? Do men who beat women have self-confidence issues? ?

[SecretGardenBlood65]

Do men who beat women have self-confidence issues? Does he want to have authority over her by beating her? Does this behavior exist only in Turkish men? Are there any loser men in your culture who behave this way?

[Mahito]

I've heard somethings about Turkish men on here from some girl who was 16. She asked something about American and how she wants to go there. I mentioned I was American. She asked me what kind of jobs for college students and stuff. I told her about American and answer her question. It was hard to understand her English, but she said something like “if you were Turkish guy I wouldn’t be talking to you” or something like that. She seem kind so I don’t understand what was going on. You mentioned something like that too. I don’t know what is going, but here a lot of guys can be jerks, but still care for their family and love their family. They can have an attitude or short temper, but still care for their loved ones. Yes there are abusive men, but they are mostly psychopaths with apathy and no emotions. Someone with apathy is like a woman who’s a “gold digger”, they just want a guy for money and that’s it no feelings for him or nothing just want his money. A woman with empathy will yes want money, but it’s because she wants to raise her children in a safe stable environment or facilitate the happiness in the relationship. They understand money doesn’t buy happiness but it can facilitate happiness. No is happy homeless. So yes some women want money, but it’s for a good reason. Not because she’s materialistic, but because she wants her and her family to be safe. A woman who wants money and that’s it has no emotional core and here motives are very simple. It’s the emotional core that makes her so much more complex than “she just wants money”, she loves her man but wants them to be safe together. Same thing with a guy who just wants sex and that’s it. Usually the one who beats is a psychopath, he’s jealous or paranoid. It’s mostly mental illness or drugs. I’m not sure what’s going in Turkey, but that guy on your other post seems like he might have mental illness I don’t know. so I can’t say for sure. Any guy that abuses women are losers to me. Especially the ones who physically abuse women. I’m sure it’s probably the same everywhere a man can be abusive. Guys will do it here because they were reject a psychopath, drugs, etc. some guys can’t handle rejection and I think it’s because most people grow up with the smart phone and social media. I was lucky to grow up before the age of the smart phone. Back the I understood your personality, being authentic and being genuine was very important. Back in high school it would be you just learn to play guitar and people will want to be your friend. But now for young people it’s you play the guitar and you have 1000 followers on TikTok. I see a lot of young people are more prone to mental illness because of false beliefs and expectations. Like I remember some article about some girl who got her rib cage removed for TikTok followers. I can go on forever, but I’ve wrote enough I know made a ton of grammatical errors but I'm lazy to go back and fix it. You know me🤪🤣😜

[Anonymous]

Men AND women can be abusive. With women it is usually, but not always a form of emotional abuse through gossip, innuendo, bullying and/or reputation destruction.
Also, yes, these are weak people lacking in self confidence and they are everywhere.

[alice55]

It's more self control issue than self confidence I think

[Playboy2424]

Real men never beat woman. 😘
Never ever means never 😘