Why so many guys refuse to chase any girl even when they are attracted to her?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Chasing girls is dumb. It is only beneficial IF you are trying to work on social skills.
If you want a girlfriend just ask someone to set you up with someone they know or got on tinder or something. Go straight to the girls that want it.

Chasing only benefits the person being chased. They get to be worshipped while the chaser gets nothing. GUYS DONT LIKE THIS. End that myth. We don't naturally like to chase lol. We want someone to reciprocate our feelings.

Don't look for a lot of evidence to move on. In the times I have approached a girl, if she says one thing that tells me she isn't interested I run away. Because I dont want to waste my time and she doesn't deserve any more of my attention because she isn't going to give anything to me. You have to both want it bad. If you dont u will break up more easily. And im not saying breaking up is a bad thing. Guys needs to develop there desire beyond just looks and girls need to be willy to get to know someone they dont know. It's so simple. These 2 things would change the world.

I honestly think girls should do the approaching at this point. Perhaps they too will have to deal with rejection but I imagine it has to be less.

[ValeriusDover]

I can't speak for everyone, but I don't do it because it's no longer socially acceptable for guys to do it in most social situations. I've never asked anyone out, not because I fear rejection, but because I fear getting labeled as a creep. It's not worth having to leave the country and change my identity.

[BasedBaeBecca]

There could be a number of reasons why guys refuse to chase girls they're attracted to, but the most common reasons include fear of rejection or being embarrassed, lack of self-confidence or self-esteem, thinking the girl is out of his league, not wanting to come off as needy or desperate, uncertainty about the girl's feelings or interest, and not wanting to invest too much time and energy into something that may not lead anywhere. It's important to remember that everyone's situation and perspectives are different, and chasing after someone may not be the best option for everyone.

[Anonymous]

Why would they chase and entertain her immature gameplaying? There are thousands of other girls they’re attracted to an may not have to chase. Being attractive doesn’t give you a free pass to behave however you like. I wouldn’t chase a man who’s playing hard to get or other games. Either he wants me and then he needs to show that and deop all games, or it’s whatever and I’m not gonna bother then.

[Anonymous]

Because girls tend to get addicted to being chased and you become one of many. Guys don’t want girls who are too available, but we also take rejection at face value. If you turn away our attempts, we take it as disinterest. If you like a guy, you help him chase you, you don’t actually make him run an obstacle course. We want to court, not chase.

[ProbablyClueless]

Because it sucks. It's a ton of work, you usually get rejected for your effort, the reward when you don't get rejected usually isn't all that great.

[rachel776]

goodness

[ProbablyClueless]

@rachel776 Yeah. And I say this as someone who has a fantastic relationship with women.

[rigmarole]

Either you want a relationship or you don't. Relationships require that people run together, not away from each other.

[BlackJeep]

If he chases that means she running away and it's not worth it.

[dolemite58]

girls are turned off when guys chase. Girls want guys that they’re actually willing to chase.

[In_Trance]

They're not as attracted as you think

[Anonymous]

It's called equality.

[SnowedIn]

Scared of rejection.