What is your opinion on men who beat woman?

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Purplemonkey242 · Accepted Answer

Disgusting. I had a friend. I met her husband before I met her. I became friends with them both and he almost beat her to death. I saved her life by taking her to the hospital. She lost so much blood she passed out. He broke her nose, the bone under her eye and fractured her jaw. She later told me he punches her in the ribs during sex, chokes her till the verge of passing out and slaps her in the face until she cries. Forced her to fuck other men while he watched or listened on the phone.. My heart broke for her and im so glad I talked her into divorce. He hits on me now and the thought literally makes me sick. I've seen a lot of men beat their women down until they couldn't move. As a child i was walking around town and i walked up to a man beating this girl, she lost consciousness and he was still hitting her. The puddle of blood was very alarming. His white tank top was covered in blood and soaking wet. I threw myself on top of her he punched the back of my head. I screamed, he got in his car and left. I waited minutes to make sure he didn't come back.. i tried to carry her to houses and beg someone to call the cops but i wasn't strong enough. I left her and beat on every door i could find until an old lady called the cops.. the lady followed me to the girls body. She was still out cold. We waited till the police got there. I didn't know the guy or the girl I just didn't want her to die in an ally by someone she thought loved her. I want to be loved not beaten. I was covered in the girls blood when I got home. My mom thought someone died or something bad happened to me. Runined my clothes, to this day I dont know if she made it or not..

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

I once had a step father who would be so cruel to my mom. He would get drunk and physically abuse her. I was only 14 at the time. I remember standing in between them and dating him to hit me instead, but he didn't. So, almost every Friday night we would call the police on him, they'd take him to jail, by Saturday he was out again. It got to be pretty routine. I felt so sorry for my mom.

Diodoro · Accepted Answer

99% scumbags
1% justifiable

If a guy just beats women as a matter of who he is, yea he is a scumbag.

If a guy punches a girl in the face who got mad and pulls a knife on him I'd say he's justified. If a woman runs up and harms your child. Yea. Punching her in her stupid face is justified.

Is that an extreme circumstance? Absolutely. But the distinction needs to be present between "beating women" and self defense/mutual combat. If a girl is Literally running up on a guy and throwing punches. If the man chooses to punch her one time to stop the conflict I can't be too mad.

Now I wouldn't do that. In my book you should be able to manhandle a woman and subdue her. Which I've had to do before. That said. Not every guy is always large enough or strong enough to do that and it's fair to say a man shouldn't HAVE TO do that or run away because it's a woman committing physical violence.

Like I've literally seen girls throw multiple punches on guys before, feeling completely safe in doing so that she wouldn't get hit back. Girls like that need real repercussions of some kind.

If it's getting punched by the guy. Hey, not my style. But I'm also not gonna tell the police it's assault. Self defense. She needs to calm down

Joeshamo · Accepted Answer

I think a lot of guys try to be the hero too much & try to stop the guy who is beating his girlfriend. I remember I was reading an article about a guy beating his girl & some guy tried to protect her & the boyfriend threw the guy trying to protect her off the bridge. When they took her abusive boyfriend to court she defended her boyfriend & he got off scot free. Guys need to stop trying to be the hero because the boyfriend is probably crazy will kill you & the girlfriend is not going to want to have sex with you or be your girlfriend if you do that. I get it's hard to watch, but the girl doesn't about you, so why risk jail time or your life for her & she just stabs you in the back. Just call the cops and let them handle it. It's not worth throwing away your life for someone who's not going to care about you. I'm just assuming these guys are expecting the girl to see him as a good man give him sex or something. But i don't know. For me, if I don't know her, I just call the cops & that's the cops problem. If it's family or friends then it's a different story.

ZackBan · Answer

I think it's safe to say everyone is at an agreement on them being assholes and you can add me to that list.

But I do want to put out there that violent tendencies are not that easy to hide for most men. So there's something to be said about a woman who probably knew the man she's dating was no good yet she went ahead and married him anyway. This is not to say he's not the one at fault but to say that women should know how to pick and never put up with anyone beating them no matter the reason. (Same goes the other way around)

qwert1234 · Answer

They are an asshole and needed to be put to jail.
But - let's also look at the trigger points on why it happened.
I don't condone violence, for me, if you used one other than self defense, you already lost.

