I told a guy I liked him and he said he felt uncomfortable does that mean I'm not attractive?

[Anonymous]

[Leslie8gdjgdg]

Nooo... I have had this happen to me before a bunch of times, and I am very pretty. I have dated a lot of hot guys; I know I am attractive. Its not a sign that you are not attractive or that he is not attracted to you. He could see you as a friend. I have seen a lot of attractive guys as just friends. I could see them no other way. or maybe he was sexually assaulted in the past and is uncomfortable; or maybe he has social anxiety; which is common.

[Asker]

He also really enjoyed my nudes 🤷‍♀️

[driven159]

no means he is uncomfortable a lot of people are like that takes time to be secure

[Ryfyle]

No it means society is fucked and you played a role in it. He's calling a lawyer right now just in case you press rape charges against him.

[Wise4myage]

That's very possible.

[Asker]

Why did he enjoy my nudes then

[Wise4myage]

Good question. I say ask him.

[In_Trance]

in his eyes, possibly

[Asker]

But yet he goes crazy for my nudes

[In_Trance]

he goes crazy for everybody's nudes

[Asker]

he's probably just a jersey guy trying to lower my confidence

[In_Trance]

lowering of confidence is never a goal. if it happens, it happens; he doesn't care

[xJayleenx]

No that just means that he doesn’t feel the same

[bewilderedunfiltered]

Maybe he is not ready

[rabbitzzz]

To him