Guys, How do I make it up to him?

[Anonymous]

Last night I got really drunk. I ended up making out with two guy friends, made out with one, kissed another and then made out with the first one again. The second guy seems pretty upset and mad at me, even though he keeps saying he doesn't like me or anything. If I could have done it all over I would’ve only made out with the second guy, as we have made out once before and there’s just more of an interest there. I tried telling the second guy just that but he doest believe me. What do I do?

[ohshee]

The first person you need to make it up to is yourself I'm sure you're getting quite the little reputation now is that what you're looking for I mean it's your choice who you want to be in life but when you're at school and every guy's point that you because they think you're a little s l u t I mean is that what you really want I mean I I'm not going to say anything about it it's your choice is who you want to be I guess that's the whole thing about life is we all get to choose who we want to be by the things that we say and that we do
Once you get your reputation you can't get rid of it except for move go to a different School but it's going to follow you there too

I mean maybe you don't have to apologize to yourself maybe I'm just looking at it wrong just remember one day it follows you everywhere you go
So what are you going to do when your 17 or 18 r19 and your pregnant and you don't know whose baby it is there goes all your friend time it was all your time let's go get a job it's going to put you in a lot of different moods I don't know I probably shouldn't have answered this question cuz I'm not telling you anything that you want to h e a r anyway you do each one of these guys that you do this with they don't give a fuck they just want to get fucked they don't care if they hurt you because they're the one that's going to make you look bad they're the ones that are going to call you the names they're the ones that are going to tell everybody rumors they're the ones they're going to put you down make you look bad when you least expect it I don't know I guess I can't give you an answer on how to make it up to him except for don't do what you were doing with those two guys why don't you make it up to your self you're worth it I would say I would think but it's your choice

[Anonymous]

If he didn't like you, he wouldn't be upset, so you know he's lying. But what's done is done, you can't change it now. Other than telling him how you feel, that's all you can do and then just give it time for him to "get over it". But don't keep apologizing or anything, tell him how you feel, and that's that. Move on.

[Avicenna]

Nothing. You've already explained it to him. Maybe it will take him some time to get it.

[Anonymous]

You already did what you can do.

You dont get to choose what other people think and feel.

[Anonymous]

Nothing. You ruined your chances with your behavior.

[noohair]

This is why children should not drink.

[daster4442]

adults should not drink too

[noohair]

@daster4442 Agreed but your brain does not stop growing until your early 20's. You only get one brain, don't screw it up.

[Iron_Man]

Why are you drinking as a child

[Nahid1707]

Any update? I’m sorry for that

[Anonymous]

Don't get too drunk next time

[Anonymous]

Stop acting so slutty and stick to one guy ffs.

[Anonymous]

wow so you're a whore nice to know

[JesseJayNeak]

You can’t