you want him to accept being second choice. Leave him alone.

[Anonymous]

You don't. You learn from your mistakes and move on.

[Asker]

Why not? And I don't think it was a mistake as much as the wrong time. He's still single, we're still in similar circles and we didn't end on bad terms.

[Opinion Owner]

I rather doubt he would be interested.. Bring friend zoned as a guy is the worst kind of rejection cause it says we aren't good enough. But hey keep living your dream.. Reality will come knocking soon enough.

[Asker]

Our mutual said he's still into me. Some peoplejusy like people at the wrong time it's not that deep.

[Opinion Owner]

Keep telling your self that princess

[HappyWoman34]

I agree that you don’t.

[Asker]

Why?

[HappyWoman34]

Because in my opinion, to have rejected him at all, it indicates that you didn’t like him enough to choose him the first time. Why (to him); should the second time be any different?

[Asker]

Because I was already basically committed to someone I could not just drop and he had a territorial girl around him detering me at the time. Now both are out the picture I don't see why I wouldn't at least try. You don't believe in second chances or right person wrong time?

[HappyWoman34]

No I don’t believe in that. You still chose someone else over him.

[HappyWoman34]

That’s my opinion.

[Asker]

Y'all are so weird a d have no loyalty. That's like saying if your in a relationship you should have cheated to with a person u just met.

[HappyWoman34]

Have no loyalty? I don’t owe some guy that rejected me the first time because he thought he had better options a second chance just because he realised that he hasn’t. The same goes for this guy. If you don’t want the truth, don’t ask for the truth.

[Asker]

Lots of great relationships come from checking your friendzone. What really matters is he likes me so idrc whether you think smth perfectly normal is wrong. stuck defending the honor or a man who is perfectly fine being picked now

[HappyWoman34]

If you’d really wanted this guy, you’d have dumped the other guy and dated him when you had the chance. That’s the truth.

[Asker]

I deadass told u i basically had a bc how could i have chose him if i was loyal to the guy i was with at the time literally go get a bitch on ur dick u old hag. It's nit even the truth u just have a bullshit moral compass that wishes you'd get picked

[HappyWoman34]

No I think you can’t handle the truth. You just came on here to have your hair stroked and to be told you’re awesome, just as you are and that ‘oh yeah girlfriend, you’re so all that and you’re so right!’ Well I disagree and I’m not doing that. So suck it up princess.

[Asker]

boyfriend*

[HappyWoman34]

What you do is entirely up to you. Don’t blame me for your own messing up with this guy. I don’t care if you make a fool of yourself and lose his friendship. I don’t even know you.

[Asker]

How does it feel being in your 30s and still fucking londky asf ur just mad u can't take ur pick and get chosen second. I can take my pick and I choose him

[Asker]

Bitch he likes me back how am i gonna embarrass myself dumbfuck 🤣🤣

[HappyWoman34]

Whatever. If he’s stupid enough to accept someone like you and be your final option and be in a relationship with a bitchy, difficult woman like you, that’s his mistake to make. It’s not my problem and neither are you. Now get lost and stop wasting my time.

[HappyWoman34]

You asked my opinion, I gave it to help you, you got abusive because I didn’t kiss your arse and I’m done with this conversation.

[Asker]

Bitch I ended you don't tell me to get lost when ur the one fighting a college student minding her business. I'm not difficult i just deal back what im given too bad you can't handle that. Slit ur wrists fat ass u big asf 🤣🤣❤️

[HappyWoman34]

I’m going to report you. You’re toxic.

[Asker]

Yeah report an anon acc 🙄 like i gaf just leave me alone or block me pussy. Can't handle the heat big body?

[HappyWoman34]

I just did. Right, from this moment, I’m not responding to any more of your messages.

[HappyWoman34]

You’re toxic. This conversation is done.

[Asker]

LMAOOOOO🤣🤣

[Tim2nice]

You don’t. Option B isn’t a good option

[Anonymous]

Just try asking him?