How would you interpret his behavior ?
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It seems so. You are either going to have to wait and see OR be a little forward, perhaps ask to meet him on a Saturday at a museum, something that allows it to be casual, but also a way out if nothing comes of it. Meaning that if it turns out to be a day at the museum, you can tell him thanks for coming with you and it was great to catch up like we used to. Then the friendship is not worse for wear. If more happens, well good for you!
Hi thanks for your reply. We have never met up outside work and I don't think it will happen unless he sticks to his promise to take me out for dinner. But he is so busy and has to travel so I'm not even sure whether he will remember. We are not close enough friends to just hang out. I just can't help to feel he likes me more than just finds me attractive. And I have been thinking more about him lately and trying to catch him whenever I can. I actually miss him.
I agree he knows... But it sounds like you're going to let him take the initiative - or not. So...just be patient. Nothing else you can do really? I hope it works out!
So if he knows and he doesn't like me back will he be likely avoiding me in the near future? How can I make it less awkward and let him know its OK he doesn't have to like me back and we just stay the same. I would not want to lose him as a friend as well.
It sounds that you are both adults. Why can't you just say " I value ourfriendship, but I would like to get to know you better." or something like that..unless you tell him you want to have his babies or something, I am sure your friendship will survive no matter what happens. I mean I am assuming he is mature and kind.
Babies?! Lol I really don't think I can make a first move... Yes he is a very kind person, in fact it's his kind eyes that first attracted me. The kindest eyes I ever saw.
Lol... Well if you can't make the first move,then be patient. That's all you can do. You are cracking me up!
Hahaha! I'm not sure why but I take it as a compliment! :-) I'm glad I made you lol !
Because you are like...
I really like this guy... I think he is in too me..but I can't tell. And if he is,he's too slow. BUT I can't and won't do anything about it!
So it seems you're stuck..but it's cute and sweet. At least from where I a sitting. :-)
Haha! Yeah I'm pretty useless like that! And patience is not my strength either. But neither am I that direct.
It sounds like, while he may feel attracted to you, e won't purusue a relationship with a work colleague, and this is of course wise. Stay with your warm friendship; if one of you leaves, then it will be time to define what your relatonship may be becoming.
That really doesn't sound easy! I'd actually understand the work situation we are in. . I just keep wondering whether the chemistry is just in my head. .. Do men sense whether a girl likes them more than just that? Is it possible to let him know without being blatantly obvious about it? But I wouldn't want to scare him off either. I just feel like I like to let him know subtly.
Oh, he's aware of your feelings, he just doesn't want to get the gossip mill started at work.
Is it so obvious that I like him based on the way I described the situation? :-) what makes you think he knows? How do I know he is reciprocating my feelings or not? Or he is just being a nice guy?
Oh, come now, stroking your arm, looking into your eyes? So obvious, but subtle and not going to attract attention and gossip at work.
You can be assured he returns your affection. But he won't show it openly with a work colleague.
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