Why do I feel like girls who chase men are pathetic?

[Anonymous]

I did that before. Sadly.
So im not judging.
But now i see these girls stories about how they flew here and there or paid for men or did this and that, depserate for love. Even begged him to love them. Lol. Im just so over this bullcrap. Just so pathetic.

[Anonymous]

It is sad
But encourage them to overcome the phase or pattern rather than label

Cause I also feel that way. Once you are no longer doing that it’s hard to relate or empathize with those who do

But I do feel sad cause I know they have to be the one to realize and put a stop to that pattern and it’s not easy
Sometimes it takes a few years till you find the tools that work for you

[Asker]

Yeah... But internally im just like UGH im so over this b. s. lol... I realize due to culture, lack of parenting and guidance, many women act like that. Its just tiring after a while to see it. Lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah🤗

[Asker]

Just lets be glad we aren't that desperate anymore fr now :)

[driven159]

There are so many scammers it is not funny and that is both men and women do it just wrecks dating sites

[driven159]

if people would use their heads and never send money to someone, they never seen in person there would be no scammers, but people are dumb and gullible and think with their heart and not their brain