Do guys care if girls swear? What do you think about it?

[Em365]

Since I was little I was told that ‘swearing isn’t pretty’. I am surrounded by girls and boys that swear continuously at my high school, so I’m honestly not sure anymore. I know it helps with stress, so that’s good, but is it unattractive?

It’s bad when girls swear

It’s okay

Never though about it

I like it

[kmg9150]

Its only inappropriate because we have been conditioned to think feel so. They are words just like any other word. We only believe what we want to. Its as simple as high powers saying that love is actually a bad word that used only for manipulation and deceit. Then everyone will have negative thoughts and emotions surrounding that words. Imagine of people didn't take offense to stupid shit like a words all the time and how much less hate would be in the world... Imagine the word "n**" in all forms was an acceptable slang for how black people segregationaly use it towards another. That would eliminate a lot of hatred globally if people would get over the negative ideology thats has been created. It didn't not start as a intent to be "racist" if people were not censored to the correct history of how its came to be what it is.

[magiusX26]

seems you are reffering to the quote "swearing is unladylike" which is an old sexist mindset saying. as well for a long time people were mislead into believing profanity words were a sign of low intelligence, which was based in a partial truth. the rwal facts are that using them too often does show some minor lack of mental capacity but othereise they are actually a sign of increased intelligence because they are an expansion of language used for expression. the key difference bring keeping the usage balanced with words that are not profanity. there have been multiple studies done where things like brainwaves and brain activity were scanned showing improvements when profanity is moderately used.

[Nxtawm]

I swear in almost every sentence with the exception of professional spaces then I try to hold back. But otherwise I need to say bitch or fuck (ing) in my sentences, if I don’t, it just doesn’t feel right lol. And I also say, doesn’t matter if guys like it or not, if you like or feel comfortable speaking a certain way then continue to do so.

[KrisPW]

I try to use it in moderation and situationally. Publically I'm pretty tame, same around our mixed friends socially. With just his guy friends around, I'll open up the valve a bit to let them know they can speak freely around me and be comfortable. At home alone with my fiance, well, that's between me and him...

[TheUniqueOne96]

It honestly depends how often.

The less, the better, but it's fine here and there, but if someone does it every two seconds, it's a turn off, guy or girl.

[hahahmm]

I don't like it... Sure, some females do it but it's not a plus. It's not feminine. And the more you do the worse it is. It's similar to if you chew tobacco or cut your hair really short and start wearing oversized man shoes.

[1988fido]

depends how frequent? a lot then it is bad, doesn't matter a girl or a guy.
but normal like once in a while its fine i dont mind it. she is human too.

[YankeePoint]

In my area, you hear very few men or women swear. It is a sign of a weak mind, who's vocabulary is limited. You achieve your best ability when you know how to call someone a son of a bitch, and they don't realize what was said.

[Staximus]

I don't usually even think about it. Most of the girls I grew up with had mouths like sailors. It's different if I went into a restaurant and the waitress was swearing at somebody. I would think "hey, this girl is alright" haha

[Staximus]

At work in a professional setting, it's bad manners unless you work at a garage, dive bar, tattoo shop, or construction haha

[Kiran_Yagami]

Context is everything. Do you swear like a sailor or just use it to add emphasis, and you don't normally swear at all?

[boggboss]

Will depend on the person I dont see it so negatively as its just another way to express yourself meh

[EaterPeter]

There are always better words. Please try not to fit in. Rather find a friend who have same values. My opinion is most people swear angrily coz they cannot word their feelings right.

[EaterPeter]

I would try to find at least four words to express myself better if I swear

[EaterPeter]

It's definetly a note worthy / learning opportunity

[EaterPeter]

Any how women has 3x richer vocabs than most men

[EaterPeter]

So at minimum you would need two words for every swear word to you feel to use to replace with

[EaterPeter]

Every swear word you feel to use *

[EaterPeter]

The fact that you're here asking this question proves that you're a better person

[SurströmmingLover]

It's really bad and it turns me off, if it's done a lot.

[888theGreat]

Little girls should not swear or talk back to their elders.

[Miristheiss]

It is pretty gross and off putting.

[Anonymous]

She should only swear in the bedroom ❤️

[CoolGuy7532]

It turns me off.