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I’ve known this girl for 5-6 months through work. She mentioned she was planning to quit which she already has done. I was going to work with her but I think she officially left the job for something else. I didn’t get a chance to ask her for number or social media. I was cool with her. But I know some people say people you work with aren’t really your friends. But like I said, her and I chatted at work — civil and friendly.
I wanted to wish her well and ask her to keep in touch. Some guys at work know her social media so if I randomly DM her and say hey how’s it going, good luck with everything and if you want to drop a message feel free to. Is that ok? Or should I just forget it and leave it alone?
What Girls Said
Well, I know if I liked a guy at work I would absolutely have just given him a way to reach me, so if other guys have her social media, and you don’t… she’s just not that into you! Im sorry, but she OBVIOUSLY gave her SM to SOME guys at work, so why not you? Think about it. You should leave well enough alone. I know if a guy I worked with whom I KNOW I didn’t give him my social media, suddenly contacted me… I’d be a little freaked out like he was stalking me! There will be other girls, maybe ask THEM for THEIR SM before they quit?
She gave them one guy her ig because they asked. I haven’t seen her at work for over a month actually. When she saw me she said omg i haven't seen you in a long time how are you. I’m not pursuing her like that. It’s not about not being into me. I know how y’all girls operate and think…You dont or won't automatically like a dude unless he’s some Chris hemsworth looking guy (ie: super handsome) or she's someone she clicked with often. However, she only worked a few times a wk.
I’m not pursuing her in a sexual way. It’s ok to be friends with someone, i know thats odd for a female to read this and believe it since a lot of girls on gag say most guys have bad intentions. I just enjoyed convos with her about life and religion when i did work with her, that’s why.
I’m sorry but I think y’all girls over think things. I can understand if its a random guy doing that but if its someone you went to school with or worked with, it shouldn’t be a big deal especially if you found that person, funny, mature, civil and down to earth. If a girl i worked with or went to school with hit me up…Im perfectly okay with it, I wouldn't freak out. World War 3 and a Great Depression is something to freak out about. Not a male colleague DM-ing you saying like good luck with things and blah blah blah. That’s my own 2 cents.
That’s the whole reason why Facebook was created because people connected essentially with people of their schools (universities) back in 2004 or 2005. Eventually people connecting with people from their past even from elementary school that they haven’t seen in 20, 30 years
Okay WE overthink things? You gave me FOUR answers to a simple she’s not romantically into you based on the info you gave! And if you are not into her romantically, why on EARTH would you be offended enough to post FOUR answers?
Also… Facebook was invented at Harvard and was called THE Face Book. It was designed for guys who saw a girl they liked but didn’t know her name to look through The Face Book, to see if he recognized her. If he did, he would get her name and her major to help him find her. It was not until a business major realized the potential that he partnered with Zuckerberg and secured the financial backing that it became the FaceBook we know today. But make NO mistake it was most definitely a “getting laid” website, long before it was the place my grandma shares recipes with her Mahjong yentas.
I just said I am not pursuing her in a sexual/romantic way, didn't you read that? Your comment is pointless. To prove you are wrong, I finished my shift, a guy I know told me she's cool with me contacting her, so there you go. Just goes to show, girls just constantly be negative on this site.