Should I ask my one night stand if he wants to hook up again?

Question

I had a one night stand with a guy and really enjoyed it. I’m not sure though if he did as much because he lasted for so long - which was great for me but I feel like it’s not a great sign from the guy, right? He definitely did finish though. It’s been almost a week and I kind of want to hook up with him again. Should I just ask him? I feel like if he wanted to though he would have said let’s do that again some time or at least hit me up. But on the other hand, is a guy really gonna say no to an easy opportunity to get laid? So should I just ask him to hook up again or just take a hint?

Losalt · Accepted Answer

Give him the option, he's always free to turn you down.
You can just start with saying that you enjoyed it and that if he feels like a repeat of that the you're willing, and he can contact you when he feels like it then you two can come to an agreement perhaps?
This sounds like a good potential for a friends with benefits relationship (assuming that you two get along okay outside of bed).

spartan55 · Accepted Answer

God you girls overthink yourselves out of so many good experiences. Ask him to hook up again ffs. Where are you getting the idea the longer he lasted the less he liked it? That doesn't even make sense.

provokeesmokee · Accepted Answer

If I were you, I'd ask. Worst he can say is no.

And if he says yes, and you feel up to it, all if you can talk about the sex. See what he's liked and ask what he wants to try.

Just cause it's casual sex, doesn't mean you can't still improve your skills. Besides, practice is fun.

beautyjoyfover200 · Accepted Answer

Fuck it… just do it! But let’s hope he don’t make it awkward about it and kill the vibe if so just leave!

shortster · Answer

Never hurts to ask.

Anonymous · Answer

Go girl go...

Should I ask my one night stand if he wants to hook up again?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said