Guys, how would you respond / feel if when your daughter came to your job and some guys cat-called and whistled, and some guys were hugging her?

[InYourHead]

Sometimes when I go to my dad's shop the guys there holla at me. Some always hug me when they say hi and tell me they miss me.

[jshm2]

Well... hug them back and throw your head back and striaight into his nose. Then raise your knee into his crotch when he raises his hands to his face.

You want the geezer to stop, or not? If you dont fight for your body. Why should anyone else bother?

[HighValue]

They don't respect your father and think of him as a weak man that won't do anything about it.

If I had a daughter and that happened they would be getting their asses beat. Anybody that knows me doesn't dare disrespect me IRL though so I never have those problems.

[kmg9150]

I agree 💯 on no respect to her Dad, shits gunna happen, but thats not the place. Also with not allowing oneself to be disrepected. But letting someone control your emotional state to the point of violence is disrespect to within ourselves for allowing that happen? So what happens if you end up in jail for a few years because of it?

[DizzyDesii]

Hopefully the dads would react like a mom would. My mom used to be like “Uh uh! Jail bait! y'all got the wrong one today” 🤣

[DizzyDesii]

Im shocked the guys are more mad about the catcalling then the hugs. Nahh, people always say you can look but dont touch lol

[Gwenhwyfar]

Most guys would be pissed at the catcalling and whistling. Not sure about the hugging. Is she 18?

[Achilles8827]

I would say something like,"Chill out with that man, thats my daughter." I wouldn't let her visit me if it was persistent either or I'd end up fighting. Being a hottie though your fucked either way because high end girls who have that look and a blonde get approached very often. I'm sure your personality wouldn't help the situation either 😂

[hahahmm]

Cat calls are fine. As long as there's no disrespectful language involved. If you mean a respectful hug like one would hug their own sister that's fine. If you mean something sexually suggestive or creepy then he would get both of his hands broken.

[SmokyOne]

I'd be pissed about the cat calling. As far as the hugging and stuff goes it'd depend on what the relationship is with them. Are they like family or are they barely known to your family?

[InYourHead]

Bit of both I guess... depends on the guy

[SmokyOne]

Well if the acquaintances are overly friendly that's not ok but the ones that are like family, as long as you're comfortable and they aren't being creeps then I see no problem there

[UdontNeedtoknow]

I guess it depends on who it is and how i felt about them. The catcalling i would stop. I would not like it and stop it after i talked with you if i was your father. However if you liked on of the workers (he is fired now) or you didn't mind. Then i would maybe not make a big deal out of it.

[Lonewulf57]

I don't have a daughter, so I can only use a sister as a guide. I'd either glower, or tell them to get their #^&#@ing paws off, or else...

I'm not a fan of public displays of affection, so this shouldn't be that surprising

[1988fido]

simple i call the guys (my gang/friends) and we go say hi to them in our own old fashion way which means we beat the shit out of these assholes

[Guy13]

Go with the guy who asks you if you know how to curtesy while hugging. Perhaps, you work out Deal with Dad…every hug or call is an hours wage per. Sorta like a Valentines kissing booth. Pay to play…

[ChiTown33]

That actually happened to me with my niece. A guy I worked with commented on how hot this girl was that came in. He was very explicit. Then I looked and said " oh, that's my neice"... dead silence. 🤣

[HighlyVolatile]

Hugging might be okay. Don't catcall my daughter! That's my daughter you're yelling at. Have some respect.

[HighlyVolatile]

Let's get into a fight!

[HighlyVolatile]

I'll probably embarrass the hell out of such a daughter. I want to be a good dad and let her live her own life but I'm not down to ignore people hooting and hollering at her when I'm around.

[AviatorTom]

Unless they do something sexual, sounds like they're just being friendly. The catcalls may be their way of egging on your dad.

[jamesgoldman]

Depends on the relationship

If they aren't that well known they get sacked but if they are like family in might be different depending on her feelings

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I would just think guys like younger legal age women/ girls, that is why they do those things happens

[Rambling010]

Id be cool since Id be the one cat calling. Well not really. I've never done that. But it is fun to pretend I would.

