How to ask a guy that’s a friend to hook up again?

[Anonymous]

Hooked up with a guy months ago we stayed friends but I only feel comfortable sleeping with him, he was good but it’s the aftercare that makes me feel better

[Staximus]

I don't know why you're trying to make things so difficult, and at the same time make yourself look like an old skeezer by just asking for sex. How about just ask him out for a date and then take him home or go to his place afterwards.

[Asker]

Bro you’re 48 you’re the old sneezer

[Anonymous]

To reconnect with your friend for a hookup while ensuring your comfort, be direct and emphasize your specific need for aftercare as a boundary before anything happens.

[Nikki1989]

It is not a complicated question to ask. Just do it.

[Asker]

It was complicated because he was dating again and he just went on a vacation with this girl he was in the talking stage with.

[Anonymous]

Aftercare?

[236color]

Assuming you speak a common language, use that language to say, "You know what we did last time? That was fun, let's do it again."

[queenofcardio]

I'd ask if he's single first. If he is , I'd ask if he wants to hang out

[jahaims]

Go to therapy and have a real relationship instead of artificially meeting your needs temporarily through casual sex

[Anonymous]

He’ll be thrilled. And guys who are good at cuddling are hard to find.

[AgentG111]

Just tell him, hey sex was great let's do it again.