Why do girls chase guys who are not interested?

[Anonymous]

[btbc92]

That is because the guys that are not interested tend to be the most authentic period they're not flirting, they don't harass you, they can talk to you like the normal person. Something that most women nowadays would appreciate because it lets us know that he's not effect person and he's real with his feelings period the problem is that sometimes depending on who the person is comma he may be no different than the guys that is chasing after her period meaning the players, the pimps, the whoremongers, etc. Basically any guy that is so quick to want to be in a woman's panties. Even the ones that pretend to be very kind or nice, the agenda is still the same. What a person who is not interested, there's no actual telling if he really is a isn't because he may not have to act or be interested for say. But that doesn't mean he isn't open to as a relationship unless he strictly tells the woman that he isn't.

If you're talkin about the overall aspect of things, it's pretty much no different when a man harasses a woman for a relationship. It's just in reverse. The things that men do, women do the same as well. For authentic people, we just don't want to be harassed. I have rules and standards like everybody else have rules and standards parrot but for the most part, is basically the woman seeing that he is:

1. a man that already checked off everything that she wants
2. He has all the physical and personality attributes that she desires. It's just the attitude that you want so she may try to play matyr and try to change the guy. ( which is a really bad idea)
3. She's that desperate for him because he's the only one that's not chasing after her like the other guys trying to go after her. In other words the other guys definitely chasing after her is turning her off.
4. If they are familiar with each other, be it if they've been friends, or been involved in the past, it has a lot to do with familiarity.
5. If he is a stranger, and a complete stranger at that. Then again is no different than how men to to approach women. It's the cold approach. The difference is that for a woman, her chances of a guy saying yes maybe slightly more higher than the consensus of a man who cold approaches a woman who can even say nothing. Unless he has strong morals, the chances of a guy saying yes especially if there's no other woman that catches his attention is twice as likely to at least a date even if it doesn't lead to a relationship. But if it doesn't end up becoming a friends-with-benefits situation or one night stand, better chances of a relationship is still slightly higher.

[iWantToCry]

Do you talk into your phone

[btbc92]

@iWantToCry From time to time, when I have a hard time when I need to.

[FlutteringFeelings]

Pride and not wanting to accept rejection. Majority of women carry the mentality that a guy has to want her and she’s every man’s cup of tea. When the reality is the man she wants doesn’t want her in return she attempts to win him over by proving herself. She’ll text back instantly, initiate phone calls/texts, hint if the guy is going to take her out, and basically try to win the guys heart.


I have a preference but I won’t chase the guy. I like to sit back and watch to see who comes along. So far, I’ve came across a variety of guys who I would classify as the type of guys I would and wouldn’t go for.

[silkjames]

Because she a fatal attraction lol it can be for any reason maybe she a home wrecker lol or the man making her prove herself to prove she a changed woman lol or there actually a man that's not attracted to her and she always gets what she wants lol 😂 man and woman are really no different woman thinks all man are pigs and man think all woman are I'm not going to even say it nope😂😂 but I'm just saying not everything is one way sometimes people can be surprised:)

[Vikkrram]

This is a myth let me tell you... Makin chase each other after certain time will create hate , disrespect for each other and after some time definitely there would be a bittreness in their behaviour. I can bet that.

[Browneye57]

It's a challenge. A rejection is a direct insult to her sexual attraction, and they are extremely competitive about men and dating.
You should see what they do for 'pre-selection' - the guys already married.
Single = crickets
Married = they'll seduce them just to see if they can get a rise out of him.

[NicoletteXO]

I think a lot of it is simply lack of awareness.

Some believe that because they would like a man to pursue them, that a man would appreciate the same from them.

They misunderstand the polarity of masculine/feminine dynamics, and do not realize that chasing men is the fastest way to kill attraction.

[Xoxocutekitty]

Because girls like something about the guy as an individual. Most people don't actually like the chase. Most people only engage in the chase when they see something, some quality, maybe he's got a temper but is otherwise kind and generous.