[Staximus]

The cat calling and whistling would piss me off. The hugging I would not mind if she had known them for a while like friends of the family.

[Amur8711]

I'd confront them over the cat calling and just keep a watchful eye on her in general. Hopefully I have taught here to take care of herself if she is uncomfortable.

[nawtee_me]

I would probably be a little upset about it but I would also let you make that call. If you did not mind then I would put up with it, somewhat…

[Hellraiser1984]

If she's 18. Id tell them to shut up. If she's 12 is kick their ass.

[AndrésC64]

I'd tell them to knock it off because you are too young and they aren't good enough.

[Likes2drive]

I already know why they are trying to hug you and I would be really pissed off actually

[pizzalovershouse]

This real common i would say it's my daughter knock it off do this out eide of work

[driven159]

if the hugs are for real not sexual hugs but cat calls are not good put people can do so much

[Honestguyopen]

As long as they treated her respectfully and she was comfortable I would be ok

[Waldoe]

She is old enough to take care of herself, I would not interfer unless she needed me to

[fred_durst]

well i am infertile so there is no way i would have that problem

[B4852]

I'd be upset with the cat calling, and I'd be keeping an eye on the guys hugging her.

[shortster]

Cat calling would be a fire able offense. If you feel comfortable hugging someone that is up to you.

[Michael82]

I don't have any kids but if I did and my daughter was at work and saw it I'll be careful and see how far it would take before I intervined

[lycanthrope3]

mixed feelings, i would know they think she is hot making me proud, but still being y daughter i would be protective.

[Bklynbadboy12]

That all depends! Do you know these guys well enough to hug you? What type of hugs do they give you?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Does your dad get upset when they hug you and tell you things like that

[Jay3344]

I’d reprimand them and probably have a few words with them. It would be highly inappropriate and I would consider it an insult if done in my presence.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

[Paul09]

Could if because of your giant fake breasts that you spent tons on? I'd be pisses just there. I'd call out those guys to not do that.

[neoagent1]

You should stop ripping off the instagram pictures of that model and claiming they are you.

[VikingWarLord]

Maybe they really do miss ye

[anylolone]

Depends on her and their age.

[Rambling010]

Yea. I only cat call high school girls. It just sucks because sometimes they're friends with my daughter. Sorry bad joke

[Rambling010]

My daughter would be out of high school by now. That's scary. Almost had a kid when I was 22 or 23. I didn't want to have an abortion. I wanted her to keep it. But I was afraid to tell her because I wanted her to like me. I was in love like a fool

[anylolone]

@Rambling010 Happens. But out of highschool is when fucks about this start to miss from me.
I know how much of a fool I was, and how much of a fool my coworkers and clients are.

But with out of highschool I'd still have complaints over possible fallbacks.
When shit inevitably goes wrong, who do they think everyone is gonna side with, knowing full well there won't be an escape from conflict because they just brought it to work?

Regardless of that, it's simp behavior.

[MrTaboo]

That'd be weird. I work from home.

[Naughtyboy71]

If my daughter they wood be hunting a job

[AvaOneLasTime]

At this point, i suspect this is a fake account.

[gangs_and_guns]

Did u see something in pic?

[AvaOneLasTime]

@gangs_and_guns
A lot of things actually.
And not just this pic. The biggest giveaway is the Background picture on the profile.

[gangs_and_guns]

Yeah u are right. And there is a bmack thing en pic 😅

[whosnumber1]

are you sure that's not just a toothbrush? at least it wasn't a selfie with a toilet in the background and a turd in it.

[soe11]

What kind of shop?
Depending on what he sells.

[InYourHead]

It's a machine shop. He doesn't own it, he works there.

[soe11]

My honest advice should not go there anymore, some are below the belt morality and modesty.
If you felt my advice harshest than my apologies.

[Jouth]

well is the daughter hot?

[crmoore]

Pissed.

[rocket3]

I invited you for a poll question.

[Luckycharms12]

Wouldn't have a job