Why won’t my boyfriend (currently locked up) sext with me ever or initiate it?

[Anonymous]

PS: we communicate through email / the securus app.

I do it send really intimate detailed intense, fifty shades of gray type of stuff he used to send them back a year or so ago now he will pretend to have fallen asleep or even ignore me for literal days or he will send a half efforted sentence or two back … like he used to be REALLY into it but never initiate; he said before he doesn’t ask for sexy pics because he doesn’t want me to think that’s all this is about nowadays but he hints for sexy pics / videos a lot and he used to ask. But why doesn’t he like sexting?

[ohshee]

Well first of i think i love you..

No I think it's great that you like to do that especially if it's in detail I don't have any clue why a guy would not want to do that and fire back at you with just as much or more detail when your girlfriend wants to do this with you you do it just to get her hot and steamy maybe he doesn't have that desire that passion inside of him I don't know for me I would I would have sent you two books already by now LOL it's kind of a foreplay in a roundabout way and I think it's I think he's silly for not doing it because he just doesn't know how hard it is to find a girl that likes to do that does hero play does he have phone sex phone sex is super hot phone sex you can actually have a better orgasm than you can making love that's guaranteed to I don't know you should ask him because that's is weird

[wankiam]

maybe he worries that his texts are monitored or maybe he is just no good at it or whats more likely, he just doesn't really want to get himself overly horny given his present situation... i mean whats he going to do with a massive hard on in a mens prison?

[PrettyPriya]

Some people just don't like to sext. I don't. I find it awkward. I'm complete rubbish at it.

[TerryBlaise]

Some guys don't like speaking and more action I guess

[Anonymous]

What is your boyfriend locked up for? Were you dating him before this happened?

[Anonymous]

He hasn't got the heart to tell you he's fallen for his cellmate

[sheikalana]

OMG LOL.

[Anonymous]

Too much prison sex. It's not gay if your being raped.

[MrtoddsWildRide]

You know the staff reads that right?

[Wise4myage]

Maybe he feels frustrated?

[FearlessHero7]

We men are visual creatures

[Asker]

Because he can’t see it he doesn’t care to keep hearing about it you mean?

[FearlessHero7]

I dont understand what you wrote

[Anonymous]

Are you really that fucking dumb?

[Asker]

No I’m not…

[Opinion Owner]

He doesn't want the other inmates and security guards to see him sexting and he doesn't want to be walking around prison or his cell or the yard woth a boner in gis jumpsuit. It's an open invitation to get buttfucked and raped while behind bars

[Opinion Owner]

And he doesn't want the other inmates and security guards to know about you it can be dangerous and put you in unnecessary danger if they found out who you are

[Opinion Owner]

And they can use anything on you against him to start fights with him making false rumors up how you're banging other guys behind his back while he's locked up. You don't have the slightest clue what really takes place in those type of environments and the possible dangers that can take place

[Opinion Owner]

You don't have the slightest clue and only think with that hole between your legs getting stuffed with cock rather then using what little brains god gave you