But like I said, it's only fair to look at the trigger. Did the woman nag for an eternity? Did the woman cheat? Did the woman threaten the man in any way? Does the man have a history or is it an isolated case?

Remember, everyone has a snapping point - some shorter than others.

jshm2 · Answer

Both just won't listen!

Joking aside, no one justifies domestic abuse. But it's a fine line between interfering in another's personal matters and potentially adding to it.

But I'm always recalled to Tina Turner and Billie Holiday and others who had abusive partners. When they are asked why they persevered. It's always "what right have you to interfere in what I do?"

Thus it's right that the law and friends stand ready to prosecute. But only when the victim is right and ready to.

mk200195 · Answer

No, just no. There is however one exceptional circumstance where I thinking hitting a woman is warranted, that is if she hits you first and you are defending yourself. That's it, no other reason is adequate. I think its dishonourable, disgraceful, shameful and if any guy did that in front of me again I would gladly give him a severe kick in.

Lionman95 · Answer

I think that these guys never learned to solve an argument. They are overwhelmed with the stress and some kind of responsibility that they look for a way to let that out.
It´s unquestionable that it´s the wrong way because they destroy more that way and actually helping themselves and others.

pass_the_celery98 · Answer

Anyone who abuses anyone whether it's physical or verbal is wrong regardless. I know guys who suffered broken bones playing sports but deeply wounded by what vulgar comments said by a girl or woman. I know someone may read this and think that guy is a pussy for being verbally abused. But eh, should I say a person who doesn't drink or do drugs and copes with life in a clean way is stronger mentally then someone who uses those outlets to cope with life as weaker? It's all about perception.

AviatorTom · Answer

The women should be protected from them... separated as far as possible, and the men prosecuted to the full extent of the law.

I know several women who say a man who beats women should be castrated... they're not kidding.

AmandaYVR · Answer

They're scum.
There needs to be repercussions for their behaviour, it can't be allowed.
Why?

And all men should not be lumped into this class of scum. The majority of men have disdain for these types.

jasco · Answer

As in like wife beaters or men who defend themselves against women? trans women beating a biological women? As for wife beaters, they suck. men who defend themselves against a husband beater are good. Tran's women beating biological women is fair game depending on who you ask

SnakeBoop · Answer

Anyone putting their hands to hurt anyone else is a piece of shit. what genitals they have is of no relevance.

MJtheCoach · Answer

First you have to see the reason why?
No money man don’t beat someone without a cause there’s some sort of escalation plus feminism told us that they want a quality so tough here’s a quality enjoy it.

However if someone is a sociopath the beat some of all the cause that needs to get their ass beaten.

I’ll hit a girl if she hits me.
But I would give them a lot of steps.. options to not let it get there.

Equality. Fk them!

notwoke · Answer

It would be misogynistic to imply that women are not as tough as men and need saving. You are holding women back by keeping this outdated stereotype alive. Women are equal they don't need men's help and they are just as tough as men so they can fend for themselves. I used to be chivalrous but no more, feminism opened my eyes

Mossberg500 · Answer

Extremely negative, and yet I'm dealing with a womanizer who is 'sort of' a friend cause I need his help with something even though I despise what he stands for, and I certainly hope he doesn't pull his drunktard shit around me cause ill have to put him down.

InferiorElegy · Answer

I don't condone violence of any kind to anyone but these days I have less interest, there's just too many variables these days. Is he just a wife beater, is she the abusive one and he finally had enough and fought back, what harsh or harrassing thing did she do to cause him to hit her. These are things to ponder these days because these days, victims aren't always victims and there's always different sides to a story. In the end though I still don't condone violence done to anyone.

ImOnlyMee · Answer

Same opinion I have about women who abuse and hit the men they are dating or married to they are low life pos who don’t deserve to breathe

Lliam · Answer

They should be beaten severely (broken bones) until they scream, blubber, and beg for mercy. Then call them a bitch and tell them that if they ever lift a hand to a woman again, they'll wish they hadn't.

Phoenix98 · Answer

The same as my opinion regarding women that beat men.  You shouldn't beat anyone undeserving of it or without proper cause. Abuse is abuse and it's wrong and fucked up regardless of gender, race, etc.

Flower7 · Answer

The part I don’t understand is why the women stay with them.

