What do guys think of girls who swear?

[Anonymous]

I’m the kind of girl that does not like to use any swear words when I talk because I think it comes off as trashy and low-class (NO offense to the girls who like to use swear words). But I just feel it isn’t necessary to use inappropriate or negative words in any case because I just don’t think it looks good. Guys, do you think it’s hot or whatever when girls use swear words? Or do you think it is low-class and trashy? I always thought it is classy to be PURE and CLEAN in language and not use dirty or offensive words and that men respect women more that are like this. I don’t ever use any swear words, believe it or not. Will guys think this is weird or no? My ex boyfriend thought it was “hot” when girls curse and said he thought it was weird that I didn’t like to. I don’t know. I’m not a slutty kind of girl that likes to hook up with guys also. And I am also a virgin that want to save herself for marriage as well. What are your opinions?

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+1 y

No offense to anybody. I am not calling those who like to hook up sluts at all. No, I am not saying that. I am just saying, I am not the type of girl that likes to hook up and I don't consider myself a slut. I respect everyone and what they chose to do.

[Levin]

Doesn't bother me, provided it's not excessive.

I take issue with your reasoning. I actually think those people who try and avoid swearing altogether are actually usually rather common. Some argue that people always want to elevate their social class. Those who take your view strike me as lower class (or working class) trying to be middle class, consciously trying to be prim and proper. Secondly, they're just words, and words are morally neutral, (unless you're bullying another individual). It strikes me that people who get upset about this, always seem the types who have no idea what's going on in the world and don't bother to read and watch the news. There's some pretty disgusting stuff going on out there, often perpetrated by your own government, so swearing is inconsequential. Thirdly, some swearing indicates a subversive mind, which is always healthy in my book.

Lastly, watch Stephen Fry on the joys of wearing:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s_osQvkeNRM

[SheDoc420]

To the girl that posted this:

Could you please say "no offense" one more time? So that I may actually get heated enough to punch you in your virginal vagynie? Don't be passive-aggressive. We who are reading this all know that you're incredibly judgmental. At least have the balls to say it. Well, I'm judgmental as fuck too, so I'll pass the 2 cents that I earned hookin'

[SheDoc420]

... onto you. I rip it out like a fucking pirate because I can; because unlike you, I was able to savagely fight my way to the top of the food chain. Trashy? I love when girls like you throw out judgments like that... Because Now get to counteract it. I graduated valedictorian of my high school class, summa cum laude double majoring in biology and chemistry at a prestigious college, and top 10% of my class in medical school. I'm currently gunning for a pulmonary critical care fellowship. I've worked hard enough and done well enough to earn the right to behave as I please. Girls like you wish they were intelligent enough to do the same. Unfortunately, girls like you are forced to lick society's asshole to own a beem. Ahhh, but not girls like me. I fuck whoever I want, say whatever the hell I want to whoever I want outside of work, and have officially earned the right to tell society to suck my dick. Insult me all you want to, you jealous cunt bitch, because you'll never be me.

[SheDoc420]

Oh, and fuck you. Royally. Now go out and get laid.

[Waited]

@SheDoc420 Wow

[ap1100]

You don't need to worry about being offensive to anybody. If someone takes offense, that's on them, not you. You don't have to live your life to please anybody.

I think you're basically on the right track. The only place I want to use that language is in bed, and even there, the "C" word still seems too degrading to me to use, even as a body part.

There is a thing as being too pure and clean, but that's really an overall lifestyle choice, not just language. Just don't turn into Bree Hodge. Personally, I think it's possible for smart, educated people to swear, and many do, but people who use a lot of swearing tend to be less educated. I swear, as well, but I think in a relationship, there's a certain respect that's classy.

[Oliviawinters]

I don't think there's anything special about girls who do or don't swear. They're just words - who made them into 'swearing' anyway x

[stillagoodgirl]

Guys don't find it as long as it's not your main vocabulary

[Mesonfielde]

I'd say the language you use defines what person you are.

...And saving yourself for marriage is something I really would want to know how it's rational, considering marriage is merely a piece of paper given to you by the government. That's nothing emotional. That's a materialized pact of emotions that are already there. But it's also an obligation, it's a custom, and it costs money. But what matters in a relationship is the emotional aspect and not that "woo we are married now we can have all the sex we want", or am I wrong? (of course, people value sex more at the beginning of a marriage because it is something they wanted but couldn't get.)

[misterbill71]

I don't think that girls who swear are "hotter" than girls who don't, but I also don't think there's anything special about girls who don't swear. Some guys might find it weird that you don't swear, then again some might find it cute and attractive. It depends on the guy really. Just be yourself and stay true to who you want to be.

[kriskiss]

Gils who swear a lot can be very sexy but only if I find their looks sexy and want to have sex with them. But if they are not hot then I don't think swearing is sexy. Because I wonder if they swear a lot and talk dirty during sex which can be very hot but only if the girl is hot herself.

[Anonymous]

I flirt with a girl who dose not usally swear unless she is really pissed. If I am teasing her it comes in hand then too because she swears when she has nothing else to say. It also lets me know that is about as far as I can go with that joke before she actually gets mad at me.

[Bricealan]

I agree, and I TRY not to be a dirty mouth around others as it does sound trashy and low brow.

[Billlewis]

I absolutely love women who swear, curse and use foul language!

[snackeyg]

Netural. Anti swearing is the only turn off.

[Anonymous]

Just stay the way you are... You are great..