Women often chase guys who show emotional vulnerability. Emotional distress can be a window into vulnerability, and sometimes it's easy to confuse the two (hence classic white knight syndrome).

[Puppystarfish23]

Old me used to do this all the time before I met my boyfriend. I loved men who treated me like I was invisible, it just made me want to try harder for them to just notice me. I learnt the hard way and got my hurt broken but it taught me a valuable lesson but about one sided relationships. If a man isn't doing everything he can to be with you he's not worth your time.

[Puppystarfish23]

I think it's because I used to be extremely competitive and I wanted everyone to like me and I couldn't understand why the one guy I did like wasn't interested in me romantically

[iWantToCry]

You must not realize how nasty this reads

[Puppystarfish23]

@iWantToCry I said old me for a reason

[Puppystarfish23]

@iWantToCry plus whats so nasty. The only person I hurt was myself no one else?

[Exterminatore]

Why do guys chase girls period.


My old man used to say before he left this s*itty world: “Never chase busses or women, you’ll always get left behind.”

[KrakenAttackin]

@Exterminatore. Your old man was wise.

[Exterminatore]

Indeed he was.

[KoolKid66]

Because. If she's like me. She thinks no member of the opposite sex wants / desires them... So it's jus a challenge we gotta try and win over someone... So we don't see it as more of a challenge by picking the person you are trying to win over... Because you think it's equally as much of a challenge no matter who you pick since we believe no one wants/ desires us... And that evergoing quest for the feeling of being wanted/ loved overpowers us... We will try til we cry, and then til we die

[Guanfei]

Because girls are extremely competitive and/or can't handle rejection.

If the guy isn't interested because he already has someone, they'll see it as a challenge to win this guy over another girl.
If he's single, they can't accept the rejection. They consider it a favor, even an honor, to ask a guy out, and they won't accept that the guy dares to reject them.

[Anonymous]

For me it was all about my ego. I took pride in showing interest in a guy and wanted him to have interest in return. It felt good having him on me. And when they didn’t I would be upset until I found another guy to fill that void lol. Thank goodness I’m older now and understand.

[ChefPapiChulo]

this probably doesn't happen as often as you think it does. I've tried it and it worked. But it's also not worked a lot of times. Girls lose interest pretty quick. They have plenty of options available. I think what you mean to say is, why do women chase after the same few guys? It has less to do with them not being interested and it being more that they have money or status.

[Anonymous]

Because guys want the interest of the girl he's interested in. Girl a on the other b hand want EVERY GUYS interest. If a woman is chasing that guy it's probably because her ego can'tstand that he's not. So she's going to try to make him.
I've had a few of these. No worries the minute he shows any interest at all she'll drop him flat. Because she doesn't want him. Just his attention.

[atiquahbby]

It's the same with guys too isn't it? There's the thrill of the chase which is more rewarding. The feel that when this person does like me back, it'll be great.
Anyway, if you really like someone it wouldn't matter.

[DizzyDesii]

If i chase someone, its only because they showed interest at a point but seemed too shy to open up. I dont play the shy shit game for long. You better fix yourself by the end of the week or im out

[Nandann]

Because most girls are attention hungry its thier nature to attracted toward crowd and fame and people who give tham less importance girls think about tham most all time and cycle continues

[HOAAH]

Maybe because she finds some kind of "hot" quality in him. In the tv show "never have I ever" she likes him because she just finds him "hot".

[Daniela1982]

The same reason guys chase girls who are not interested. I guess they like the challenge.

[t-8900]

I guess because so many are always told "yes" that "no" they get is a blow to their egos and at the same time exhilarating because it's different.

[sheikalana]

I think for some people is really hard to accept that a certain person is not interested in them.

[tatianamay]

Most girls love challenges. They view those guys as prizes. They're insecure/attention-seekers

[BCA6010]

For the same reasons guys chase women who aren't interested, I would imagine.

[Pumpkinspice009]

Cuz girls want men to give attention to them and if they don’t girls become curious, though it’s not the case always.