Why women are so confident when they hit or slap a man, acting like he will never hit them back?

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[HollyK21]

Outdated stigmas, those women have been assured at one point or another in their lives that a man wouldn’t or shouldn’t hit a woman under any circumstances. In most cases, those particular women have already done that (or are repeatedly doing it, because men can face abuse too) to a guy and he didn’t do anything back, so she thinks it’s ok. My mindset is that no one should put their hands on anyone else unless it’s in self defense, regardless of their gender.

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That is a very honest answer.. Thank you... i am following you 😀

[Nikki1989]

Damn, what kind of people do you know?

I have never hit anyone, and I have never met or known any woman that has hit a man. I have met and known many abusive males, however.

I suspect you are talking out of your ass as usual.

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"As usual" ? Do you even know me?

[Light_beam]

@Nikki1989 ?

[aaron13547]

Ethics. Everyone thinks they are the good guy or good girl. The road to hell is paved with good intentions...

She lashes out because she felt pain or anger or whatever and thats how it manifest. She is wrong for it, but confident the man won't hit back cause then he would be wrong to. Ethics.

What your talking about is really taking advantage of Ethics in a bad way. Its hard for both sides to heal this pain, or even understand it.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Chivalry by most men, but some dudes would beat their a** to a pulp.

[itsannalee]

I never did that, never slapped anyone. Even when i caught my ex cheated on me, i just walked away. And made him list his job and everything. I don’t hurt people physically.

[Light_beam]

Wow, i wouldn't cheat on you!

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Because most won’t, and the ones that do were likely already hitting them prior to her fighting back, statistically speaking

[Light_beam]

i have seen a lot of girls start hitting men first.. even in movies

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I wouldn’t trust fiction to be an accurate depiction of reality. If you believe the men being hit are also being abused, you’re welcome to act and help them

[Light_beam]

I have seen it a lot in real life..

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

So do something about it

[Light_beam]

The man can defend himself.. i am asking about the girl

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

That’s not how abuse works, smart guy. If she’s hitting him and he’s not hitting back, it means he can’t defend himself

[Light_beam]

Really? what about the fact that it is not accepted that a man hits a woman EVEN if she hit him first..

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If it’s an abusive relationship, that means she has manipulated him mentally to where he feels powerless and can only rely on her, meaning she can hit him however much she wants and he feels like he deserves it. This is, objectively, a bad thing and why a lot of abusive women are able to get away with it moreso than abusive men.

[laraWM]

Who hits people? I've never done it

[Light_beam]

a lot of women do that to men.. very confidently..