MrCommodore · Answer

I really dislike men who beat up women, it's horrendous abuse usually over many years, no human deserves to be treated that way in their home.

patrick677 · Answer

Probably when your mother and father spoil a guy like crazy, they become like this a lot.
If he dont respect his mother than you be sur never he will respect you.

And i am wondering sometimes why women so stupid to take such guys 🤣😆

HighValue · Answer

It depends. If she was a feminist then she likely deserved it. Same goes for the "men" that are feminists.

Cherry234 · Answer

They're revolting. It makes me sick to look at them.

BCA6010 · Answer

I don't have any respect for them, or the women who actually want it.

exitseven · Answer

total assholes. They are cowards. I bet they would not pick on somebody who would fight back.

harvest · Answer

Scumbags who probably never had a good father in their home...

Apulu_3 · Answer

Same as the women who beat men. They are getting their karma at the end.

snackthatsmilesback · Answer

Same as women who beat men. They're way too emotional and can't even handle themself. They need to get checked fr.

Starla1234 · Answer

🤮🤮🤮🤮 if you can even call the women beaters real men.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

My opinion is they deserve street justice that is illegal in North America

rod23 · Answer

Are you kidding me, they should be put away for life, like that moron that ran people over in the parade, I hope your not being abused if you are get out now

Agape93 · Answer

They're pieces of shit who deserve to be fed their own teeth.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

They should be brought into the town square and have the same done to them publicly.

normalice · Answer

They don't know how to talk or they don't know how to think.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

All spousal or gender based violence is contemptible, and so, too, those who engage in it.

MrHopper · Answer

Same as any one who requires other things to make them feel a "man" ... pathetic

noohair · Answer

My father taught me at age 6 or 7 that boys can't hit girls. I believe that applies to men and women too.

genericname85 · Answer

I don't have a particular opinion about men that beat women. I think gender has nothing to do with it. People should not beat people.

WowwGirl · Answer

They shouldn't be surprised when one like me shoots them or picks up a weapon. Where I live they are guaranteed a ass beating in jail at the least

douride2 · Answer

Only need one word to describe those types. "LOSERS"

madgoat · Answer

I assume you mean physical abuse here. She's unlikely to beat me at gran turismo.

Ginchygoo · Answer

It's about the lowest form of human life. It's one of the reasons I hope karmic retribution is really a thing. And the payback should be 10 fold.

Wiredone · Answer

Guys who beat women should have their asses kicked. They are not men, they are cowards. No guy should ever hit a woman or child

jamesgoldman · Answer

They relationship with their teeth must be bad because they left with my boot

ChiTown33 · Answer

"You can't beat a b**** with a belt. They like that s***" -Pootie Tang

WhyteNiqqa · Answer

Don't really care. Jus aslong as I don't see it it doesn't bother me

HooliganMcCooligan · Answer

Well what'd she do? Because if she's causing trouble for people then she's gonna catch the 2 piece special.

TallAnon · Answer

Depends. A man shouldn't punch a woman, hell, a man shouldn't punch a man. However, did she punch first? If so, I call that equality.

Fuentes · Answer

They're demented strange creepy weirdos who don't respect themselves or feel in control of anything but beating on the easy and weak

EaterPeter · Answer

Wife beater, deserves jail time and same treatment in jail at least for once to know what it's like to be on the other end.

Still-alive · Answer

Umm are you expecting any answer other than “its bad” here?

Surely · Answer

Bring back public whipping in the town square. Let each abused woman take a swing at him!

whosnumber1 · Answer

loosers. absolute loosers. they should wake up with their nuts stapled to a board

Chthou95 · Answer

Beating up someone for no reason is stupid af. Regardless if they're male or female

TsAubreyKate · Answer

Men beat women all the time women suck at sports , video games and running for president 💯

JessieBellll · Answer

They can be assholes or doing the right thing. It really depends

anylolone · Answer

Same as on women who beat men, or anyone else who initiates aggression. Bad

Grubhub · Answer

Nothing wrong with men who beat women. Some women love big c0cks. Some love to get dominated in bed

chapman876 · Answer

I hate such acts okay , i don't like it , but however regarding in this case women who beats their man?

Zygum · Answer

Don't worry, I will not best such beautiful girl like, as I am deadly against beating women

Fireguy17 · Answer

Lock them away forever.

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